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Rachel80
6 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 68
Bisexual Female, 64
0 miles · Birmingham

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Rather than negativity towards a particular band why not tell us what your tastes are? sad
I think that the type of music an individual enjoys tells something of that person. As people visit this site to meet people then knowing musical taste is another piece to the jigsaw of picture we build up of people who post in this forum. :P
Rachel
To expand on one Wilma states. My Grandfather lived by this, and it does not come easily.
If you can't say anything good about someone, then say nothing about them at all.
Rachel
bluexxx, sgt bilko - I'm clubbing with you two wink Where are we going?
Rachel biggrin
For me Rachel Stevens and Kylie. Paul (hubby) prefers her sister Danni, he used to stop the world for Jamie Lee Curtis, but says she is too old now - sorry Jamie Lee.
Rachel
I am so glad that Squeeze has already had a mention. Lost count how many times I saw them live biggrin
Current fav' bands have to be Travis (got my ticket for a week on Weds) and Coldplay.
Rachel
I frequent a site called Vanilla & Spice. It is a site where people into bondage, discipline, S&M, chastity, dominance and submissiveness, and spiritual and romantic formulas for unusual meet.
If you are interested try
or for the forum.
Rachel
I've used 'Nair' on Paul this afternoon, no problems, and very effective wink
Rachel
We have been to Chameleons once, so here is my little bit of advice....
The car park is dark and descrete, with a security chappy.
When you first go in the door you register/pay in the little lobby. They will take your drinks from you, and lable them, then put them behind the bar. You just ask for them as you want them. You pay for any soft drinks you buy on your way out.
Don't worry about what to wear, you will be given a towel when you go in. Some women chose to wear sexy undies, many people were wrapped in a towel.
You then walk in! One of the very friendly staff will show you where to change, (there are lockers for your belongings), and breifly show you where things are.
Take your time, have a wonder around and a look at what is going on, enjoy a drink in the bar area, which is where you are most likely to get chatting with others... then just go with the flow.
There are toilets, showers and rubbish bins.
We went on a Saturday, couples only, which were thought would suit us best. We also phoned the club a couple of times beforehand with questions, which helped to calm the nerves a little. We will be going again, it is all a question of getting a baby sitter (not an easy thing these days sad )
Go and have fun, and let us all know how you got on. wink
Rachel
Well done Mark on all your hard work.
The new look is stunning :shock:
Like several other I thought I had got on to the wrong site when it opened up. After finding my way around again, I had to post a reply to see what changes have happened here too!
Rachel
Lager - Stella being my first choice. :cheers:
Wine, red or white, Australian (Rosemount Estate) or Italian (Soave). wink
Vodka and coke, sometimes with Tia Maria in it too :shock:
Definate no, no to Gin :cry: it makes me cry redface
Rachel :P
I'm with you davidd03, excellent!
My other favorite is a bit of a girlie cliche perhaps, but I make no appologies for it: Gone with the Wind, Margaret Mitchell's only book of course.
Rachel
Paul and I had a very similar conversation the other day after I heard that they are holding some form of audition for the next series. They've done singles, so a house full of couples would be more interesting, however swinging couples is stating the obvious. How about couples who are not known swingers - how long would it be before they started swinging?
for those who are asking about about what products are best, we've tried them all :shock: and have decided that 'Nair' in the White and Green bottle is the best for both of us, usually needs leaving on the max stated time. wink
I side with bluexxx wink
But I do often wonder why we have hair in those places, what is the use of it? confused
Any ideas I will read with great interest. smile
Rachel
My first record was Rolf Harris, Two Little Boys (cringe). redface
I remember buying it in WHSmith, Corporation Street, Birmingham. The shop had wooden floors and lots of booths for listen to the records in. I think I paid 7/6d for it. I have another clear memory of my girl friends and I singing it while standing in the cue for dinners at school. :karaoke:
there is NOTHING beautiful about the M6, but it has it's uses :shock:
Well I am here, hope my presence has helped in the record breaking attempt biggrin
Rachel
Count us in too. We are looking forward to meeting people. Can help with arrangements if you need help, just PM or email us. wink
Rachel & Paul
Count me in for the testing biggrin I could review the ones I already have to start the ball rolling if you want :shock:
Rachel wink
I know the definition of cuckolding and I do not have a problem with it. However I am wondering if there is an equivalent word for a man who is being dominated, held in chastity and restrained by his wife while she is with another women. She would make her husband watch and possibly clean up afterwards, or be used in whatever manner the women want?
Does anyone know if there is a specific word for the situation confused:
Thanks
Rachel
Thanks Sappho, it's been a couple of days since I checked out the story section redface It is a good one, and it looks like I have some more catching up to do.
