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Steve_Lincs
Over 90 days ago
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0 miles · Grantham
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Quote by Clare_Lincs
Good question Heather.
I guess for me and Steve (i think) we have always been adventurous and it was almost like a natural step forwars really.
Though when we first joined this site,which was when we first got into it,then i don't think that either of us realised what great friendships we would i think that swinging for us is primarily about the friendships with open minded people and if we get anything sexual out of it then its an added bonus!
I also think that swinging is a way of exploration also,finding out more about ourselves and the different things we like that we never wouldve imagined before.
Youve definately put what its about for both of us.I remember when we first started talking about it thinking that it would be like that bloody car god i was wrong
OMG no wonder it took so long to write.
Lets just hope that we can have a good munch and that the party youve organised afterwards goes well too.I hope no one has thought about not attended the munch or party because of what was said during the thread.
Lets get back to plain old pm'ing in private and taking the piss in public.
Lets just hope that we can have a good munch and that the party youve organised afterwards goes well too.I hope no one has thought about not attended the munch or party because of what was said during the thread.
Lets get back to plain old pm'ing in private and taking the piss in public.
I really do hope that this doesnt affect people views on the munch put so much effort into trying to make it a success and don't want it to be spoiled by anything.
Remember that the munch is a total seperate entity to the party and is open to all that have been on here for a couple of months.
Remember that the munch is a total seperate entity to the party and is open to all that have been on here for a couple of months.
Quote by Ice Pie
In my opinion, if the organiser of a private party doesn't want your company, you are not entitled to an explanation, and you won't like the explanation if you get one, so why sweat it? I haven't been invited to any of these privately arranged things, which indicates to me that this munch is more cliquey than others I've been to, which is disappointing, but do you hear me demanding explanations?
Ice this munch is in no means cliquey,everyone is welcome to the munch and the party has been advertised in the lets meet up section for anyone to put there names pm'ed you and said that your more than welcome to come to the hotel after the munch for a drink in the bar.
Quote by manofmuchfun
Not having a moan clare, but if you have cancellations,wouldnt it be better to fill them, or are you going to have spare tickets after the event when local people and others would like to go but cant because of the joining time? does that make any difference to us as people , and moreover to get to know other people, was only trying to be sensible but no doubt I'll get shouted down! Alan
This has been explained on many occasions,we have the joining limit because of journalists etc who would love to come to these events and get some juicy photos and gossip.
Quote by Calista
Yay 1000 posts, what do I get?? :P
Well if you were coming to the munch i could show you
Congrats hun,you post whore,your getting as bad as the fecking missus :shock:
Says he ............
talk about pot and kettle ... :shock:
:giggle:
Oi what you trying to say
: I thought you were going for a bloody bath.
Quote by Calista
as an aside ..... there seems to be a lot of people heading back to the hotel bar afterwards ... as they are a hotel they are entitled to keep the bar open as long as is required without needing an extension licence (as far as I am led to believe). Would it be worth warning them that there will be more than a handful of us, so they can adequately cover it.
They may say no we close at a certain time which they are within their rights to do also.
Just a thought ....
Weve just phoned the hotel and the bar shuts at 2am
Quote by MikeNorth
It's worth emphasising to those who might not realise that the munches are entirely separate from any parties which are organised for afterwards. At least everyone can still be entirely at ease during the munch!
Mike.
Thats too bloody right,weve tried to include as many as we can for the munch,and havent listened to certain people who have asked us not to let other people attend.
I'm left very dumbfounded by this as when we met you,you were a genuinly nice bloke.I find it very bad that people would be like this to a fellow muncher.
If we were holding the party we wouldnt try and stop you coming,but we arent which is a shame.
I hope this hasnt left you in any way stuck or not wanting to come to the munch.
If we were holding the party we wouldnt try and stop you coming,but we arent which is a shame.
I hope this hasnt left you in any way stuck or not wanting to come to the munch.
I was listening to Radio 1 while i was slaving away at work today and they had a slot on about people swapping mobile phones for 2 minutes as a way of showing trust.
This got me thinking because there were a few people who phoned in and said that they had found out about affairs and pregnancy by other people you ever found out about infidelity via a mobile message or Messenger or something along those lines????
A while back i intersepted a messenger chat that showed some things that frankly shocked me for a while,in a way i was devistated that i found them but i was also glad,it was a mixed feeling that in the end has worked out possibly for the all i'm going to divulge on that but what sorts of things have you found out,and it can also be good things!!
This got me thinking because there were a few people who phoned in and said that they had found out about affairs and pregnancy by other people you ever found out about infidelity via a mobile message or Messenger or something along those lines????
A while back i intersepted a messenger chat that showed some things that frankly shocked me for a while,in a way i was devistated that i found them but i was also glad,it was a mixed feeling that in the end has worked out possibly for the all i'm going to divulge on that but what sorts of things have you found out,and it can also be good things!!
