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27 Dec 2008

Quote by travlinmanukok
have to admit also that some things are getting a little out of hand on the forum these days, ive noticed a few good threads getting spoiled by people having a few spats.
I do understand that no everyone gets on and people do have a difference of opinion but some dont know when to just let things go,,,,this is not intended to anyone in particualar but most of us enjoy just reading along in the forums and not posting much
xxx

why do you think i dont put so many on now ??????????? and i am a newbie .......old saying a still tongue makes a wise head , more true than ever on the forum .........most go to the groups at least you know when you have posted a group who is REALLY interested in you ? and not just to give crass comments ?
steve
A "still tongue" on a chat forum is about as much use as wearing a condom whilst having a wank. rolleyes

rolleyes

not really xx
a still tongue is watching waiting listening building up a rapore with GENUINE people who understand you and want to know you I personally have never had a wank with a condom on its usually with a female hand without a condom on .....end of ?
steve
A still tounge I believe is someone that is not willing to learn, listen and question.
To not question someone’s opinion, to me isn’t a wise way of learning about people, and what there intent really is.
If what you are saying, is you would only talk to people that see things your way and agree with you surely that is a safe option.
I for one thrive on people that disagree with me, as I don’t see myself as knowing all the answers in what ever the discussion is, but I do have my own opinions and would state my own opinion. I learn at times when I see things in a different way. The ablilty to question and hear what others are saying is a way of me saying I have an open mind.
I feel to have an open mind is doing what I have said above, that is how I see it.

27 Dec 2008

Dave and Tune so sorry to hear about your not so nice times here, nobody deserves that kind of abuse.
I only know you from your posts, and enjoy what you have to say.
I would say there are some here of little minds and no soul.
Please don’t let them sway you both from posting.
One of the reason I have never felt the need to get involved in socials or munchies as there would be people there I would enjoy meeting on a social level and there are others I feel I would not like to socialise with, I cant stand people that are two faced and I feel just by reading some posts here that is about, and I have never met the people. Just call it gut reaction. Hence why I have very few friends here but loads that I chat too and enjoy the banter with.
I have always felt I could not be part of a group that would isolate another on others formed opinions, that isn’t in my character so I keep well away from that aspect of the site and chat.

27 Dec 2008

After reading this thread
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/289801.html
What with the government talking about banning smacking.
Now with ways to put in place what the thread above states.
Isn’t this just another knock at parents saying we are unfit to parent?
Why don’t we just sit back and make the government accountable for our children’s actions seems that what they would like.
Do we not have the right to parent how we see fit?
I believe we should have the right and be accountable as parents. After all we are adults and once you have a child they are your responsibility. Not the responsibility of the state, school or anyone else.
If you can’t parent a child and want that responsibility to keep them safe and cared for you shouldn’t have children.
Children need to know what to look out for on the internet. I think it is like being street wise, you have to teach them to be computer wise too. Teach them about the risk so that they can avoid them, tell them what to look out for and call an adult if unsure a bit like on the streets if in trouble teach them ways to deal with it.
We can not wrap our kids up in cotton wool it’s gone to far for that.
What they should have done is seen the way things were going years ago, not now try to shut the gate after the horses have bolted.

27 Dec 2008

redface

what!!! I only use the forums or chatroom buttons where did all the other ones come from dunno

dunno

lol

27 Dec 2008

Fem I haven’t heard of groups don’t even know where to find them. Sounds a bit like the secret society, funny hand shake brigade. lol

lol

27 Dec 2008

Quote by Lost
...your partner or a partner just to see their reaction but would never dare? You know the sort of thing I think. Things such as if your the fem half of a straight couple donning a strap on and shagging your male 'other' when its something you know they'd never ask or to your knowledge want?
I know what i'd like to do too a fem :twisted: but I aint telling ya's. No way you'd tell on me

lost are you trying to tell us something? lol

lol

26 Dec 2008

Quote by Dirtygirlie
Oooooooooooh!! How clever is that?! Thanks MikeNorth!
But... I'd never have been able to make my skint pic if they'd done that when I ordered my pennies from the mint! :giggle:

Thats brlliant rotflmao

rotflmao

:thumbup:

26 Dec 2008

I have been listening to my new Jackie CD. lol

lol

Its great I know every song except one.

