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2 Mar 2008

Quote by northeastcoupleuk
If there are still places available, can you please put our names down as provisional and we will let you know for definate closer to the time.
Alex & Dave_Notts

On the list as provisional cool

or provy for short lol

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2 Mar 2008

Quote by Alex_Notts
If there are still places available, can you please put our names down as provisional and we will let you know for definate closer to the time.
Alex & Dave_Notts

On the list as provisional cool

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2 Mar 2008

Quote by MikeNorth
I do handyman stuff. I can assure you that shagging the 'milkman' its almost non existent.

You aint never been to my house then wink

So you had a special delivery then Tan. :rascal:
more than one redface

runs of to find a thread i posted in a while ago :idea:
U bending my arm wenchy redface

flamin eck i post way to much took me 20 pages to find this rolleyes

getting it on your doorstep

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2 Mar 2008

Quote by duncanlondon
I do handyman stuff. I can assure you that shagging the 'milkman' its almost non existent.

You aint never been to my house then wink

nothing vunerable about it just im a bit kinky rolleyes

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2 Mar 2008

Yes i could, but its also a learning curve for kids to, how many kids dont have a little thing with fire (mine set light to a bedroom bin aged 7) or smashing a window (still waiting but half expected) i called the police to talk to my son when he took to climbing out of windows to escape and was away for hours living in a kinda rat run estate he knew all the places to hide if he saw you coming and if caught has been known to kick scream punch scratch (screaming he had been kidnapped got me a few looks) basically anything he could try to get away and be free no amount of punishment worked
my heart was constantly in my mouth and the police spoke to him 5 times until i eventually had to turn tables and start afresh - grounding him only made him want to escape so i stopped grounding him bought him a watch and explained i would meet him half way if he did the same with me and give him set times which he stuck to give or take
Since then not had much problems with him it was a naughty phase,

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1 Mar 2008

since when did kids become so good at pillow fights duel

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1 Mar 2008

Quote by northeastcoupleuk
I got a text this morning *what were you gunna ask me and didnt yesterday?* hopeless cause

>>>notes down deks excuse(defo cum in good) lol

oi

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1 Mar 2008

I got a text this morning *what were you gunna ask me and didnt yesterday?* rolleyes

hopeless cause

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1 Mar 2008

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1 Mar 2008

added winny
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1 Mar 2008

Pain loses its edge whilst memories last forever so i guess yes it is better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all :therethere: kiss

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1 Mar 2008

Quote by bbw_lover
size isnt really important but if i was picking someone for their body shape and personality it would be a male forumite in these regions

:shock:
for example?????
sworn to secrecy sorry redface

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1 Mar 2008

Quote by winchwench
I'm responding as some of that looks to be aimed at my response to your embarrasing moments thread.
Theladyisaminx wrote:
I have posted threads where comments have been made “done that before” so what! There are newbies here that haven’t and we would like to raise the thread again, not look back last year and try to find the old thread.
Instead of commenting done that wouldn’t it be nice to paste and copy your orginal response so the newbies could respond?
Isn’t that how you interact with us rather than cutting us short?

I didn't have to respond to your thread at all. However, I did so politely and for your benefit. Why? Because as a newbie, chances are you were unaware that yes, sometimes it's good to renew old threads, but in the main etiquette dictates that resurrecting the old thread (s, in this case) is usually the way to go. So I tipped you the wink beforeother people came along and pointed it out to you in a slightly more harsh manner.
What's the harm in starting a new thread on an oft covered topic? Nothing- if it occurs occasionally. However, if it continues unchecked it leads to a cafe full of "Shaven or unshaven" "Are there any genuine people here?" threads......
It was advice given for the right reasons. Take it, don't take it. Print it off & use it to wipe your arse on if you like. Whatever floats your boat.
And
Theladyisaminxwrote:

If you get upset about responses people make on here, you might be better off joining a knitting club instead.

