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She swings I swing, but not together. We talk about it but not what we have done. She know, she knows I know. The rules seem to have built themselves over the years. She prefers not to know my what, who, where, when. I would like to swing together, we respect each other wishes.
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OK , we have talked about swinging, my wife will not talk about what she and I have done, she will not go swinging with me. She even refuses to talk about me finding what a guy left behind.
..........and I would like to go to a party with her..........does that tell you how much we love?
No it does not does it not. Love is in the head a concept without physical form which we all struggle to understand.
Right - can i ask you a question or three.....
Firstly - did you both used to swing before you met?
Did you meet on the swinging scene?
And if the both above are no, then how on earth did you end up swinging seperatly?
Who brough it up/went...(or not as the case may be).. first?
Not wishing to judge you or your relationship or the quality of the love that you have between you.....BUT.... this does somewhat seem to me to be a rather "strange" position that you are in. Are you sure you aren't both going off sleeping with other people just to hurt eachother because neither of you really wants to be doing it, and only are to "get back at" eachother.?!?!?!
I remain
Highly Confused
RM2
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He is 32 and WE i am 28 and a 42 d oooohhh eerrrr - will be first time at a swing club so be friendly and we will be sure to be very friendly back... 