Rachel
No I haven't ever been picked up on a train. sad However I get the feeling that you are asking a leading question here Twisted Sister.... do you have a story you would like to share with us confused: lol :shock: :twisted:
Rachel
I am surprised to find that no one has made any comment about the article in issue 24 18 November - 1 December Real Magazine. The front page screamed at me as I walked passed the rack this evening "Sexy or Seedy? Swinging is Back" Obviously I bought the magazine (only £1) and have read the article to find that our very own web master Mark, and his lovely wife Helen contributed to this piece, and naturally this site is mentioned. You kept that quiet Mark confused
The item in the magazine, while well written is relatively tame; and for people who visit here you will not learn anything you did not already know.
I must confess to being particularily curious about this as just about a year ago Paul and I were 'interviewed' via the phone about male chastity for the same magazine (different journalist). We were treated to a couple of hours in a very posh hotel at Easter for a photo shoot, and were told the article would be published in June. Alas we were not included, they did do a thing on chastity, but it was exceptionally tame and purely about female chastity. So tell me Mark and Helen, (please satisfy my curiosity) how long ago were you interviewed for this?
Rachel
My hubby Paul had a PA 16 months ago. It took a long time for both of us agree to it at the same time, then find a place that came recommended. We live in Birmingham so I guess that is out of your range. It was nerve racking for both of us when he had it done however it was all ok, healed well, no problems. Paul did write a long piece about his experience which I can't find at the moment, :doh: but if you are really interested PM me and I will try harder to find it and can send it to you. Now we both love it. I like the look of it, and in some sexual positions it is an extra stimulant for me, in others I can't feel it. Oral is ok if you don't mind the feel of the metal on your teeth :shock:
One slight dissapointment is that we have had difficulty in finding alternative decorative jewllery for it. :cry:
As for me being pierced - er..... NO!!!!!!!!! (apart fro my ears, you know the old fashioned place LOL) blink
We are the couple who posted about our first time at Chameleons.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/2872.html
We placed a photo ad (without a photo confused ) and received an email from a couple who travel 130 miles to go to Chameleons. We exchanged a few emails and arranged to meet them there. Arranging to meet a couple there certainly made it easier for us. Because we were in a club where there were many other couples we didn't have to stay with the couple all evening (however we did wink )
We went to Chameleons last night, our first time at a club. We were very nervous but in no doubt that we were going to go and not bottle out at the last minute. We can understand why it takes people some time to finally get the nerve up to go; it’s all the not knowing what to expect. We had made contact with people on this site a few weeks ago that help us with some advice by e-mail. We arranged to meet them at the club, we could have met at a pub first but we opted to meet at the club. We felt that we needed to walk through that door for the first time without any help from others. We got their 30 minutes before our friends so that we could just take a look at the place and chat with each other. The staff are great, pleasant helpful and busy, but they showed us the way to the locker room, told us about the club and anything we wanted to know.
We’d exchanged photos with our friends by e-mail so we knew who we were looking out for and as soon as they walked in we introduced ourselves to them. They had two friends with them that they had been to the club with before. We had a drink (a large in my case) to steady the nerves. We where quite surprised how relaxed we were and how pleasant the atmosphere was. Our friends showed us around the club a bit later and some how we all ended up playing. We went to the club with no expectations whatsoever, our deal was just to go and have a look and go with the flow. So we were surprised to find ourselves enjoying our friends company more than we had expected. So now we are swingers like many of you. We are still in shock I think! and wondering what’s next. We need to recover from last night and then decide if swinging is for us but judging by the smile on Rachel’s face I think we will be going again soon.
The club was nice, warm and friendly not to big but big enough, lots of couples but not over packed. All in all I would say that they have got it just about right.
Paul & Rachel
On the same lines as hedonism Rachel and I are planning on going to Chameleons Darlaston, West Midlands for the first time on the 18th October. Now we understand that going on a Saturday couples only night may be our best option but is Chameleons the right place to start? Like all things new it will probably turn out to be a ‘much ado about nothing’ but no matter how much I try to make light of it I seem to be fighting against the smallest of detail. Like do people wear anything on there feet, sounds silly but I hate walking bare foot. Rachel phoned the club to find out what to wear “towels” that’s fine but what do you do with your money, meaning when I want a drink at the bar. I’m sure we will be well looked after whichever way we go on the night but I get the feeling that I need to get the first night over and done with just to learn the ropes as so to speak.
We are just to new to this,
Help Paul LoL
Sorry Rachel and I share the same computer at home so get mixed up with our log in names