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Tan____Kinky
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 43
Straight Male, 67
0 miles · Hartlepool

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Quote by Sara_2006
Wonder if im classed as a cam watcher or the decent stuff confused: rolleyes lol

a cam watcher :twisted:
of course his name did come outta simpsons ffs lol lol lol
well he is the same size as bart and heard he got the same haircut rolleyes lol
pmsl cant wait til he sees that cool
Quote by Bonedigger
hmmmmm wonders if mine is a sensible acceptable name or not confused and am I listened to or paid attention too or not lol lol lol
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Yours says you are a bone digger :shock: and are very clever and whitty and think alot wink wink
Quote by Sara_2006
Wonder if im classed as a cam watcher or the decent stuff confused: rolleyes lol

a cam watcher :twisted:
of course his name did come outta simpsons ffs lol lol lol
Hi im fanny and errr yes im a fanny -
I think the blokes names on here are most interesting and can usually guess the *cam watchers* from the decent stuff by user names imo anyways.
Those called bigcock fun wanted now massive cock bigones steves####number whatever blah blah i dont like much those with names like some of the forumites rolleyes and the eyes for instance i think have had some thought put into it and tells me there is about that person same applies to couples in a way i guess
ifd that makes any sence at all wink
Quote by Theladyisaminx

I saw a child of around 7 years old with her own mobile phone last week ffs!

My son is coming up 9 and really wants one for his birthday. Alot (most) of his friends have them so your comment does not suprise me in the least.
Im still in 2 minds about getting him one as i think he is to younghowever this is the only thing he has asked for rolleyes
As far as monetary value is concerned he could have one for less than a game for his nintendo ds. That in itself is rather worrying
I didn't give in my son asked for one when he was 11 and we bought his first phone a cheap £35 one for him when he was 15. As he was going out with friends more and we just wanted to be able to be in touch with each other. He is almost 17 and still has the same phone. But peer pressure is hard as parents we have to do what we feel best.
Dont get me wrong i never rush out to buy anything the phone he has been asking for since he was 7 likewise with the ds - all his friends have them i have waited and am still waiting
Peer pressure can be a nasty thing specially between kids
Quote by TabbynTina
we were only discussing this last week me and a few friends.......
someone my friend knows has just had a baby and she is planning on going to the CSA to get money off the father, she has text him alway through the pregnancy to keep him upto date with things...
Just over a year ago she was seeing this guy and she was on the pill anyway 2 months later she finds out she is pregnant and the man says he didnt and still doesnt want a child and they seperate, he continued to say he didnt want anything to do with the unborn child and now many months later he is going to have a percentage of his wage taken off him for something he didnt want.
my views on this are that if he said he didnt want anything to do with the whole situation at that early stage then maybe she should have respected his views and if she chose to have the baby then she was choosing to do it alone.

Can see where you are coming from but in the same respect it takes 2 people to have sex and 2 people to make a baby. If he was that against having a child then imho he should take preventative action himself as no method is 100% hense there is always a chance a baby will pop along
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I saw a child of around 7 years old with her own mobile phone last week ffs!

My son is coming up 9 and really wants one for his birthday. Alot (most) of his friends have them so your comment does not suprise me in the least.
Im still in 2 minds about getting him one as i think he is to younghowever this is the only thing he has asked for rolleyes
As far as monetary value is concerned he could have one for less than a game for his nintendo ds. That in itself is rather worrying
Before my son was school age i was a single parent and did go to college full time and worked part time i missed out of the important bitsbut being so young i would have been labeled like so many teenage mums. I dont regret it however as i used the time to better myself and my sons future
Now i have qualifications i choose not to work at the minute. Dek has a decent wage coming in and we can afford 2 holidays a year still without me working We are very lucky in the respect i dont have to work and can be home for son going to and coming home from school. Money does get tight sometimes though
Everyones view will (hopefully) be different as every one should first and foremost do what is right for their family at the time.
Quote by Theladyisaminx
i went against my views on this a couple of months ago still quite a sore subject though and a lot of guilt

My mother went through this too, I think part of it is a griefing process, which is normal.
It was one of the most hardest decisions ive ever had to make. under other circumstances it would have been a blessing. The staff i found to be caring and none judgemental and not what i expected i was also lucky that those close to me didnt judge me on me decision
Quote by Plimboy
At one time, doctors use to briefly smack on the cheek to bring someone out of hysteria.
I think with children, it should be a last resort, but yes - it may be necessary on occassions, especially with boys.
Plim sad

