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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 45
Straight Female, 44
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Warming the Bed
this is worrying!
Quote by DirtynSquirty
If its the site I think it is, we are on there. I guess there are fake profiles whichever site you join but also genuine people.
I did hear of people who would join, arrange meets and the address that they gave was that of an elderly couple who lived across the road from a pub. Some friends of ours were caught out. My guess is that these people got some kind of kick out of watching from the pub. These people would then leave the site and open another profile (using the same pictures) to do the same again. They were reported but the owners said they couldn't do much about it as they couldn't track the IP address or something like that (I'm not very techy). Suppose when it's a free site, these things can happen as you can open as many profiles you want.
There are some strange people out there!

No, this is far more sinister than a fake profile here and there which I agree is part and parcel of the whole experience. I have traced 72 fake profiles, 14 probable fakes and another 9 suspicious by association which I suspect all emanate from the one source. These are the ones I could establish with the data at my disposal, I would expect there would be more following hidden pointers. Only 16 of the fake profiles found have been suspended.
More than half of the suspect profiles have pictures with only 2 of them having common ones. It would follow that the miscreant has collected his picture stock from elsewhere. Deeply disturbing all round!
Wow! Some people have far too much time on their hands (them not you!). Why would anyone want to produce so many fake profiles? What's to gain?
Tbh, I have had to make plenty of time, just to follow all of the trails lol
The profile at the top of the pile ran a fake party scam across Nov/Dec which we got stung by. Because of the lack of cooperation from the site I started digging deeper. The breadth of the fake profiles has minded me to believe that there might be more than that to it but don't know what. A number of the profiles have been active on the site in the last week additionally...
Warming the Bed
Hi I am in Leicester overnight and would love to meet a couple for social drinks and chat.
Me and my wife usually visit clubs in the midland and are looking for a group of friends in the region to visit clubs, and drinks in the area.
Not expecting anything else, would generally like to meet people. Please contact me for further information.
We have been to a few socials and really enjoy the social aspect as well as playing.
Warming the Bed
any couples fancy meeting socially for the markets in birmingham, then on to a club in the evening ?
Warming the Bed
please can you put us down as a maybe? hopefully a child free weekend
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hi bambi, please accept our apologies, we will not be able to attend now, the good news to the rest there will be a extra room available at the hotel.
serfs
Warming the Bed
completely agree with this post.
Quote by two-4-more
Enabling guys to attend on a Saturday wouldn't be a massive issue if it was say a one off or a once a month thing. We don't have children but the majority of couples we know find it easier to get babysitters at a weekend, with the Saturday being easier the a Friday to go to clubs, with less work issues, and more time to actually travel to a club.
The only issue we have with single guys at clubs, is that there are SOME that think that by paying to get in, they have a divine right to have "fun". They follow women/couples around, "hunt" in "packs", are very pushy, and there are even some who don't seem take no for an answer and "forget" to carry condoms!
Don't get us wrong, there are some great guys who go to clubs (mainly off here), but past experience for us has meant we will mainly only go to clubs on a couples only night (generally only venturing out to socials on non-couples nights), if there wasn't a couples only night it would be fair to say we probably would not go.
Perhaps one night a month maybe the first Saturday of the month, making the night before a couples night instead, giving both guys and couples the chance of having a different night to enjoy.
(Just as a p.s. in the interest of fairness, there are some equally pushy couples out there too)
Look forward to checking out the new playrooms by the way!
Warming the Bed
hi bambi we are booked in nearby for the 21st. see you there !
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the club was clean and there facilities were good, we went on a quiet night so really cant say what a full club is like, we would go back again though.
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anyone visiting a NW or Midland club this weekend, we are deciding where to go
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hi guys, we do like to visit xtasia, we do like the upstairs and hope it be cooler, the cinema room could do with updating, better lighting , the couple only are could lose some sofas for beds to stop people just watching others.
all in all quite excited .
Warming the Bed
yeah we had a good night, its was busy than when we went in december!
its a nice place
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its a little black dress event at xtasias and we should be going, its couples only. does anyone else fancy it
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me and the mrs went to xtasia playful, its really good, nightclub experience.
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Quote by maverick40
Any one out in cov friday night ???

great meeting you mav
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Thanks for organising this, was great fun and we had a good laugh, your all very lovely people.
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Quote by stenic
Hi Guys, Sorry we haven't been on recently but unfortunately Ste's had to have a minor operation and so we wont be able to attend this weekend (I know we're not on the final list because we didn't confirm but would have been rude not to say anything at all). Hope you all have a fabulous time and hope to see lots of piccys soon!!!! Love Ste & Nicki xx

get better
Warming the Bed
i agree the social was good in december
Quote by Bambi
The best way i can describe our ideal scenario would be a nightclub style club with extras

Thats Xtasia then lol
I have another social night at Xtasia on Friday 25th May (club meets)
If you use the chatrooms on here (esp the pool), you will have probably spoken
to most of the nutters that attend.
You can either chat/drink/dance the night away or go and explore. (or you could do all 4) :lol:
Whatever you decide, have a great time :thumbup:
Warming the Bed
try xtasia, we enjoyed our visit, no need to dress down
Quote by YoungCouple990
Thanks for your reply.
Yes that's the type of thing we are looking for, we arnt keen on the "dress down" rules being enforced on us would want to do things at our own pace, i feel having such rules enforced on us would only make us more nervous sad
We have heard of a club in London called club lick which doesn't enforce those types of rules ,we were hoping for something similar in will check out the No3 club.
This may seem a silly question but we are unsure. In terms of age groups do many couples our age group (mid 20's) attend clubs ? just curious....
Thanks for your feedback smile
x
Warming the Bed
we only been to this club twice as a couple, and it was very quiet, however we made a night of it and went to birmingham first, the club itself was good in that you dont need to be undressed and there were lots of space,
the price was high, but they have to recover some money, we prefer this type of disco swinging club, but cant comment onthe others yet.
social meets via websites obviously attract bigger crowds.
Warming the Bed
woatch out coventry is all i can say
Quote by spankus
wow at this rate there will be just as many in the hotels as at the venue, nearly as many confirmed on the reserve list as on the proper list - you got to hope a few drop out really lol

sh!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol xx
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i had a good night, was great to put faces to names on here ! we both hope to be at the valentines ball.
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booked it now , no going back.
Quote by Serf
room for a me , mrs serf wont be coming