I haven't cried at a film for a while, but just before Christmas I watched Felon.
The tears flowed! :cry:
I never expected such a film to do that, came as a real suprise.
The last one before that was about a robot boy that wanted to feel love by a mother, I watched this with my 12 year old son. We were both sobbing after.
The name escapes me!
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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by vodka_babe22uk
Yep I would have given, I can't walk past anyone on the street begging without giving them money. I been very lucky in my life with a good job, my own house and wonderful kids and it saddens me to see people like this to the point I almost feel guilty about what I have.............
I am of the same mind as you, as I feel lucky to have what I have and I would help anyone that I thought was a genuine case. I did feel that there are charities set up for people that are homeless and destitute, I believe there are very few people these days unlike years ago that need to suffer starvation in this country.
I did feel somewhat that it could have been money to aid a drug problem so I didn’t want to support that. As I was not in a position to have bought her a coffee or sandwich I didn’t give anything.
If her case was genuine why didn’t she ask at the station where there were a lot of fast food restaurants instead of boarding a train?
if she had no money how did she board the train as all stations have the ticket barriers in place now
The station was charrington cross and there are barriers and a ticket inspector was on duty at the barriers, so she must of had a ticket as she boarded the train at that station.
Quote by markz
Yep I would have given, I can't walk past anyone on the street begging without giving them money. I been very lucky in my life with a good job, my own house and wonderful kids and it saddens me to see people like this to the point I almost feel guilty about what I have.............
I am of the same mind as you, as I feel lucky to have what I have and I would help anyone that I thought was a genuine case. I did feel that there are charities set up for people that are homeless and destitute, I believe there are very few people these days unlike years ago that need to suffer starvation in this country.
I did feel somewhat that it could have been money to aid a drug problem so I didn’t want to support that. As I was not in a position to have bought her a coffee or sandwich I didn’t give anything.
If her case was genuine why didn’t she ask at the station where there were a lot of fast food restaurants instead of boarding a train?
I have been with hubby since I was 15 and the only person I had ever had penetrative sex with.
We had an mmf some 17 years ago with a friend one night after all having a few drinks, but there was no penetrative sex involved. I guess that planted the seed in hubby that is was something I would do again.
After years of raising children the subject did come up from time to time and was a fantasy that sometimes got discussed although I wasn’t keen, the thought of having sex and an mmf with another guy really turned me on.
So with a lot of thought we decided to try to find a guy we could have a friendship and good times with.
We have since met a some guys, two of which we have met on few occasions and have a good friendship with, we have shared good fun times together.
At this stage in my life I feel we have achieved what we set out to do, so don’t feel the need to keep going so we have stopped meeting, but still remain friends with the guys we have met.
We had an mmf some 17 years ago with a friend one night after all having a few drinks, but there was no penetrative sex involved. I guess that planted the seed in hubby that is was something I would do again.
After years of raising children the subject did come up from time to time and was a fantasy that sometimes got discussed although I wasn’t keen, the thought of having sex and an mmf with another guy really turned me on.
So with a lot of thought we decided to try to find a guy we could have a friendship and good times with.
We have since met a some guys, two of which we have met on few occasions and have a good friendship with, we have shared good fun times together.
At this stage in my life I feel we have achieved what we set out to do, so don’t feel the need to keep going so we have stopped meeting, but still remain friends with the guys we have met.
Quote by __random_orbit__
I haven't 'faked'... though have 'orgasmed' without noticably ejaculating... i guess if needs be that could be used as way of faking should one choose... though I haven't, honest.
lp
:shock: Is that the same as a woman having an orgasm without any sign of moistness?
Can that happen, I really dont know
It has never happened to me.
Just talking to a friend and somehow got onto a quick subject about faking an orgasm.
We were just joking about but he said if he was a woman he would just fake it.
I said I never have I wouldn't let a man think he is that good.
But jokes aside I would think by faking you are both missing out.
He said put a thread up and ask!
So would you ever fake an orgasm?
We were just joking about but he said if he was a woman he would just fake it.
I said I never have I wouldn't let a man think he is that good.
But jokes aside I would think by faking you are both missing out.
He said put a thread up and ask!
So would you ever fake an orgasm?
I was on a train the other evening coming back from town, when a lady stood up and said along the lines of
“ sorry for interrupting your evening, but I am homeless and as such do not get a giro check delivered while this is being sorted out at present I have no money and haven’t eaten today, I do not want to turn to crime, so I am asking could anyone spare a small donation”
I felt my feelings being split on the one hand I would like to give if I knew she was genuine on the other hand I don’t like to be taken as a fool.
So I just sat watched to see what happened.
