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The__Shadow
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 50

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Quote by Elissamay
I reckon you could read the 'trouble getting into the chat room' thread......
Either that or wade on into a huge row about who is allowed to be there and who isn't.
confused
dunno
I have spoken to Hayley a few times and we are hoping to meet soon, she is very genuine..
I've got my own office, and used to loev it when my ex turned up in nothing but a long coat
A friend of mine she's always moaning about her dad's affairs and how much it upsets her mum, but recently started seeing a married man herself..when i pointed this out to her she simply said it's different and chabged the subject
I've just spent a week in Cupar(Fife) playing golf and found everyone I met very friendly and keen to help, a huge difference to the south east of England.
Quote by Rainbows
These things freak me out! How DO they work?
And yes - it did work.

i don't understand either
as i'm a nominal single man, i needn't worry about volume of replies....
it's been a day, and madonna still hasn't picked up on my ad. :cry:
She's replied to mine!!!
Hi, I'm a single male living in the south east, just looking for some advise on clubs. Would be very grateful for any help
Wow do mean to say that there are cinemas in brighton biggrin :D
Learn something new everyday.[/quote
It's all rather sophisticated down here nowadays you know :mrgreen:
Got a date tonight, going for a meal then pictures. Does anyone know of anything good on at the moment?
Quote by hayleyw2
I feel sorry for single guys though. There arent many proper horny babes and they get snapped up and kept.
I will stay single because I like my life and have enough experience not to compramise it.
I can see where your rage mad comes from, my boy mates have felt the same in the past and many have settled for a lifestyle less than they wanted because something is better than nothing.
It actualy hurts to want this way of life and either not get it or get it in little bits. a stretched mind never goes back and ignorance can be bliss. I think we can forgive a little vented rage, its us peeps with the extreme emotions that make our community.
Listen mate keep on being different and revel in your freedom.
wink

I agree with this I have loads of mates with partners/girlfriends that we all know are second best..
Quote by lucyweebaps
Why do some..( not all ) Single men spit out the dummy when they are told NO SINGLE MALES! Is it a pride thing? dunno
Is It not everyones perogative on whom they desire or wish to swing with? We are all entitled to have our own personal sexual desires! ..So what gets me is why some of them don't understand and seem to take it very personal when told thx but not thx..Should We have to explain why the interest is not there! Personally I don't believe anyone should have to explain their reason."No thx should be enough ! Everyone has their own boundaries and desires. and those boundaries/desires should be repected by others! Perhaps if guilty ones took a leaf out of some of the other guys book s, Get to know Couples well before pressuring them then maybe have a bit more luck! !
Lucy xx
PS ..Plz Note ( Not All Single Guys) before I get lynched for this post

Being a single male, I can't see what the problem is... If an ad says no single males then I don't reply.....Surely it's not that hard to understand is it!!!
Quote by Riff Raff

England? Big Time ? This surely merits an inclusion in the oxymoron thread.

Sorry, he never did much in an England shirt (except hatrick for England B v Russia B I think that was in 1998)
Le Tissier was a good premiership player at a twobob club.
By big time although southampton are premiership we all know premiership is four section top 4 (2 london clubs, liverpool and MU, UEFA cup positions, relegation and mid table) He didn't play in Europe and prove himself against the best as people like Giggs, keane, shearer, cantona, adams, gasgoine, zola, speed, Phil Neville has more in his tropey cabinet than le tissier!!!!!
Quote by burose
you can`t call the lovely clare a donkey.......no wonder she divorced you .lol :crazy:

boink :boink: :boink: :boink:
Gutted living and working in Eastern Europe (moving home tomorrow after six months out here) Match of the day is one of the things i miss most out here.....
Quote by Vix
So far we have done mmf, we are open to mff but as yet, no takers. However, I dunno if I could watch him 'do' another burd. That is so unfair, I know, as he watches and participates in my doing other men.
I do sex as a seperate thing from 'love', but I know R only does sex when there's love involved. Therefore, if I saw him fuck another woman, I'd be concerned that there was love involved and LOVE is something we share with eachother and no-one else.
OK, I am selfish and I am chicken.
Sorry.
God I am sorry.

Nothing wrong with understanding your boundries and keeping love and sex apart...I think your post makes alot of sense..
Quote by Vix
I detest seeing a VPL. I, as you may know, don't do undies, mainly because I feel uncomfortable in them, but secondly because of my destation of the dreaded VPL. Hate to see it, would die if I had one.

I've got alot of time for girls that don't wear undies