I couldn't have put it better myself. :thumbup:
I usually find that when someone starts a new thread that has been done before (no complaint) that alot wont reply because they have done so in previous threads, search isnt everyones friend (it hates me) and so i find it helpful those people who do put the links up to make it easier for others
That is why i put the links up not to hishearten from your thread
Tan

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1 Mar 2008

size isnt really important but if i was picking someone for their body shape and personality it would be a male forumite in these regions redface

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29 Feb 2008

go to travel agents - say wanna swinging holiday for xxx amount what can ya do ??
dunno

might work rolleyes

no help cant even decide without argueing about our own holidays lol

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29 Feb 2008

congratulations
but does the child only have a birthday every 4 years and does the child jump 1 year or 4 years on its birthday : : : :

someone had to

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29 Feb 2008

taken a snippit of the which i think swingers could be quite susceptable to wink

well i know ive done #71 redface

Other offences
66. Exposure
67. Voyeurism
68. Voyeurism: interpretation
69. Intercourse with an animal
70. Sexual penetration of a corpse
71. Sexual activity in a public lavatory

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29 Feb 2008

Quote by TabbynTina

Like you say no method is 100% and I agree with you on that but also like you say it takes 2 to make a baby but when the 2 people cant agree its only 1 persons choice as to whether or not they keep it

That works both ways it should not just be the mans or womens choice if the man does not want the baby and the women does or vise versa there is never an easy answer but it is the women who has to have abortion or have the baby. If complications occur it is the women left infertile or with fertility problems
yes fanny I agree with you on that one and i think to a point it is the womans body so maybe she should have the finall say, I think the point I was trying to make was that if a woman chooses to keep a baby when the father has made his intent clear should he then be forced to pay for the child when its born?
personally I dont think he should
Tina
xx
can i ask what your thoughts are on this? Fully understand what you say but i am kinda baised in the other direction
I fell pregnant at 15 and didnt find out until i was 6 months gone and had split up from the father. After i refused to marry the father (both parents wanted) he denied ever sleeping with me and the child could not possibly be his. his parents wanted dna tests but they would not even help towards costs (expected me or my parents to pay for the 3 tests mine his and the babies (one hell of alot of money 9 years ago) i could not afford this so it was thier choise to have it put in the csa's hands which sorted the tests out which they did (tests done in this way csa pays for tests and the wrong party pays back the cost to the csa)
The test came back in my favour he was the father and he admitted to lying months afterwards. he had a big bill to pay at that point and had to pay 6 months back maintainance money plus the amount they said he had to pay weekly towards the upkeep of our son.
But at 15 and no other choise that i had should he have to pay or should he like you say be exempt because he never wanted a child

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29 Feb 2008

Quote by winchwench
sent him a text asking if he knew wat date it was - reply i have no idea wat date is it - my reply 29th feb durrrr
that should get him thinking for now

But what if his reply is.....drumroll.......
"I'd love to, but, you know, we're poles apart!"
:giggle:
more likey to be a reply of wording like this
"what the :fuckinghell: would i want to marry you for"
"yeah like bankrupt is my middle name"
"i'll marry you when im dying" (hes said that one before)
Yours, destined to be a spinster x

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29 Feb 2008

sent him a text asking if he knew wat date it was - reply i have no idea wat date is it - my reply 29th feb durrrr
that should get him thinking for now wink

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29 Feb 2008

Quote by Missy
The only time the drinks will be on me is, if I'm kidding oan I'm a fecking table.
And how could you ask him sherri? thot he was away In the alps>>
FFs a bit extreme to got that far just to make sure he doesnt see you today.

dek went to the north pole way up there with them friendly men loving polar bears to get away from me today loon

something i said :twisted:
rotflmao

Must be time differences tho? Maybe catch him out using a different time zone? :lol2:
its only an hour ahead of us.

pretty much directly north ish of us
Oh dear sad

Can't you pretend you thought he was at the South Pole, you must have 12 hours leeway then? lol

