Reliability meets Adventure. Ex-Navy, Own Place, Cat Lover

About Me: I’ve called Edinburgh home for 25 years and I'm currently enjoying a brilliant fresh chapter after a long hiatus in an 18-year relationship. I’m a guy of contrasts. By day, the Ex-Navy discipline keeps me reliable and sharply focused on fitness—daily kettlebells, swimming, and saunas have me down 40 lbs, feeling excellent, and sporting an athletic build.

I’m an "introverted extrovert"—I can easily hold a great conversation over a coffee, but I know exactly how to check my ego at the door when the time is right. Non-smoker (vaper), punctual, handy with a toolbox, and I have a great new-build flat in South Gyle ready to host (complete with two kittens!).

For Single Women: Behind closed doors, the structure drops. I'm naturally submissive-leaning and love exploring the deeper, more deviant sides of the lifestyle. I absolutely love setting the mood with a long, strong, and deeply sensual oil massage—I pride myself on having genuine, firm hands. Soft play naturally leads to slow, deep, sexy fun in all positions. You decide the limits; I am highly attentive, gentle, and strictly zero-pressure.

For Couples: MMF friendly and highly respectful of your existing dynamic. I know exactly how to surrender control and let the natural chemistry take the wheel. Whether you want me to be highly attentive to her while you watch, or dive into a shared experience, I follow your lead completely.

The Vibe: Clean, respectful, open-minded, and strictly discreet. I always prefer a zero-pressure coffee or drink first to see if the spark is there in person. If we don't click, we part as friends.