When we were into outdoor meet ups we were sat on the chatroom and got a mail through from a guy local(ish) asking if we knew any good dogging location etc.
We replied and he sent a mail back very politely thanking us and wishing us all the best etc and thanks for our time, so we checked out his profile and he seemed quite a level headed sounding type so we contacted him again, arranged to meet that evening and had a really good, short but exciting little outdoors roleplay based encounter!!
Think the excitement of it being arranged very quickly was a bit of a turn on!
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Quote by Lost
I think I'd grab my family make up a large picnic pack the tent and go camp atop Glastonberry tor or somesuch place, or if transport was a problem then there are nearer places of beauty we could use just as well. Brew up a mug of magnificence that is coffee and sit with my family and our dog and talk about how privilidged i'd been being with and knowing who i was with at that moment then it would be countdown in a group hug situation
Good answer, however shooting the useless husband one did make me laugh
And Bloke, even if ther were only 48 hrs left of the world my bottom would not be a place of entry for any large objects be they organic or man made
Ok, so after a conversation at work yesterday, and baring in mind I work with models and fitness instructors who's insight is not that deep and thought provoking, I thought I would put the topic to the masses of well edumacated (yes deliberate 
)at SH towers!
Imagine if you will, your sat watching TV, out in the car, shopping or whatever and suddenly there is a huge public announcement that a solar flare or something that will destroy most of life on earth is about to wipe out the planet as we know it within 48 hours. You have all seen the films, hence the question, so you know what I'm sort of getting at, but the question is............
Where would you go, what would you do and who would you spend your time with or what would you spend it doing?
Now be realistic because some of my work colleagues said things like i'd go and get a plane and fly over the himalayas, firstly they cant fly a plane and secondly how would you get to one baring in mind the country/world would probably have ensued into riot while all the "important people" were already safely underground in bunkers somewhere!!?
)at SH towers!Imagine if you will, your sat watching TV, out in the car, shopping or whatever and suddenly there is a huge public announcement that a solar flare or something that will destroy most of life on earth is about to wipe out the planet as we know it within 48 hours. You have all seen the films, hence the question, so you know what I'm sort of getting at, but the question is............
Where would you go, what would you do and who would you spend your time with or what would you spend it doing?
Now be realistic because some of my work colleagues said things like i'd go and get a plane and fly over the himalayas, firstly they cant fly a plane and secondly how would you get to one baring in mind the country/world would probably have ensued into riot while all the "important people" were already safely underground in bunkers somewhere!!?
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thats quite close to what i ask srne, I think, that its a bit like why some become vicars priests and nuns and others become prostitues, thieves and criminals, i think, quite simply your born to be "A something" and some of us were born to have a kinky side and become sexual adventurers.?
I'm not sure if we are born to become something joewally, maybe that we are a bit psychologically, or characteristically inclined to a certain type of lifestyle or ideal etc, and we are more easily swayed toward things that involve or are associated with these ?
Not sure if I was born to be a sexual adventurer, but I have always had a "kinkier" side to me than most of my friends or early girlfriends.
I remember being about 17 and asking a girlfriend at the time if i could blindfold her and have sex with her outdoors as the thrill of possibly being caught was a massive turn on for me. She promptly called me a pervert, ended our brief dalliance and told everyone at college I was a kinky pervert, making pulling other girls in my "popular group" nigh on impossible.......
They say every dark cloud has a silver lining and this little pearl of wisdom won through. A girl I had previously never even really noticed (different, less "popular" social group) came up to me one night at a college party and asked was I as kinky as everyone had been saying, thinking she was going to start taking the proverbial micheal I replied "no piss off!" or words to that affect.
"Shame" she replied, "cos I love kinky boys" and, after several vodka and cokes later, from there a very exciting, naughty and thrilling little voyage of sexual discovery was undertaken.
I probably was not born to swing but after being shown the way by someone who probably was, I never looked back and here I am posting on a forum of a swingers website right now.
Would I have wanted it any other way ohhhhh noooooo
I remember being about 17 and asking a girlfriend at the time if i could blindfold her and have sex with her outdoors as the thrill of possibly being caught was a massive turn on for me. She promptly called me a pervert, ended our brief dalliance and told everyone at college I was a kinky pervert, making pulling other girls in my "popular group" nigh on impossible.......
They say every dark cloud has a silver lining and this little pearl of wisdom won through. A girl I had previously never even really noticed (different, less "popular" social group) came up to me one night at a college party and asked was I as kinky as everyone had been saying, thinking she was going to start taking the proverbial micheal I replied "no piss off!" or words to that affect.
