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Phuckers
1 month ago
Straight Male, 53
0 miles · Hereford and Worcester

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Quote by Misskitty_2008
I used to get stuck with organising it, packing and unpacking both ends... carrying the passports etc.. and I had to go where he wanted...
I much prefer staying in England...
On the other paw, it can be an experience, I have had a couple of brilliant holidays in Tunisia, it honestly depends on where you stay... the internet is a good place to get ideas on what you want..
I wish you the best and hope you have a great time!

i live 20 mins drive from wales,its a place i go when i want to breathe fresh natural air up on the top hills of abergavenny beautiful and homely restuarants..doesnt cost much
Quote by helnheaven
Why dont we just introduce the death penalty and have done with it?? rolleyes
Maybe we could have public humiliation for less serious 'crimes'. On second thoughts some may enjoy that lol
I know someone with some 'stocks' anyone got any rotten fruit?
Someone tell me this thread is 'tongue in cheek' purleeeese

death sentence why didnt i think of that! lol
Quote by jaymar
Kangaroo Courts are dangerous. I used to work in the court system and for legal reasons I cannot go into detail but believe me, they are dangerous and I'm talking death here. I realise that's a bit extreme when you're trying to be light hearted Phuckers, well I think you are confused but really things like that should be left to the professionals, or in this case, the Mods.
Maybe the old "think twice" before posting thread would work better, I know I adopt that, very much so I muse ideas in my head before posting, quite often resulting in not posting at all if I think it could cause bother or upset.
Maturity works better than anything else and the ability to 'agree to disagree'.
Oh and have fun, like Winey says, the fun factor is far more important.

my lightheard is extreme? dunno
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Hi Phukers
This is a link to a thread I put on a while back Along the same lines in a way. lol
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/269381.html

huh brilliant thanks for the link,at least i know i havent got a nut loose..do you fancy a dummy trial?
Quote by __random_orbit__
Court?
Hell no!
:rifle:
:scope:
lp

see you in court
Quote by Sarcasticcupid
I should be made a mod

great have got myself a lawyer
long time no see
Ive been in prison
false terror charges
Im never leaving the house with a beard again
lol have just seen this,42days must have flown!
Quote by MikeNorth

Should SH introduce kangaroo court?

Kangaroo court
Meaning:
An unauthorized, bogus court.
Kangaroo courts are sham legal proceedings which are set-up in order to give the impression of a fair legal process. In fact, they offer no impartial justice as the verdict, invariably to the detriment of the accused, is decided in advance.
from:

Are you sure that's what you mean? :shock:
make of it what you please!
Quote by Sarcasticcupid
I should be made a mod

great have got myself a lawyer
long time no see
Quote by Freckledbird

of course but there is nothing i would gain from this,like i said the mods are doing a great job,but sometimes i read old archives with very good debating taking place on a thread but shocked to find out it was lock because of a misunderstanding,misinterpretation or two parties just started their old rows on it,so in like cases this is why i suggest a thread can be suspended, the issue be dealt with and some comments be deleted if necessary to allow the discussions to carry on.

The mods do that too. They remove posts which might upset/offend people, or posts that already have. One did just that the other day.
can that be the one i questioned why a certain single male has picture of female on his profile while mine where deleted???
Quote by bbw_lover
this might turn out to be a childish or a mistake but so is most discoveries
well this is just something am suggesting(proposing),that we introduce a form of a court system on this forum whereby if there is two people or parties confronting and snapping at each other which as a result affect the flow of debates or locking of threads
but i hope it will not undermine the rules and regulation or the powers of the Admin/mod to execrises their duties on this site.
this i also hope will help reduce aggressive and abusive language which i am ashamed to admit have been both guilty of and a victim to...
so my question to the panel is if this make shift court were to go ahead can you suggest how it should run?...the NO votes are very welcome thanks

Not really sure what you want to acheive from this. The Mods already do a great job, and you cannot prevent people from having heated debates, sometimes that's part of the fun as this can be mentally challenging.
If and when comments become too personal other members in the forum usually manage to defuse the situation, otherwise the Mods come in and do their jobs in their normal efficient manner.
So I cannot really understand where this is going.
confused confused confused
of course but there is nothing i would gain from this,like i said the mods are doing a great job,but sometimes i read old archives with very good debating taking place on a thread but shocked to find out it was lock because of a misunderstanding,misinterpretation or two parties just started their old rows on it,so in like cases this is why i suggest a thread can be suspended, the issue be dealt with and some comments be deleted if necessary to allow the discussions to carry on.
Quote by Freckledbird
this might turn out to be a childish or a mistake but so is most discoveries
well this is just something am suggesting(proposing),that we introduce a form of a court system on this forum whereby if there is two people or parties confronting and snapping at each other which as a result affect the flow of debates or locking of threads
but i hope it will not undermine the rules and regulation or the powers of the Admin/mod to execrises their duties on this site.
this i also hope will help reduce aggressive and abusive language which i am ashamed to admit have been both guilty of and a victim to...
so my question to the panel is if this make shift court were to go ahead can you suggest how it should run?...the NO votes are very welcome thanks