I was pleasantly surprised as I would say a quarter of the people on the train gave her some money, while the others I felt by the look on their faces looked with suspicion like I was.
After she walked down the carriage it leads to a discussion amongst those that gave and those that didn’t.
All that gave said that they would fell angry if she was not genuine, I said you gave with good intent so don’t let her destroy that within you, feel proud of what you did.
While those that didn’t give all said they would to genuine know cases.
While I don’t feel proud of myself I would have given to a genuine case.
What it has done is restored my faith in the human race, as I saw that even with todays climate people really do care. I walk off the train with a very good feeling within but I wasn’t proud.
What would you have done?
“ sorry for interrupting your evening, but I am homeless and as such do not get a giro check delivered while this is being sorted out at present I have no money and haven’t eaten today, I do not want to turn to crime, so I am asking could anyone spare a small donation”
I felt my feelings being split on the one hand I would like to give if I knew she was genuine on the other hand I don’t like to be taken as a fool.
So I just sat watched to see what happened.
I was pleasantly surprised as I would say a quarter of the people on the train gave her some money, while the others I felt by the look on their faces looked with suspicion like I was.
After she walked down the carriage it leads to a discussion amongst those that gave and those that didn’t.
All that gave said that they would fell angry if she was not genuine, I said you gave with good intent so don’t let her destroy that within you, feel proud of what you did.
While those that didn’t give all said they would to genuine know cases.
While I don’t feel proud of myself I would have given to a genuine case.
What it has done is restored my faith in the human race, as I saw that even with todays climate people really do care. I walk off the train with a very good feeling within but I wasn’t proud.
What would you have done?
Quote by fem_4_taboo
ive been away illfor a few days,and have been catching upon the forums,
have i missed a notice??
ive seen a few comments within various other threads....
hopefully when they get the new system up and running people will have ebay style ratings so you at least know who are genuine and who isn't
Oh, and forgot to say,, even before the new function is introduced. How about couples using the "quickee" message function to let a guy know that their efforts in turning up were appreciated? Again, it's not fool proof but will help.
has there been an announcement at we are haveing a ebay rating system?
xx fem xxx
If there has been one, I have missed it!But don't rely on me I am known as
I am sure someone that has their lights fully switched on will know your answer.
I have just seen a programme about Asimo's.
The nearest human robot I have seen before
found this clip
Although I find them fascinating I also find it rather scary, they are saying they could be for sale as early as 2020.
They have even cloned a robot with real hair.
Do you think having human robots are exciting for the future?
I have mixed feeling about such things?
It is thought in time we will all have our own human robot.
If you had one, what do you think would be the benefits?
I would like one to do my ironing and housework.
But are we risking them doing our jobs, thus replacing us in the work place?
The nearest human robot I have seen before
found this clip
Although I find them fascinating I also find it rather scary, they are saying they could be for sale as early as 2020.
They have even cloned a robot with real hair.
Do you think having human robots are exciting for the future?
I have mixed feeling about such things?
It is thought in time we will all have our own human robot.
If you had one, what do you think would be the benefits?
I would like one to do my ironing and housework.
But are we risking them doing our jobs, thus replacing us in the work place?
I am catching a train in 30 mins just applied makeup and now look like a panda! Thanks
It said on the bottle waterproof, I guess that doesnt mean tear proof!
I will keep hold of that vision while bored on the train giggling away to myself.
So anyone getting a train and there is a mad woman sitting giggling to herself hi
it could be me! Quote by Dirtygirly
Just to clarify... its very easy to do it on my own... no problems there. :rascal: Just sometimes when I'm with someone else, especially someone new, it can take forever and occasionally not at all. :cry:
that's just a case of nerves and not knowing each other though surely? we can all worry then.
Possibly... it's a mental thing for me I guess... I never really relax until I know someone and they know me. That's probably why I never get very much out of the one off swinging things.
I think to orgasm you have to give yourself up totally, I haven't always had one on a first meet, I use that meet as getting a feel for each other and what the other really enjoys, then we work from there.
It has happened on a first meet but then that was somewhat in the planning and the fact we had spoken over a long time.
Trust respect and enjoying each other go a long way to make both feel relaxed and make it fun, I need to laugh to feel relaxed, it isnt always easy for either party.
I think to fully understand why there are some things you would like to try and J, I believe talking is key. I do think somethings you didn’t set out to do, can be done within time by talking and letting your partner know why you would like to do it.
Maybe if you both totally understood why, perhaps you might push the boundaries slightly.
If there was anything that either one of us had doubt over we have generally talked about it, there hasn’t been many things set in stone only the normal
Maybe if you both totally understood why, perhaps you might push the boundaries slightly.