"Shame" she replied, "cos I love kinky boys" and, after several vodka and cokes later, from there a very exciting, naughty and thrilling little voyage of sexual discovery was undertaken.
I probably was not born to swing but after being shown the way by someone who probably was, I never looked back and here I am posting on a forum of a swingers website right now.
Would I have wanted it any other way ohhhhh noooooo
Hi Earthy, I do some charity events for two well known local charities and as someone mentioned earlier you sometimes do need permits and stuff for outdoor events unfortunately, as there is sometimes a lot of red tape involved in doing good deeds 
I'm not sure whether or not this would be in the AUP's but why not have a charity social or munch, at the one in the North East a while back they did a sponsored auction and auctioned off all kinds of things, those who attended will know what I mean lol, it was great fun and raised some good money!
You could hold a raffle, have an auction, ask people to donate a suggested entry fee, and I'm sure people would attend not only because they are great nights but because it is for a worthwhile cause?
I'm not sure whether or not this would be in the AUP's but why not have a charity social or munch, at the one in the North East a while back they did a sponsored auction and auctioned off all kinds of things, those who attended will know what I mean lol, it was great fun and raised some good money!
You could hold a raffle, have an auction, ask people to donate a suggested entry fee, and I'm sure people would attend not only because they are great nights but because it is for a worthwhile cause?
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oh, and I just looked at your profile and you haven't got any piccies of yourself srne. So were you to contact me, for example, I would look at your profile and instantly think that you weren't all that you said you were. ( I am weary of 'couples' profiles where only the woman is displayed as if she is the main event)
I know that women on here will be as weary of that as I am .. so perhaps that is a little pointer.
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Yeah this is true, they were on there from the days we used to swing regularly as a couple and it appeared that mainly all we ever got asked for was photos of the female half (the words "me", "being" and "third wheel" springs to mind
)Now, when I send replies to couples seeking males, I sort of use a copy and paste method and just change some aspects depending on certain criteria that they are looking for and I am happy with. On there I put that I am willing and happy to send photographs, give my mobile number and meet for a drink socially beforehand.
The reason I think we didn't put photos of me on previously was that they seemed surplus to requirements, I think I shall get the old photo shop on and take some well received advice.
IN EDIT : some good replies on here, knew there was a reason I liked you lot. (a bit).
Quote by BIoke
Srne
As a single male, you (and I) are the lowest form of currency on sites like this. Just make the best of your assets and how you present them, and accept the fact that it will probably take months of concerted effort before you even get a reply, let alone a meet.
Er....no! I don't see it that way and/or see myself as one of the 'lowest forms of currency'
Have some self-pride man! And having met Srne socially, the guy is a hunk of a handsome bloke and won't be short of offers, I'm sure. I think he was referring to the lack of excitement in vanilla meets vs. the naughtiness of swinging meets as opposed to not getting any!
Yeah I was, but was worried I hadn't put my point across in a clear way. It was the excitement factor I miss in normal sexual situations that I was trying to get over. Oh and thanks for the compliment Bloke, your nor so bad yourself, in a purely heterosexual, happy to say another guy is attractive kind of way :wink: !x
Yeah I would definitely agree that the people here are a big draw that brings me back. It's the liberated outlook like you mentioned that makes me feel sort of that I belong here a bit, and that I'm maybe not weird just a little more adventurous than non swingers.
I talk more openly and honestly through these forums than I do to anyone I know in a non swinging way, even about things non sex related, strange that, never really thought of it that way till just now!
I talk more openly and honestly through these forums than I do to anyone I know in a non swinging way, even about things non sex related, strange that, never really thought of it that way till just now!
Quote by splendid_
oh goodness me... I so want to answer what I think you are asking..... but try as I might I just don't have any answers.
(apart from to say that I think it is admirable that you and your ex partner seem to have amicable defined- well done)
I will come back to this.... cos I have seen what you look like and know that it is the numbers on the site rather than anything to do with you personally.
I will think of something more helpful, let me potter off and re-think.
Haha.....Er thanks Splendid, I think
Hi easy rider, I think the thing is, I just always want more than I get as greedy as that sounds, the real point is that I miss the thrill of the meet ups on here which I dont get in vanilla life. I hate saying this as it makes me sound awful but I have no problem attracting women, it's just that I actually enjoy the whole swinging thing which makes the sexual stuff more exciting. It's like when I meet someone on a night out these days, having led a pretty wild sex life as I did with my now occasional swinging buddy, it never quite gives you that same thrill. Maybe I didn't put it across quite well enough in my post, like I said it's beent he first one for a while
Ok first thread started for a while so please bear with me while I try to find my posting flow once more.........
