reserves hun for single guys now i am afraid but keep ya eye out you never know you may get a pm with an invite
ok here goes,
i was 17 at the time and did some stupid things, one was have unprotected sex, the outcome was i got pregnant!!
first thoughts was OH SHIT what will my mum say. and she kind of surprised me, she was great. second thoughts were what do i do now. again mum came to the rescue and i got myself checked out. next came the decision process, do i keep it or not.
it was the hardest thing i have ever had to decided, even over 20 years later i wonder how i came to the decision. but my main reason for doing what i did was i was too young to cope and i wouldnt have had the opertunities later in life if i had been 'tied down' by a child. (wrong reasons perhaps but they were mine and i 'will' not justify them to anyone)
i have regrets still about having a termination but i also know it was the right choice for me.
the father never was in the discution as he had done a runner so i wouldnt have had even financial help from him let alone support, i dont blame him in any way we was both young and foolish at the time. but he would have been included in all discutions if he had been around. but i realy doubt that if he had wanted the child and i didnt that i would have had the child and let him bring the child up without any input from me.
people who have to make this decision no matter on the outcome have my utmost sympathy and respect. and because of my experience friends feel they can come and talk to me openly about their fears without being preached at, as they feel a family member would.
also to throw somthing into the mix do potential grandparents have a say in what happens
exackly the same i was so bad i booked a hotel just in case i had to do a runner out of the back door. now its a case of "any floor space please" :twisted:
have i made the list yet cos i will need a hotel list and will need to book somthing soon
am sagi and work evenings behind a bar so am both a night person and talk loads lol
i have always gone regulary to my local clinic and have found it to be a not totaly unpleasant but very necessary trip and think that even if you display no symptoms it doesnt mean much till you get the test results to confirm things. i have a coil fitted and regulary get bacterial infections associated from it and get the treatment needed to clear it up and also get my smears done there as well. the only time i have ever come away not totaly happy was from my first visit when they ask all the awkward questions. how often, how many different partners etc. but the worst question i felt most insulted by was the "do you get payed?" question. i dont think the staff realise about the lifstyle totaly but the clinic i go to try their best to be non judgmental and helpful and even advised me to get hep injections which are usualy only offered to carers and hospital staff etc.
nooooooo ya fat slapper gotta organise sitters etc b4 they get booked up lol
problems could also occure if the room host stays logged into a room but goes out shopping, shagging, or falls asleep etc there will still be no host as such to kick people out if necessary
the day after my birthday mmmmmmmm add me ta. will see if i get a victim or be greedy lol
ok on a more serious note on how to get accepted .......if you can have a laugh and a giggle especialy at yourself but also be able to be serious when it counts. be a friend when needed as well as a possible lover. dont be ignorant of others views. and take comments made with a pinch of salt, as well as taking what they say on board, then i can say that you should get o fine.
you only get out of tings what you are prepared to give
click on my private gallery on the right under the my friends button then at the top of the page is a button called invites click on that then at the bottom of the page you add the profile name of the person you wish to invite to view the pictures and choose for how long you want then to view the pictures for and click send ......... simple lol
best wishes babes xxxxxxxxxxxx
nope the medication works wonder hun its just a long way down for me to reach ....... ok hijack over lol
i think cupids and chameleons open in the day but check out the clubs section above to be sure
when i was married and after a number of years my labido took a down turn and my doctor prescribed prozac as he thought i was depressed and as it is a non addictive anti depressent he thought this was best and i took it and after reading the side effects i descovered that one side effect i could expect was a loss of labido ..... o m g why did my doctor prescribe this to me when i went to see them with a lost labido i still do not understand to this day .....my piece of advice to you is get your wife to go back to the doctor to prescribe somthing different and read the side effects carefully, perhaps her taking prozac is the cause of her lack of interest.
best of luck with whatever the outcome is
am only ging to the 6th level :smug: am not too norty ..... must try harder :twisted:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/199122.html
:thumbup: especialy for charity as i cannt even run for the bus without getting out of breath lol. well done you and have a few more celebrations on your achievment :cheers:
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ok perhaps not but still wanna partyyyyyyyyyy
