I didnt mean to say anything in a roundabout way. What I was trying to say was that ok so there is a "thriving group of dogging folk" but it seems to be extremely difficult to find them.
I have attended and participated in the past but things died and obviously moved somewhere else, which is why I am looking for a new partner because she got fed up with nothing happening. Hmm, perhaps she found a new place and didnt tell me. She prefered stopping people on the street.
I am not asking anybody else to arrange everything, and I didnt mean to suggest that it is everybody else's responsibility.
What i am saying is that yes things do happen, but it seems that although some of you speak so proudly of what you have done, its a wonder that it ever happens if nobody ever knows where anybody else MIGHT be.
It is said that something happened at a certain venue and was very good. Ok. So why not say where it happened? It might give a clue for others for the future. I can understand not wanting to advertise to the whole world that you will be going to such and such a place, but why keep it a secret about where something did happen?
Yes Ok you dont know me from Adam, but then again isnt this what the thrill is all about?
I spend a week waiting in one place and everything happens somewhere else. Great, I'll move on to somewhere else and see if anything happens. Just my luck that the action will move to the place where I WAS watching.
You say that two other site can be found by talking for 5 mins with other people. Well, I thought thats what I had been doing, but no mention of sites.
I am looking for a female partner who will travel with me to sites and see do watch whatever. I have a fairly large camper van which I find very useful.
Well, I cant see that anybody suggested anything. Apart from "Go for it" Hardly a suggestion.
If people dont tell where things happen, or when, is everybody else supposed to vist every site within a 50 mile radius every night on the off chance that they might find somebody at a venue?
I visited one site every night for a week, sat there for an hour each time and saw nothing. No passing cars or rustling bushes. Ok, so you say it was happening somewhere else. If nobody including yourself is prepared to advertise where people might be, how do others get to know?????
You say in your post that "three weeks ago, on a saturday night, there were 15 couples out at one site..last friday, we counted, including ourselves eight couples..two gangbangs, several playing with just a couple of guys, some talking and us "showing"..plus some stuff that i'm not going to talk about.. "
Very nice too. Lucky they all just "happened" to turn up at the right place at the right time, but you arent prepared to say where, even though you say its all still happening.
So, as I say, what is happening here?
No replies. No suggestions.
Nope, indeed you did not, but I fail to see that what is not happening in this forgotten place might interest you.
So how about somebody making some serious arrangements for something to happen in the Norwich/Norfolk area. Daytime or night.
I recently joined a friendfinder club for a month. At the end of the month, the ads which came up in the "suitable" search were the same as those at the beginging of the month.
Just as a test I replied to DOZENS of ads and only 2 replied. Many had an auto reply of "I am not online and will get back to you"
Either the website was full of fake ads or Norwich is dead.
Is Norwich/Norfolk dead? I have visited a couple of the dogging places listed on several web sites and never seen anybody there. . Unless you happen to fancy a big hairy truck driver wearing stockings and of these places I pass at all different times of the day/night
I am a male by the way. Aged 50 and live in Norwich. Will do my profile later when I have time.
I have known of males saying that they will be at so and so if any females etc want to turn up, but know for a fact that even THEY havent gone because I have watched.
So how about getting things together in Norwich/Norfolk/Suffolk borders now that the better weather is here.