I'm new round here, so please excuse my ignorance... is there a recognised symbol for swingers?
I know a little about the D/s scene, and if I were to meet a woman with a key on a chain around her neck I would have a good idea about her life style. Is there an equivalent for swingers?
Rachel
Cuckolding is practiced among the BDSM community. The Dominant woman uses it as a form of tease and denial for her submissive male. Some subs are restrained and made to watch, others are restrained in another room knowing what is happening. It can be taken to all sorts of lengths and extremes :shock:
Rachel
My wife Rachel recorded the swingers Kilroy program that morning so she could sit me down in the evening to watch it with her. It was all her idea and her way to put the idea of meeting other couples to me. I watched with interest and I must say with excitement too. We followed with a very open chat about Rachel’s sexual needs and how I felt about involving other people in our sex life. I have known for some time that Rachel would like a sexual experience with a woman but not at the cost of loosing or hurting me. Listening to the people on the pro side of swinging gave us direction. It was so good to hear how much of their own marriage remains strong and in most cases even stronger though being open and enjoying life together and with others.
Rachel and I (Paul) have a very good kinky sex life anyway but its time that Rachel’s interest in other women was given a chance. I am very happy to help and support Rachel go forward. We want to get involved with the scene, we live in Birmingham have two young kids that would need to be cared for while we are out but want to go for it.
So where do we start? We are very interested in meeting couples for a drink and maybe take it from there. Our biggest problem is not knowing where to go and how to go about it. Is there a munch type of thing that we could join? Can somebody help us on our way?
Paul & Rachel