So, as a few people already know, I am now the posting and male half of a swinging only couple after miss srne and myself called it a day in our relationship. We still advertise on here as a couple very occasionally as due to work commitments, life changes, geographical distance etc, we are unable to meet as often as we may like.
Which leads me, very fluidly onto the topic of my thread.......
Ok, so having taken a sabbatical from SH while we went through separating etc, we were talking online one night and got onto the subject of sex as you sometimes do :shock: . We were saying that although neither of us were short of offers, and had been leading quite active sex life lives we both missed the excitement and thrill that swinging brought.
Great we thought but having a couple of hundred miles between us was a problem, so we changed the profile and added that we were now a swinging only couple who also met separately. Miss srne had, contrary to the statement on our add declaring she was not looking to meet with single males, about 60 or so replies from said males within a week. Me however, not a sausage, so, I thought, I shall reply to a few adverts looking for males.......and would you believe it, not a single reply. Most unhappy at this I wrote a fantastic and well worded reply stating the situation, what I was about, looking for, looked like and all that sales pitch stuff and still nothing.
Anyway.........
Having long been a criticiser (is that a word?) of single males moaning that they get no replies I started to see how hard things were from the other side of the fence posts and felt a little guilty at some of my "off the cuff" remarks on previous "moaning threads"
The real point though is, that, being a rather handsome and body beautiful type haha even though I have a relatively active sex life and a lot of attention from the opposite sex, now as a single male in a relationship sense, I miss the excitement of swinging and "vanilla" sex just doesn't really carry the same sort of thrill for me that it used to before the days of swinging and "non socially accepted" sexual activity. (Thank God for commas, or that would have had a few people gasping for breath)
Has anybody else been in this situation and how did they find it? It's not the sort of thing that you kind of put out there to new people you meet really is it, can you imagine......
"Hi, can I buy you a drink, I think your really attractive and am hoping that you will be up for meeting couples we don't even know and having wild, unrelenting sex with them in various different positions and scenarios, any chance of you number?"
Well, come on then, spill the proverbial beans........
So, as a few people already know, I am now the posting and male half of a swinging only couple after miss srne and myself called it a day in our relationship. We still advertise on here as a couple very occasionally as due to work commitments, life changes, geographical distance etc, we are unable to meet as often as we may like.
Which leads me, very fluidly onto the topic of my thread.......
Ok, so having taken a sabbatical from SH while we went through separating etc, we were talking online one night and got onto the subject of sex as you sometimes do :shock: . We were saying that although neither of us were short of offers, and had been leading quite active sex life lives we both missed the excitement and thrill that swinging brought.
Great we thought but having a couple of hundred miles between us was a problem, so we changed the profile and added that we were now a swinging only couple who also met separately. Miss srne had, contrary to the statement on our add declaring she was not looking to meet with single males, about 60 or so replies from said males within a week. Me however, not a sausage, so, I thought, I shall reply to a few adverts looking for males.......and would you believe it, not a single reply. Most unhappy at this I wrote a fantastic and well worded reply stating the situation, what I was about, looking for, looked like and all that sales pitch stuff and still nothing.
Anyway.........
Having long been a criticiser (is that a word?) of single males moaning that they get no replies I started to see how hard things were from the other side of the fence posts and felt a little guilty at some of my "off the cuff" remarks on previous "moaning threads"
The real point though is, that, being a rather handsome and body beautiful type haha even though I have a relatively active sex life and a lot of attention from the opposite sex, now as a single male in a relationship sense, I miss the excitement of swinging and "vanilla" sex just doesn't really carry the same sort of thrill for me that it used to before the days of swinging and "non socially accepted" sexual activity. (Thank God for commas, or that would have had a few people gasping for breath)
Has anybody else been in this situation and how did they find it? It's not the sort of thing that you kind of put out there to new people you meet really is it, can you imagine......
"Hi, can I buy you a drink, I think your really attractive and am hoping that you will be up for meeting couples we don't even know and having wild, unrelenting sex with them in various different positions and scenarios, any chance of you number?"
Well, come on then, spill the proverbial beans........
Hi tattooing is something really personal to your own style and preferences and is unfortunately really addictive. I started with a small tattoo then ended up with a sleeve that took 65 hours. Some body parts are really painful under the arm, ribs and yeah the back of the neck is supposed to be sore, but if u want it the best advice i can say is brave the pain as the result, if its a well thought about piece and done by a good artist is well worth it. Go with the best tattooist u can find ask around or even better go to a convention where all the best artist from the area or region will have stalls. Good luck and hope u get what u want!