Or is that the same time as well :confused: time zones go up and down don't they

is anywhere 12 hours away from the poles? :confused: dunno

I think the south pole is pretty much on the same time zone aswell (enter the big history lesson with google earth dek and a bottle of whiskey one night) confused

now correct me if im wrong confused

(i was drunk when i learnt this) but the south pole is directly south of the north pole time zones apply by lines running down the globe (as seen on the piccy) and the further you get from the equator? the bigger the difference in time??? or something mombo pombo like that
basically the top of pic in the middle (gmt) is north pole and bottom of pic is south pole and dek is on the little blue island at the top of the +1 A strip
righty ho confusing my self again cool

and to answer missies question i think australia is 12 hours from the poles or am i completely stuuuupid wink

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29 Feb 2008

Quote by Missy
The only time the drinks will be on me is, if I'm kidding oan I'm a fecking table.
And how could you ask him sherri? thot he was away In the alps>>
FFs a bit extreme to got that far just to make sure he doesnt see you today.

dek went to the north pole way up there with them friendly men loving polar bears to get away from me today loon

something i said :twisted:
rotflmao

Must be time differences tho? Maybe catch him out using a different time zone? :lol2:
its only an hour ahead of us. confused

pretty much directly north ish of us

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29 Feb 2008

Quote by woohoo
The only time the drinks will be on me is, if I'm kidding oan I'm a fecking table.
And how could you ask him sherri? thot he was away In the alps>>
FFs a bit extreme to got that far just to make sure he doesnt see you today.

dek went to the north pole way up there with them friendly men loving polar bears to get away from me today loon

something i said :twisted:

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29 Feb 2008

Quote by Sherri_kev
thought about it lol ............
He in another country had to do it by text
and question was
'would you?' not will you

the worse half in another country now so it would be by text highly romantic and yes i would (if i didnt already know the answer) wink

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29 Feb 2008

Quote by woohoo
It's just the NE room fanny cos most of them have trouble reading one line of text never mind ten

thants true lol

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29 Feb 2008

Quote by TabbynTina
Like you say no method is 100% and I agree with you on that but also like you say it takes 2 to make a baby but when the 2 people cant agree its only 1 persons choice as to whether or not they keep it

That works both ways it should not just be the mans or womens choice if the man does not want the baby and the women does or vise versa there is never an easy answer but it is the women who has to have abortion or have the baby. If complications occur it is the women left infertile or with fertility problems

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29 Feb 2008

Quote by winchwench
i went against my views on this a couple of months ago still quite a sore subject though and a lot of guilt

My mother went through this too, I think part of it is a griefing process, which is normal.
It was one of the most hardest decisions ive ever had to make. under other circumstances it would have been a blessing. The staff i found to be caring and none judgemental and not what i expected i was also lucky that those close to me didnt judge me on me decision
Tan, just to back up my pm.
I've been lucky enough never to have had an abortion. However, I came pretty damn close once, but I was over the limit. When we found this out, we told our older kids we were expecting. Minutes later, there was a call from my GP- telling me he'd found somewhere prepared to still do it. By then, obviously it was too late. I am so grateful for those few minutes now, as we have coped and our youngest is a blessing.
However, a few years ago I supported a dear friend through an abortion. I honestly think I cried a tear for each of hers. It was awful, as I didn't think she was doing the right thing- but I couldn't try to sway her. I just had to point out all the pro's & con's from a completely neutral standpoint. She went through hell. An infection afterwards when they fitted her with a coil has rendered her sterile- so she will never have any kids.
The whole experience made me pretty anti-abortion. However, having almost been there myself I know that few people take the decision lightly. There are exceptions, of course- I know of someone who had 4, and another person 3 abortions.
Anyway, Tan, if you didn't feel guilt- then I think you'd need to worry. confused

But no- that doesn't mean I think you deserve to kiss

Thank you

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29 Feb 2008

i already know the answer no point in asking rolleyes

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29 Feb 2008

the cringe bin
sh confessional
your most embarrassing moments
3 that came to the top of my head
enjoy getting dirt on us all wink

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29 Feb 2008

when anything larger than 10 lines comes up it wrecks havoc and sometimes crashes the room or is that just the NE room lol

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