If there was anything that either one of us had doubt over we have generally talked about it, there hasn’t been many things set in stone only the normal
...Pigeons...
Quote by phil_osopher
Where on earth did you spring from ???
...rumour has it that my mother had something to do with it...
...and there was something else about a postman...
Thankfully, my dad WAS the postman!
Keep up the good work, Flower - always enjoy your posts. :thumbup:
Did you have to say that?
Innuendos, the full penetration requires the orator to start slow, and build up gradually, while the recipient is somewhat confused as to the true meaning. It is a crafty way without being to suggestive to enter a conversation and lead it to a satisfying conclusion.
The most rewarding is when it is unexpected and you sneak in the back door.
The most rewarding is when it is unexpected and you sneak in the back door.
Quote by niceguysdoexist
Only a couple of days ago I had a call from someone purporting to be from the Halifax Bank. It was a female with an Irish accent and she sounded like she was reading from a call centre type stated my name and address asking me to confirm this which I did. She then told me as a customer of Halifax bank(which I was)and as I had applied for a mortgage and been approved(which I had but not with the Halifax)I was entitled to some special offers for preferential customers. But, for security reasons, she needed to verify some details, she asked me my date of birth which I gave her and she then asked me to confirm the balance in my account ...at this point I said I wasn't prepared to release details of my account to someone who has just made an unsolicited phonecall; to which the woman said ok thats fine but we cannot continue any further as we cannot verify you .
I am convinced that this was a scam and they were harvesting information to allow them to empty my account.
We have our morgage company call us and ask for us to confirm who we are, we always say the same thing.
You phoned us why do we need to comfirm who we are?
They always respond with the same reply we can not proceed further.
We then just tell them we will call them back, then we would be happy to disclose information.
I am a smoker, but I don't smoke on a meet unless the person is fine with smoking, but I don't drink.
I could be wrong but I believe there are more drinkers than smokers here.
I don't have a problem with drinkers, but I wouldn't like to meet someone that had to have a drink on a meet.
I can feel a poll coming on!
I could be wrong but I believe there are more drinkers than smokers here.
I don't have a problem with drinkers, but I wouldn't like to meet someone that had to have a drink on a meet.
I can feel a poll coming on!
Quote by duncanlondon
This is something one could only consider when your kids are no longer kids. ie they are sufficently mature and have had the basics of a sex life and are considering branching out into their own adventures.
Sharing any experiences is interesting. Telling people or being told about things takes away the surprise and expectations.
Sharing experiences is a great way to gather information to make a more informed choice.
We all here must of at some stage watched programmes read information, or even since spoken to others about their experiences about this lifestyle. Before during and after taking the plunge.
That is still being told about things if I decided to inform my children about this lifestyle I believe that would just be like hearing it from someone as to be able to help form their own opinion. But from someone that they could trust to answer truthfully.
Quote by flower411
I don`t always orgasm !!
I suppose that just increases me "girly" credentials.
But really !! c`mon ..do you girls honestly help the situation or do you sometimes just keep quiet and think ....."
It is generally easier for blokes to orgasm ....but if you don`t give a guy some pointers ....how do expect him to work it out ???
If someone asked for directions, I always like to make sure their destination is reached.
Quote by noladreams30
Sometimes I just can't. Can be having a great time and really enjoying the sensations but I just cannot orgasm.
Dunno why, but the minute I think about it then that doesn't help.
I can't always, I think it is different for woman, it is very much being in the right frame of mind and mood.
But I do think when it happens, it is well worth it
I haven't found men have those same problems.
Quote by kentswingers777
The main difference I can see between you and Splendid is that her child asks questions (so they are ready/want/need to know the answer). You said that when you want you will tell your children (so they may not be ready/want/need to know the answer).
All in all, as a parent you have a right to bring your child up as you wish (and within the law) and sod anybody else as they are not living your life.
Dave_Notts
Dave I said in the op I feel at the right time in their lives I will tell my children
Thats what I said above. The difference between both posts is that you will decide and not your child. The other poster said she will wait for her child to ask the questions
ok I should have said would instead of will.
It is still you deciding and not your child. That is the difference.
I never said "when I want I will tell my children.
You said when you decide it is the right time, you will tell them. In other words, when you want you will tell them
But you are right we bring our children up as we wish.
Absolutely, each to their own
I did ask how others would handle it, I didnt ask to be told what I should do.
I haven't. You said you agree with Splendid's post, but my understanding is that the two posts are different. Hence my reasons above. I am just getting confused by what you are saying. Do you mean you as the parent will decide when it is right for a child to be told or will you wait for the child to ask?