As with a few others on here we joined the site as a couple in a relationship looking to further our sexual adventures and gain new experiences.
Fast forward 4 years and we are now singles who swing together. We found that the site offered us something we had perhaps always fantasised about but never really pursued as we, like most vanilla couples, thought swingers were all weirdos. Thankfully we braved the unknown and met some fantastic, liberated and great people(and a few weirdos :shock: ).
Myself and miss srne are not together in a relationship but both missed the freedom, excitement and fun we had swinging and just meeting ppl from the site, and on occasion put our add back up and reply to a few that catch our eye.
We have only actually had 2 meet ups since we decided to call time on our relationships, once with a couple who I have become good pals with, and one with a single male whom we never saw again.
We dont use the site that regularly now and I (mr) pop on every now and again to read the forums and reply to a few adds stating the old "we are a swinging only couple who meet separately" which strangely never gets a reply. I do miss the days when we used to open our inbox an be inundated with replies to meet as a couple but like a lot of the single guys I have spoken to have said, you get out of the site what u put in an I'v been a bit of an occasional visitor of late so cant really expect too much.
So............lifer or dabbler?
To be continued.............
Fast forward 4 years and we are now singles who swing together. We found that the site offered us something we had perhaps always fantasised about but never really pursued as we, like most vanilla couples, thought swingers were all weirdos. Thankfully we braved the unknown and met some fantastic, liberated and great people(and a few weirdos :shock: ).
Myself and miss srne are not together in a relationship but both missed the freedom, excitement and fun we had swinging and just meeting ppl from the site, and on occasion put our add back up and reply to a few that catch our eye.
We have only actually had 2 meet ups since we decided to call time on our relationships, once with a couple who I have become good pals with, and one with a single male whom we never saw again.
We dont use the site that regularly now and I (mr) pop on every now and again to read the forums and reply to a few adds stating the old "we are a swinging only couple who meet separately" which strangely never gets a reply. I do miss the days when we used to open our inbox an be inundated with replies to meet as a couple but like a lot of the single guys I have spoken to have said, you get out of the site what u put in an I'v been a bit of an occasional visitor of late so cant really expect too much.
So............lifer or dabbler?
To be continued.............
Well the LHC was switched on at 700am local time on the French/Swiss border and we are still here (for now).
I think they have said it will be friday or early next week before they can process the data from the first day of tests, so hopefully there will be evidence of all the things we hope for from it, Higgs-Bosson (so called God particle) black hole creation and all that other good stuff!
I think they have said it will be friday or early next week before they can process the data from the first day of tests, so hopefully there will be evidence of all the things we hope for from it, Higgs-Bosson (so called God particle) black hole creation and all that other good stuff!
I (mr srne) have been waiting for this for about 3 years now and am quite excited if the LHC lives up to expectation.
I was a little worried at first that creating black holes here on earth (which is whats hoped from the LHC) may have been a bit of a bad idea but the scientists assure us that it will be perfectly safe and the earth will not be swallowed into a vortex and sucked through the 5th dimension.
Mores the pity!
I was a little worried at first that creating black holes here on earth (which is whats hoped from the LHC) may have been a bit of a bad idea but the scientists assure us that it will be perfectly safe and the earth will not be swallowed into a vortex and sucked through the 5th dimension.
Mores the pity!
Ok here's my slant on it.
I don't think there is anything ethically wrong with paying for sex IF the person being paid is willing and happy to sell their "services" to you. It's about personal choice I suppose, if you want to do it then go ahead, it's your life and you have every right to do what you want to do!
The STI thing is a big issue in Thailand, I would strongly recommend using a condom and avoiding any mouth to sexual part contact if you and your female partner are looking to indulge in bisexual threesomes.
At the end of the day you will do as you please, so you don't really need our advice on whether or not it's ethical or not, only you can decide that.
A safer and less problematic option would be to hire an escort from a reputable agency in this country and have a night at a hotel or something? It's just my opinion but I think there are a lot of factors that could make it not the experience you are looking for by going looking for "bi" prostitutes in Thailand.
Some good advice from the previous poster too, have a good trip!!
I don't think there is anything ethically wrong with paying for sex IF the person being paid is willing and happy to sell their "services" to you. It's about personal choice I suppose, if you want to do it then go ahead, it's your life and you have every right to do what you want to do!
The STI thing is a big issue in Thailand, I would strongly recommend using a condom and avoiding any mouth to sexual part contact if you and your female partner are looking to indulge in bisexual threesomes.
At the end of the day you will do as you please, so you don't really need our advice on whether or not it's ethical or not, only you can decide that.