26 Dec 2008

Quote by kentswingers777
Just a quick message to everyone, to have a fantastic Christmas.
To old a new Forum members and those I have shared a laugh with and on occasions, shared some anger with.....Happy Christmas.
From both Mr and Mrs 777 xxxx

I have very few people here I feel I know but you two have been there from the start of me joining this site and we still have never met. But to you both we have had some great laughs in the chat rooms. To Mr we have some great disagreements too over the year, but we can pride ourselves on always knowing that two people can never agree but will always have respect for each other, as you Mr 777 have a heart and soul, just a shame you don't have a brain too lol

lol

Mrs you are lovely and hope you got rid of your cold before Christmas day.
There is another couple of people I feel I would like to mention but wont as I know one for sure don't like to be named but he is the person that first got me onto the forums. You know who you are I would like to say we have had some great laughs in the chat rooms, I do look back with fond memories of my times in chat.
To these special people and all the others in the chat rooms that have made my time here fun I wish you a very happy 2009.
To all the forumites thanks for the highs lows laughter and tears, what an interesting, educational, fun place these forums are, I say :cheers: to you all for making them that way.
I wish you all health and happiness in 2009.
Keep posting!! lol

lol

Minx
xxx

23 Dec 2008

I just ignore whispers unless I want to respond, has never been a problem they soon get fed up and leave. If they are completely distastful I have on a few occasions just copied and pasted them into a room, and they have soon left.
Some whisperers just a kick of negative responses I have found in rooms where the person openly says please dont whisper.
So I have found ignore to be the best way.

23 Dec 2008

I do like a cup of tea before and after, does that count dunno

dunno

lol

21 Dec 2008

Quote by Lone_swordsman
Willingness to show appreciation or consideration.

I agree but you can respect someone without ever meeting them personally or ever talking to them but just being aware about them. So you could never show that person appreciation or condideration.
I think you can. I don't put my feet on the seats when I'm on the train or bus. I don't know who'll sit there after me and may never meet them but I've been considerate and appreciated their right to have a nice spot to sit in.
To me not putting my feet up on a train or bus seat is more down to having manners. but could the two respect and manners be closely linked?

21 Dec 2008

Quote by Firelizard
Willingness to show appreciation or consideration.

I agree but you can respect someone without ever meeting them personally or ever talking to them but just being aware about them. So you could never show that person appreciation or condideration.
Yes you can Minxy....in a forum like this for instance. You can respect anothers opinion and try to show consideration for the feelings of others when you post and just now someone showed their appreciation of me in the mistletoe thread...so I think it can be done virtually as well as in person.
:thumbup:
I agree if you communicate with someone either verbally or like here in the written form you can show consideration.
My last comment was more to do with someone that you are never going to meet but have respect and admiration for... such as someone like Florence Nightingale sprung to mind.

21 Dec 2008

When we have met guys we have either met at our place or theirs so costs have never been an issue.
We have generally met with the same guys so we have just alternated our place or theirs.

21 Dec 2008

Quote by Lone_swordsman
Willingness to show appreciation or consideration.

I agree but you can respect someone without ever meeting them personally or ever talking to them but just being aware about them. So you could never show that person appreciation or condideration.

21 Dec 2008

To respect someone to me is a hard question to really answer in the written form.
I see respect to have many different meanings and different levels.
People all see respect to mean different things.
Respect could mean to hold someone in a higher esteem than yourself, someone you would look at with admiration this could be for different reasons.
Respect could mean you value that person’s opinion but not see them in a higher esteem but on an equal level.
Respect could be a natural feeling towards people.
What does respect mean to you?

20 Dec 2008

Quote by niceguysdoexist

One for the moment sorry!
Could state ownership work, I believe state ownership of utilities transport housing could work if managed right.

