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Sara_2006
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 58
Straight Male, 60
0 miles · Conwy
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Sex God
as has been mentioned earlier this site is now more of a community and i have made many friends here and even if i was not swinging and i was a swonger i would not want to lose the friendships i have made through the site.
friends help each other out in difficult circumstaces. no matter what they are a true friend wont blame you or criticise you only offer help and support in whatever way you need. a true friend tells you straight if you done somthing wrong and will take the anger when necessary without throwing your friendship away cos we all understand that sometimes we have things going on in our lives that we need to vent out anger and somtimes friends take the brunt of that anger and still say things like ...... its ok i understand and forgive you.
for those friends going through tough times all i can say is ..... there is light at the end of the tunnel and no it is not the headlights of the train comming towards you xxxxxx
friends help each other out in difficult circumstaces. no matter what they are a true friend wont blame you or criticise you only offer help and support in whatever way you need. a true friend tells you straight if you done somthing wrong and will take the anger when necessary without throwing your friendship away cos we all understand that sometimes we have things going on in our lives that we need to vent out anger and somtimes friends take the brunt of that anger and still say things like ...... its ok i understand and forgive you.
for those friends going through tough times all i can say is ..... there is light at the end of the tunnel and no it is not the headlights of the train comming towards you xxxxxx
Sex God
Quote by DeeCee
are you trying to get me run over :crazy:
Don't be silly Sara I like you too much altho getting run over would have its advantages.
You would be lying down and I would need to give you the kiss of life
no need for that sort of excuse just grab me and snog me mmmmmmmmmmmmm
can i please watch????
why watch .......... join in
Sex God
Quote by woohoo
are you trying to get me run over :crazy:
Don't be silly Sara I like you too much altho getting run over would have its advantages.
You would be lying down and I would need to give you the kiss of life
no need for that sort of excuse just grab me and snog me mmmmmmmmmmmmm
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
puss, ask them if they have a right to be here, as SH is not a place for rude narrow minded morons, with less brain capacity than a stick.
I dont know you from Adam (who IS this Adam) but, you have as much right to be here as anyone else, swinging is not just about sex, its about being in the company of like minded individuals, where you can be yourself and chat about your lifestyle with people who understand you.
and swonging........thats a swinger who doesnt have sex **is quietly embarrassed
no need for embaresment mrs bone hun if you dont ask you will never find out the good bits in life. swonging goes on in all walks of swinging life ..... usualy once a month
for ladies and somtimes for 9 months or more if you are pregnant or illness or any reason you so wish .... just because some are a swonger it doesnt exclude them from joing the site or using the site during swonging times in a swinging life. i hope that makes sence lol it did when i typed it
Sex God
puss we luffs you in the forums and in the chat rooms and most of all luffs you at the various socials. always a pleasure to see you ( not sure about the minger tho pmsl :twisted: ) you bring sunshine and smiles whenever i have chatted and met you so i say sod the ignorant and carry on with how you carry on your swinging/swonging
Sex God
as a single female i find that sticking to the same few chat rooms helps in safety as well as reliability as you do meet the same faces as well as new ones at various events as socials, munches, parties etc. and it also gets you more invites to such things as people can see that u are genuine for themselves. some rooms seam clicky at first but with banter, humour and persistence it will pay off in the long run...... you only get out of something that you are prepared to put in
Sex God
Quote by splendid_
how many men do you know to remember to take a weeks course of antibiotics etc. without forgetting at least 1 .... and you think they would remember a lifetime of taking somthing like the pill
>slight hijack< Gosh, this really gets my goat....men aren't some kind of second class species. They are just as able to remember anything as women are. How come it is o.k. to patronise men but if men were to patronise women in a public thread (however 'humourously')they would be leapt on from a great height.
>hijack over<splendid
as for the subject of the thread I am gathering my opinion into a readable post.
i didnt mean to be patronising, well not much anyway, i have the same memory problems and therefore chose a different method of contreception than having to remember to take somthing.......
there are various methods as we are i am sure aware of and if, as has been mentioned earlier, you are adiment that you dont want to be a parent then take every possable course of action you can to try to prevent a possible pregnancy but as we are also aware nothing is 100% effective other than abstinance.
and as far as the original post is concerned then if he did mean in a partnership then the male would be around to discuss things with and a joint decision is the only reasonable course of action ... i was giving my account of my experience and that didnt really include the male as he wasnt around.
