My mum has met one swinger friend (obviously didnt tell her how we met) some excuse or other :lol2: luckily we live in the same town so easy enough to explain
A vanilla friend also has been to house parties which was a social swinging party and also to a social i organised through this site (all were made aware)
And been away for the weekend with other swingers and family (camping) with my son
Have met alot of family of one sh'er but they do know she swings
Could say the boundaries get blurred :giggle:
I crossed the line once with a vanilla couple, m/f
It was one of my closest friends and the only one who knows i swing, they asked me if i would after they had talked about it and the fem wanted someone she could trust, so who better than a close friend who just happened to be a swinger and was also in a safe relationship. This settled her fears of a single causing problems afterwards :lol2:
After much thought i went ahead with it and really enjoyed it, but left it at the once
Not sure if i would do it again though cant really plan these things
The twatting door frame just smacked my fingers :shock: bastard hurt did that :cry:
Tan now typing one handed :undecided:
depends what im eating or doing -
Eating got to be red with anything
general getting sloshed rose fizzy
My closest friend knows - i decided to tell her because she already knew me very well and i wanted a safety net she is the one i tell who im meeting and where if im meeting on my own. She wasnt shocked and still asks the odd question but doesnt question or judge why i do it,
No way i could ever tell my family though hands up to those who have/can
It all comes down to the sort of relationship you have with them i guess
I had a very close encounter with a fwb, He did tell me he loved me and me being the dosy bint that i was then (and probably still am) carried on with the fling. :doh:
Anyway things reared an very ugly head when everything went very very wrong a few months later :cry: I had to put aside my morals and deal with what had to be done, not quite sure if i can totally forgive myself for that one.
Now id run a flipping mile as quickly as my ickle legs could carry me :scared: Once bitten twice shy.