Why especially with boys?
I wondered that to - if anything imo its easier to get boys to do as they are told or is my son just a mummies boy
Some boys only respond to corporal punishment - as a man I could never hit my daughters anyway, but I knew a father who did - wrong to me :!:
PlimSeems sexist to me but thats your own opinion which you are very much entitled to biggrin
Quote by firelizard
i went against my views on this a couple of months ago still quite a sore subject though and a lot of guilt

kiss Whatever way round you went you'll be needing that. GUILT? ....you're a Mother, did'nt you read in the handbook small print???
Thank you kiss and yes i guess the guilt is normal
Quote by Freckledbird
At one time, doctors use to briefly smack on the cheek to bring someone out of hysteria.
I think with children, it should be a last resort, but yes - it may be necessary on occassions, especially with boys.
Plim sad

Why especially with boys?
I wondered that to - if anything imo its easier to get boys to do as they are told or is my son just a mummies boy
Quote by Theladyisaminx
i found it quiet to rolleyes
interesting threads from ladyisaminx though

Thanks!! I hope that is a positive comment! biggrin I do like a bit of a debate me!!Yes deffo good interesting, nice to see abit of debate brought back to the forums
fresh blood fresh ideas :twisted:
Ive never used a naughty step
No 1 reason being having a hyperactive son its more hassle than its worth he would be up and down every second
No2 when he has been naughty and a ticking off wont do it he gets sent to his bedroom for chill out time
this works good fro him but every child is different
i went against my views on this a couple of months ago still quite a sore subject though and a lot of guilt
Quote by Cherrytree
hedging bets on lancelot being the busier server as its easier to spell and say wink

That's a bloody good point, Tan.
seems logical not that they here now rolleyes
Ah right ty ian will tell him he will have to make do without chat for 5 weeks lol
The pit where he is staying they put the wireless on because there is nothing else to do there they can not walk about alone or unarmed so it is purely (supposedly) for personal use while they are not at work
right dek is working away and the pit where he is staying has wireless so hes got on the net but cant get onto chat
can get in chat no problems while at home on wireless so is it blocked at the wireless end or am i missing something he has downloaded the latest flash player. he can access the site just not chat dunno
thanks in advance Tan x
Raising the age of consent wont change anything i was a mum before the age of 16 but before then i had been a child carer and held down several part time jobs i knew my responsibilities unlike the father.
As far as drinking goes we were always allowed a drink in the house yeah we did go over the top a few times but no where near the amount most teeagers do and i do the same with my son
Quote by annejohn
what gets me is that some of our smoking friends moan about going outside the pub,but we see them at home going outside to smoke.
whats all that about then ?

As a smoker it does not actually bother me going out side to smoke but know quite alot who like you say complain about having to in the pubs etc and do it happily at home. Its something i dont understand either, I dont enjoy going to pubs as much as before the ban was introduced i take the simple option i stay at home have more house parties or when i do go out make sure i pick pubs with beer gardens so i do not have to finish or leave my drink just to have a smoke
Quote by lyns
just for the record .... i have asthma which is not very well controlled at times, thru no fault of mine .... smoke often makes it far worse .... therefore at times i am fearful of suddenly struggling to breathe due to other people smoking

So as long as you go no where near smokers you are happy??
I appeciate the asthma my brother has it quite bad - all of his family smoke if it bothers him he simply leaves the area where they are - no problem and he doesnt make it anyone elses problem either. He got to the point of realising it wasnt anyones fault that he had the illness
IMO you are implying that smokers are to blame for your asthma
My mums asthma is caused as a direct result of her smoking as was my nanas.
Have recently taken my little one to the docs quiering wether or not she has asthma and the doc told me that in children it isn`t always caused by smoking/passive smoking but in if you get it later on in like then it nearly always is.
Understand what you are saying my brother has had asthma since he was a baby. During his teenage years he was having attacks which hospitalised him 3 or more times a month. This was never due to smoking or being near smokers as most attacks happened in bed or in the classroom, Our parents never smoked in the house or while he was in their company. As a adult he simply knows he can walk away from a situation that includes smokers which any well minded adult can do.
Quote by markz
I have no doubt that if the ipswich murderer had not been caught he would have carried on, so the dna database has saved lives. My own worries about the system infringing on my civil liberties are meaningless in comparison with the value of a life, so I agree with the database.

wb stranger rolleyes kiss
depends on the timing - trying to hold a convo with me while im just getting to that point of self loving is useless one has to give usually the self loving rolleyes as i lose concentration
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I was gonna suggest freecycle too. You'd be amazed what some people have tucked away under the stairs :shock:
Get well soon Vonny kiss

under my stairs is where it all happens wink
yours Tanny Potter