Hi, first time at this so be gentle. I live in South West England, I'm 53 and class myself as a 'straight male', but more on this later. I'm not highly intelligent, but not a dunce either. I enjoy a good laugh and get on well with most people I meet and work with. I have never smoked but I enjoy a pint now and then and a glass of the red stuff too. I have no piercings or tattoos am clean and disease free and have every intention of staying that way. I'm not fat, but not skinny either.

I have a long term partner who is my best friend and I would do nothing to harm her, but, sexually we have drifted apart and there are experiences that I have yet to cross off my sexual wish list and that's why I have joined SH.

I have never had a threesome, sex outdoors, anal sex (giving or taking) been with two women or watched another couple. These are some of the things on my wish list before I'm too old or too dead to do anything about them.

When I was in my early teens I did have some sexual experiences with another guy which I quite enjoyed at the time (for further information on this, just mail me) and I don't rule out doing something like this again, but I don't fancy men, come onto them or want a man coming on to me, one on one with a guy is out, but in the right circumstances I don't rule out having some fun with the guy when with a couple.

The most important things are cleanliness, to respect peoples boundaries and be discrete.

I hope to find some couples and single women for some no strings fun. I can't accommodate and I would like to get to know people before intimacy. Daytimes are best for me.

I love to read about peoples experiencies so please tell me about the fun you've had.