Yeah I get that it’s perfectly normal. Cos being a guy all I want to do is unload. Though once someone has swallowed and is coaxing the ‘last drops’ out of you it’s like a ‘completion’. Mind you they have to be a bit gentle 😂.

I thought a lot about what you said ……….. in truth I want to swallow but it’s a challenge. I too love the eruption and the reaction, that is also a massive turn on for me too. I have come to the conclusion (no pun intended) that to swallow is completion of the ‘act’ a sharing of the moment …….. and really horny. I will do it next time I have the opportunity.
Interesting that you say you turned Bi, I am wondering if M&W are both wired to have sex with their own gender and a lot of the time we don’t is because of social stigma. Took me decades to get to that little gem 😂. Though now I look to men for fun it’s been a very gradual process. ……… I loved it when my mate came in my mouth …. So horny but I couldn’t bring myself to swallow. I think it’s like steps and in the moment. Now I want to swallow and am still looking for someone to do that. I just know that if you follow through it makes the other persons experience so much better. My first experience was in an adult cinema and the guy unselfishly sucked me until I came and didn’t stop until I had finished and so had he!. It’s absolutely amazing having that kind of experience. Still my best experience yet.
My results … though not many have been about 50/50. Sometimes it’s spur of the moment sometimes they either just don’t like it then their are the gems that love it. I also have found that it is 50/50 amongst m&f. When you find someone who will it’s amazing. Men’s are as good as women it’s all down to if you really want to. From someone to swallow it can be the best sensation ever especially if they continue until they have swallowed everything. It’s so fucking intimate more so than fucking for me.
I can’t think of a better time to have a sexual conversation with someone than when you have your cock in them. If they are turned on you are ahead of the game and they are receptive. I have found that attempting to have a sexual conversation when neither of you are turned on is a challenge and she could feel pressured. Seemed to me a woman about to orgasm I’d going to agree to anything as long as she cums …. Then at least you have a ‘lead’ to start a sexual conversation after …. Like ‘well while you were cumming you liked the idea’ at least you might get a more honest and unpressured answer.?