Thanks,
We'd love to go to a SH sponsored event but we're very keen to stick to couples only nights (to begin with at least) so definitely going to start with a Saturday night.
Hope you have fun.
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Prof_cpl
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Forum Virgin
Hi All,
We're thinking about trying out AbFabs for the first time in the next few weeks on a couples night (we're thinking 10th October) and wondered if there are any regulars on here who might be interested in meeting up there and showing us round. We're happy to go on our own but it would be nice to know there are a few people going that we've spoken to first.
We're also worried that there won't be people of a similar age to us so we'd particularly like to hear from couples in the 25-45 age range (we're both 37), but that's not the most important thing to us. We just want to meet some nice couples, have a drink and hopefully some naughty fun. We're not completely new to this thanks to a recent trip to Cap d' Agde, but we haven't been to any UK clubs yet.
Anyway, just send us a message if you're interested
We're thinking about trying out AbFabs for the first time in the next few weeks on a couples night (we're thinking 10th October) and wondered if there are any regulars on here who might be interested in meeting up there and showing us round. We're happy to go on our own but it would be nice to know there are a few people going that we've spoken to first.
We're also worried that there won't be people of a similar age to us so we'd particularly like to hear from couples in the 25-45 age range (we're both 37), but that's not the most important thing to us. We just want to meet some nice couples, have a drink and hopefully some naughty fun. We're not completely new to this thanks to a recent trip to Cap d' Agde, but we haven't been to any UK clubs yet.
Anyway, just send us a message if you're interested
Forum Virgin
Thanks, we won't be getting there till about the 13th unfortunately so I hope it's not dead. I think I read that things like the foam parties had finished by then but can't find any more info.
I had also read a lot about Jardin du eden, but I couldn't find where to book it. None of the hotel sites seemed to allow bookings there and a Google search didn't show up a site for them. I assumed it might be closed or something. We had planned on staying at the oz inn but people seemed to think that was dead at the best of times...
Edit: Sorry ignore that. I must have got confused because I just found their site under.
I had also read a lot about Jardin du eden, but I couldn't find where to book it. None of the hotel sites seemed to allow bookings there and a Google search didn't show up a site for them. I assumed it might be closed or something. We had planned on staying at the oz inn but people seemed to think that was dead at the best of times...
Edit: Sorry ignore that. I must have got confused because I just found their site under.
Forum Virgin
Hi,
First time using the forums so please be gentle
My wife and I have never done any "public" swinging, although we've had a bit of fun with friends over the years. We're actually going on holiday to Spain next week and we're thinking of trying a few days at cap d'agde on the way back. It looks like a nice (safe) place to try out a swingers club for the first time. We do have a few questions though which I can't find any answers on here. That's probably because they're either too dumb or funny for anybody to ask but I obviously have no shame so I'm just going to come straight out and ask....
1) First of all, is mid september too late to bother going to cap d'agde? I heard it pretty much shuts up shop in October?
2) If everybody is naked all the time then where do people keep their money, hotel keys etc? I don't mind being naked as I've enjoyed nudist beaches before but we've always taken a load of stuff with us in bags.
3) So, let's say we're in a club and things get... interesting. Where do people get condoms from and err... what do they do with them after they've been used?
4) Assuming people are clothed before the fun starts where does everybody put their clothes? Do clubs like le glamour have lockers?
5) We're mid 30s. Are we going to find everybody either much younger or older than us?
6) My wife looks great, buy I'm a bit overweight (fairly chubby, not massive though). I'm fine with people of every size and shape but will it make it harder (no pun intented) to find new friends to have fun with? (please be honest, I won't be offended).
I'm sure there will be more questions but let's try those first :)
First time using the forums so please be gentle
My wife and I have never done any "public" swinging, although we've had a bit of fun with friends over the years. We're actually going on holiday to Spain next week and we're thinking of trying a few days at cap d'agde on the way back. It looks like a nice (safe) place to try out a swingers club for the first time. We do have a few questions though which I can't find any answers on here. That's probably because they're either too dumb or funny for anybody to ask but I obviously have no shame so I'm just going to come straight out and ask....
1) First of all, is mid september too late to bother going to cap d'agde? I heard it pretty much shuts up shop in October?
2) If everybody is naked all the time then where do people keep their money, hotel keys etc? I don't mind being naked as I've enjoyed nudist beaches before but we've always taken a load of stuff with us in bags.
3) So, let's say we're in a club and things get... interesting. Where do people get condoms from and err... what do they do with them after they've been used?
4) Assuming people are clothed before the fun starts where does everybody put their clothes? Do clubs like le glamour have lockers?
5) We're mid 30s. Are we going to find everybody either much younger or older than us?
6) My wife looks great, buy I'm a bit overweight (fairly chubby, not massive though). I'm fine with people of every size and shape but will it make it harder (no pun intented) to find new friends to have fun with? (please be honest, I won't be offended).
I'm sure there will be more questions but let's try those first :)