Dave_Notts
Maybe I could have been clearer in my op.
We talk openly about sex in our house, given the fact too that sex education is taught at such a young age now. If I felt my child was at a age that I thought they would understand and the conversation was that we thought it was approprate to tell them then, I would not hide the fact of what I have done. That is to have had sex outside of a stable loving and committed realationship.
I don't feel it is something I would need to keep from them.
We haven't put at risk our commitment to our Children or each other so I think it could help in their future thoughts of keeping an open mind about such things.
I wouldn't endorse the fact that it would be right for them or indeed they need to try it.
Unlike before I started I had a very closed mind on how it could work.
As I have already stated, would you tell them everything? If not then that is double standards, in what you have wrote previously.
Without going into detail yes I would, I have never felt the need to hide anything from my children, and neither have my parents, I know of the ghosts if that is what you would like to call in their cupboards, and feel I am happy not having any in mine.
I agree not all would see things in the same light and I don't expect them too.
You either tell them or...you don't. You cannot state you are being openminded and honest, and then keep the details of what you have done, a secret. It's all or nothing. Or are you only going to tell them ( when YOU are ready )to skip the details.
I dont understand what you are exactly getting at here
I do not think anyone on here who knows you, does not know your kind of swinging, if you get my drift, so how will your kids feel towards not just you, but their Father?
We swing as a couple why would they think any different about either?
I don't quiet understand the angle of the question.
It is something we both wanted to do, both agreed to, and both don't feel ashamed about and both would talk to our children about if and when the time came.
Crikey you are going down such a dangerous path. Why is it that parents nowadays put being a friend before a parent?
You may think that it is a dangerous path I don't see it as such, so that is your opinion that you are intitled too. Why do you think that it so wrong to be able to meet at some stage your children on the same level?
At a point when they are adults are they not on the same level as us.
This is my final word on this as I am struggling to understand this, and yes Davey I am still perplexed and astonished that any parent would openly and willingly, give this kind of information to their kids.... A strange world we live in.
I don't expect any answers from you, as you said you are away from the thread, I just wanted to clarify some questions you raised, as these are my opinions.
Quote by kentswingers777
The main difference I can see between you and Splendid is that her child asks questions (so they are ready/want/need to know the answer). You said that when you want you will tell your children (so they may not be ready/want/need to know the answer).
All in all, as a parent you have a right to bring your child up as you wish (and within the law) and sod anybody else as they are not living your life.
Dave_Notts
Dave I said in the op I feel at the right time in their lives I will tell my children
Thats what I said above. The difference between both posts is that you will decide and not your child. The other poster said she will wait for her child to ask the questions
ok I should have said would instead of will.
It is still you deciding and not your child. That is the difference.
I never said "when I want I will tell my children.
You said when you decide it is the right time, you will tell them. In other words, when you want you will tell them
But you are right we bring our children up as we wish.
Absolutely, each to their own
I did ask how others would handle it, I didnt ask to be told what I should do.
I haven't. You said you agree with Splendid's post, but my understanding is that the two posts are different. Hence my reasons above. I am just getting confused by what you are saying. Do you mean you as the parent will decide when it is right for a child to be told or will you wait for the child to ask?
Dave_Notts
Maybe I could have been clearer in my op.
We talk openly about sex in our house, given the fact too that sex education is taught at such a young age now. If I felt my child was at a age that I thought they would understand and the conversation was that we thought it was approprate to tell them then, I would not hide the fact of what I have done. That is to have had sex outside of a stable loving and committed realationship.
I don't feel it is something I would need to keep from them.
We haven't put at risk our commitment to our Children or each other so I think it could help in their future thoughts of keeping an open mind about such things.
I wouldn't endorse the fact that it would be right for them or indeed they need to try it.
Unlike before I started I had a very closed mind on how it could work.
As I have already stated, would you tell them everything? If not then that is double standards, in what you have wrote previously.
You either tell them or...you don't. You cannot state you are being openminded and honest, and then keep the details of what you have done, a secret. It's all or nothing. Or are you only going to tell them ( when YOU are ready )to skip the details.
I do not think anyone on here who knows you, does not know your kind of swinging, if you get my drift, so how will your kids feel towards not just you, but their Father?
Crikey you are going down such a dangerous path. Why is it that parents nowadays put being a friend before a parent?
This is my final word on this as I am struggling to understand this, and yes Davey I am still perplexed and astonished that any parent would openly and willingly, give this kind of information to their kids.... A strange world we live in.
Please dont base your worldly opinion just on me, there are far more than just me that lives in it!