That's what mods are here for.
yes i understand and respect their responsibilities,it must be hard for them because they have to read all threads even if they dont like the some topics, just like police they can maintain order but this thing am suggesting will help ressolve issues among members and probably unite them
Quote by Ukwineman
i like your style in trying to introduce something, but this is supposed to be a place of fun.
sounds too much like the goverment looking over my shoulder, if you get my drift.
I know why you trying to do it and have read al the threads and you have some valid points, personally i tend to just ignore certain threads and things some people have said.
Like i said i come here for fun, so thats a big no from me cool

oh i do find it fun too,my view on this is after the hearing people can forget and carry on having fun..valid point thanks
Quote by anais
Heck no, leave it to Admin/Mods/ops... :shock:
You do come up with some strange ones phuckers :lol2: :lol2:

lol let me be the village madman,this should be a laugh and good drama if it works out
i would suggest the admin appoint a mod to precised over the case and two independent persons help in court process...a time and date be alocated for live delebrations whereby members can act as witness and jury by providing scripted evidence
verdict must be honoured and respected
but i hope a ban will not be used in sentensing
this might turn out to be a childish or a mistake but so is most discoveries
well this is just something am suggesting(proposing),that we introduce a form of a court system on this forum whereby if there is two people or parties confronting and snapping at each other which as a result affect the flow of debates or locking of threads
but i hope it will not undermine the rules and regulation or the powers of the Admin/mod to execrises their duties on this site.
this i also hope will help reduce aggressive and abusive language which i am ashamed to admit have been both guilty of and a victim to...
so my question to the panel is if this make shift court were to go ahead can you suggest how it should run?...the NO votes are very welcome thanks
Quote by robhambledon
Democracy?...you don`t live in a Democracy if you thinkthat you are then the politicians have done their jobs and have well and truly pulled the wool over your eyes.
as to the irish vote...did not the French and germans vote against the European Treaty ( read Lisbon Treaty) unfortunately the pro european politicians within most of the union countries are in the majority in positions of power and are determined to push through a european super state come what may... so I re-iterate Democracy what Democracy!!!

French and Dutch
Quote by tomu
I think the EU is a very very good thing. I just wrote a massively long email arguing with a lot of the points above, and then I'd timed out by the time I came to send it. Which is probably a good thing, because I don't REALLY want to get into a slanging match. But I did just want to say before I go to sleep - yes - at least someone on here thinks it's good.
Oh, couldn't resist this one though:
If we live in one of the most democratic countries in the world, God knows what some of the others are like.

Zimbabwe, for a start. Have you read about what is going on there right now?
Oh, and America, actually. And let's not forget China. Or actually most of South America, Africa and Asia.
Actually, most countries outside the EU are markedly less democratic than most countries inside it. Wonder if that's a coincidence.
am 50/50 on this issue,since the Irish NO vote was just a small margin of 53.4% to 46.6% with the lowest voters turn out of just over 40% ,i would be interested to know the reasons why you are supporting this lisbon treaty...make it short if you may to avoid time
Quote by Phuckers
i wont go into details why we use condom,but what would your reaction or view be if you find out that your partner has secretly got a pack of condoms on their possesion while you practice mutual unprotected sex....

well the 24hour tantrum is over!
As i mentioned before i will not waste another second trying to explain the quoted article which i used the simplest english that even an uneducated blithering fool who hasnt seen the inside of a classroom could make out what i meant... got the answers which i was looking for so thanks for all who contributed
however
am astonished by the level at which some individuals would go to blindly support others just to secure their friendship,yes its adviceable to back u friends but this is a forum where we play with words,i personally believe a health or heated debate can occur in a group and people still maintain their friendship
but why would someone try to gag me for talking about couples carrying condoms just because am single,that i dont understand....havent taken anything personal hope you to
well am off to see about a dog,i have a proposal how to minimise all this snapping at each other,which i would kindly beg for your suggestions or refusal'
see you after the portugal v German match
Good evening!
_________________
confrotation is not one of my fetish!
this is my last line on the forum,have always enjoyed it because of the challenge but i think its getting out of hand
bye everyone its not worth the trouble
Quote by Freckledbird

i thought you are the teacher

OK, I bow down to your superior intellect. Ask the question in clear English and maybe people won't be confused.
i dont understand your question
Quote by winchwench
Phuckers, do you mean the unprotected sex is between the couple, who have consentual protected sex with others?

