Been there so we can speak from experience.The right mood.....low lighting......quiet relaxing music.....a good few glasses of your favourite wine and conversation will soon flow. Hopefully coax the conversation to general likes and dislikes and then suggest talking about fantasies. Sounds too much to the point maybe but believe us, once relaxed into the ambience of the evening, it simply flowed and what followed................ :)
Good luck however you play it!
