lockdown has only emphased that you never know what is around the corner. So as the years go by for those of us in the mature stage of life there is every reason to make things happen. 

Am married and sadly the cliche of an evaporating sex life does apply. I accept that some men would be happy to just get on with life without but I chose to do things differently and a site like this is a good non judgemental place to start. I am a friendly chap, retired, good natured and have a good sense of humour. 

My wife is aware that I still want to enjoy sex and that I am looking to find like minded people. All she asks is for me to be discrete.

Have no idea whether this will lead to anything but we will be in lockdown for a while so I have time and am patient.