Quote by Peanut
I'm just me.
I like being independent.
is that another word for lonely
but for those of you claiming not to want to belong to a group yet they have over 2000 replies on cafe forum are fooling themselves...
I reckon your post says more about you and your values (and fears?) than it does about Cherry's.
For some people, like me, being on your own without any desire or instinct to socialise or be in a group is perfectly normal. In fact it's abnormal for us to be part of a group. It's just the way our brain's are wired.
By and large human beings are gregarious and social creatures but that does not mean that they all are. It's very obvious in this forum who the belongs and who the not belongs are but both groups are behaving perfectly normally.
you really expect anyone to believe that theory,you know thats total bollox....the fact that one belongs to a group doesnt mean they loose there right to execrise their independent thoughts or have to abide by any regulations,ask yourself why do you think everytime there is someone new in the forum, regulars welcome them,the birthday threads,conguralution threads,get well threads...well you will deny it but its a fact you are a recognised member of cafe stop kidding yourself
Perhaps you should read up on autism before coming to your conclusions. Conclusions which constantly demonstrate your inability to see beyond your own point of view.
I don't consider myself as part of any group, SH included. If you looked at any of the welcome threads you won't see my name in them, you'll rarely see them in birthday postings or any of the congratulatory threads.
I post a lot and attend here predominantly because of OCD not because of a desire to belong. When I leave I'll just go, there won't be any goodbyes etc.
If you knew me at all you would not have come to the conclusion you came to, but then that's usually your problem with regard to a lot of your postings.
stop kidding yourself, why would you post a comment on steamroom about your daughter being made reduntant if you didnt consider yourself part of this forum.....
but the most pathetic thing about you is no matter the topic ,you always feel there is a need to try and make conclusion about my character and my personality,well you are wasting your time ill never change my life to please you,am what am if you dont like it thats your problem!so stick to the issues on debates....