am afraid i will not spend another minute explaining myself,long term forumist like you should encourage constructive discussion not persistantly asking silly questions....
Quote by Freckledbird
to help those who are having a problem understanding the question ill give you a little illustration...
as a swinger in this case you and your partner,have protected sex with other couples ,then you suddenly find out your partner secretly has another pack already opened but different brand from the one you normally use,..how would you feel.....

Quote by Phuckers
i wont go into details why we use condom,but what would your reaction or view be if you find out that your partner has secretly got a pack of condoms on their possesion while you practice mutual unprotected sex....

Hang on, is the sex with others protected or unprotected? If you're confused, there's no wonder others are!
those two qoutes are totally different am afraid you are beyond my help
Exactly. But you posted the second one to illustrate the first for us poor people who didn't understand dunno
I'll ignore the comment about me being beyond your help!
i thought you are the teacher
Quote by Freckledbird
to help those who are having a problem understanding the question ill give you a little illustration...
as a swinger in this case you and your partner,have protected sex with other couples ,then you suddenly find out your partner secretly has another pack already opened but different brand from the one you normally use,..how would you feel.....

Quote by Phuckers
i wont go into details why we use condom,but what would your reaction or view be if you find out that your partner has secretly got a pack of condoms on their possesion while you practice mutual unprotected sex....

Hang on, is the sex with others protected or unprotected? If you're confused, there's no wonder others are!
those two qoutes are totally different am afraid you are beyond my help
to help those who are having a problem understanding the question ill give you a little illustration...
as a swinger in this case you and your partner,have protected sex with other couples ,then you suddenly find out your partner secretly has another pack already opened but different brand from the one you normally use,..how would you feel.....
Quote by helnheaven

As practising swingers how can anyone in this thread say they'd be mortified?

I can lol See earlier post :giggle:
Sorry I just find it a very strange question unless of course, Im not understanding the OP and the gist of the question. dunno
this is your second response to the thread how comes all over sudden you dont understand the question????
Quote by jameybruce
I studied sociology a year or two ago (ok, decade or so if anyone wants to be picky) and this was one of the topics then, and opinions were as mixed then as now.
I work, hubby works, our children work. Therefore working class. We all own our own homes, have had university education (except jamey, a graduate of the university of life and hard knocks) and could therefore be said to have had middle class aspirations. But does it matter? Who cares these days about social divisions? I teach and hopefully all the little darlings who pass through the school will have no worries about class division, ethnicity, gender and glass ceilings.
If I'm shagged by one of prince charlies boys does the resulting offspring become posh and upper class or does it stay a pleb? lol

:thumbup:
after looking forward to italy v france,what a boring game,looking forward to the next Holland match
Quote by kentswingers777
sorry i laughed,but to me having steam room as a permanent sticky topic was just a drepressive move,..yes i know it gave members chance to share and console each other on their short falls and bad days,but sometimes it was abused by attention seekers with their sympathy stunts which makes me wonder if they actually have real friends and families or just swinging friends....
i would personally propose to have shiny happy people thread permanently on sticky listing which will give people having bad day a chance to be cheered up or just a smile but if you have a problem post a personal thread where members can assist with advice
apart from shredding me.. are you happy steamroom is gone,yes or no...i acknowledge it was a corner stone of the forum.
have a nice day everyone remember to lock your fuel tanks

why do you continue to take pot shots at people in post after post after post...I hardly reply to anything you post in now because it is the same routine... tired,stale and quite frankly boring
i think we all get that there are certain people you don't like... but making generalisations about certains groups of people who do certain things isn't helping your case
I thought you might finally have learnt and taken in a few of the things said in the abuse thread.... sadly it looks like it went in one ear and straight out the other
Fabio with respect....I do not know what has been said in the past but he does have the right to his views. Now saying that if he breaks the AUP then that is another matter, of which am sure admin would deal with.
Some people views on here of course upset others but....luckily we do still have the freedom of speach and to air our views whether they fall in line with others or not.
I have read some very strong views and topics they get peoples backs up but it is a Forum, which means good and bad. If I read a topic I have the right to either reply or to ignore a member says annoying things then maybe a good idea would be to ignore it and move onto another topic. :shock:
democracy at last