A safer and less problematic option would be to hire an escort from a reputable agency in this country and have a night at a hotel or something? It's just my opinion but I think there are a lot of factors that could make it not the experience you are looking for by going looking for "bi" prostitutes in Thailand.
Some good advice from the previous poster too, have a good trip!!
Ok here's my slant on it.
I don't think there is anything ethically wrong with paying for sex IF the person being paid is willing and happy to sell their "services" to you. It's about personal choice I suppose, if you want to do it then go ahead, it's your life and you have every right to do what you want to do!
The STI thing is a big issue in Thailand, I would strongly recommend using a condom and avoiding any mouth to sexual part contact if you and your female partner are looking to indulge in bisexual threesomes.
At the end of the day you will do as you please, so you don't really need our advice on whether or not it's ethical or not, only you can decide that.
A safer and less problematic option would be to hire an escort from a reputable agency in this country and have a night at a hotel or something? It's just my opinion but I think there are a lot of factors that could make it not the experience you are looking for by going looking for "bi" prostitutes in Thailand.
Some good advice from the previous poster too, have a good trip!!
I don't think there is anything ethically wrong with paying for sex IF the person being paid is willing and happy to sell their "services" to you. It's about personal choice I suppose, if you want to do it then go ahead, it's your life and you have every right to do what you want to do!
The STI thing is a big issue in Thailand, I would strongly recommend using a condom and avoiding any mouth to sexual part contact if you and your female partner are looking to indulge in bisexual threesomes.
At the end of the day you will do as you please, so you don't really need our advice on whether or not it's ethical or not, only you can decide that.
A safer and less problematic option would be to hire an escort from a reputable agency in this country and have a night at a hotel or something? It's just my opinion but I think there are a lot of factors that could make it not the experience you are looking for by going looking for "bi" prostitutes in Thailand.
Some good advice from the previous poster too, have a good trip!!
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Is it rude to say here that I really couldn't care less?!Sorry... just not a Top Gear or even car fan at all really!!
Nola x
p.s. but hey, if he or she is a member of SH maybe they'll be chuckling away now!
I wouldn't say it was rude no, but there are a lot of TopGear fans and a lot of interest in the Stig's identity, horses for courses and all that!!
Sounds like one of the many urban legends that are about these days, its basically goes that groups of people or individuals go around knocking on doors at crazy hours of the night if people answer they torture or kill them!! :shock:
There has just been a film made about it released soon in this country based on real life events!!
A good idea to always have your door locked ours is locked at all times even during the day with the keys out of reach.
Probably just some pisshead getting the wrong house but as he walked down the street and out of sight this seems unlikely most people get the wrong house but not entirely the wrong street.
However in my teens i did get woken up by the new owners of my parents house outside the front door after we recently moved as i had got a taxi back to the old house under the influence of red thunderbirds and kestrel super strength!!
There has just been a film made about it released soon in this country based on real life events!!
A good idea to always have your door locked ours is locked at all times even during the day with the keys out of reach.
Probably just some pisshead getting the wrong house but as he walked down the street and out of sight this seems unlikely most people get the wrong house but not entirely the wrong street.
However in my teens i did get woken up by the new owners of my parents house outside the front door after we recently moved as i had got a taxi back to the old house under the influence of red thunderbirds and kestrel super strength!!
The rumours over The Stig's identity have been flying around for a while.
There are thought to be 2 "stigs" at the moment and that is probably true as during certain speed laps the "racing lines" of the car through specific turns like "gambon" and "hammerhead" change significantly from standard F1 lines to more rally orientated lines.
The current stig's are thought to be Damon Hill which would explain the F1 lines, and stunt, rally and racing driver Ben Collins which would explain the use of dragged lines more akin to rally driving.
A guy my uncle works with went to the filming of an episode of Topgear last year and saw Damon Hill getting out of a car close to the set, and the Stig appeared on that show, coincidence maybe, but the general consensus amongst Stig theorists is that it is the two guys I mentioned above!
There are thought to be 2 "stigs" at the moment and that is probably true as during certain speed laps the "racing lines" of the car through specific turns like "gambon" and "hammerhead" change significantly from standard F1 lines to more rally orientated lines.
The current stig's are thought to be Damon Hill which would explain the F1 lines, and stunt, rally and racing driver Ben Collins which would explain the use of dragged lines more akin to rally driving.
A guy my uncle works with went to the filming of an episode of Topgear last year and saw Damon Hill getting out of a car close to the set, and the Stig appeared on that show, coincidence maybe, but the general consensus amongst Stig theorists is that it is the two guys I mentioned above!