I ramble on far too much so looking for a quick answer
No! Well I don't think so ...why ..
State run enterprises have historically become inefficient dinosaurs as governments shied away from making hard decisions of funding them appropriately for fear of upsetting the electorate with unpopular increases in service charges or taxes. If any cash was generated rather than re-invested it was salted away to fund other more needy areas of public finance consequently state run industries became out dated underinvested and uncompetitive.
Properly managed maybe transport and utility provision could work in theory , in practice, for those reasons above it can't.
Tliam, your far too young to recall British rail, British gas,British coal all nationalised industries sold off by the Tories and latterly Labour primarily to raise funds to cover holes in public finance. They were never successful industries under state ownership
:shock: To young lol

lol

Thanks
I was 15 when the Tories won in 1979 I do remember them not working then, but surely couldn’t they see what went wrong then and put things right it just needs good management in place.
Plus peoples attitudes need to change that are public sector workers.
Just because it failed before is it not worth trying again?
btw ramble on I enjoy reading your responses it makes for an interesting discussion.

20 Dec 2008

I have watched every week.
A few weeks ago I would have said Tom.
A couple of weeks a go Rachael
Last week I thought Lisa done so well
So I really am stuck who I want to win.
I think between Lisa or Rachael

20 Dec 2008

Quote by easy

:shock: there were three of those images here a moment ago, I thought you liked threesomes. lol

lol

20 Dec 2008

Quote by Lost
Check it goes through the slot please

What happens to the big ones that dont fit dunno

dunno

All the girls it seems want a big one but unless the slot is big enough it wont fit esp A4 wink

wink

A4 - what A four inches dunno

dunno

:

wink

Now I have heard that some women like multiple packages biggrin

biggrin

I believe all good things come in small packages! wink

wink

20 Dec 2008

I could do with a nice long SC with lemonade no ice.
Are there any party hats and poppers?
It is nearly Christmas you know.

20 Dec 2008

Quote by blonde
Back ................ what did I miss????
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi

wave

Where have you been?
I've had my head over a bowl full of Olbas Oil ....... I have girlie flu :cry:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Olbase oils yuck yuck yuck!!
The smell yuck. My mum swore by them! lol

lol

Hope you get well soon kiss

kiss

20 Dec 2008

Quote by blonde
Back ................ what did I miss????
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi

wave

Where have you been?

20 Dec 2008

Quote by Lost
I wont disagree... but then, I shallbeg to differ.
In my opinion.
so... whats all this about a fun thread?
at this time of year?
Outrageous!!
tell you whats annoying the living hell out of me right now, and thats an advert
it has a ditty:
it's beginning to look a lot like chrissstmass.
arrrgh!
lp

lp just for you! lol

Lets be honest though minx Lp is right that tune is getting right on my tits at the mo too mad

mad

I agree mine too!
Blame M&S

20 Dec 2008

Quote by __random_orbit__
I wont disagree... but then, I shallbeg to differ.
In my opinion.
so... whats all this about a fun thread?
at this time of year?
Outrageous!!
tell you whats annoying the living hell out of me right now, and thats an advert
it has a ditty:
it's beginning to look a lot like chrissstmass.
arrrgh!
lp

lp just for you! lol

20 Dec 2008

Quote by Lost
So Tony Blair is a now Catholic.

But is the pope?

:shock: you just had to didn't ya? lol

lol

20 Dec 2008

Quote by Lost
Check it goes through the slot please

What happens to the big ones that dont fit dunno

dunno

20 Dec 2008

Do you deliver too?

20 Dec 2008

Quote by flower411

if you noticed I didnt say a word! :smug:

20 Dec 2008

Quote by __random_orbit__

Sanctuary is here for all true believers ..

:awe:
you live in Croydon?
oooooo!
lp
AWWWW my sole acolyte !!! you see "Croydon" as sanctuary !!!
You have far to travel ........
with a single footstep, it begins...
(I typed that with a strange accent... to appear very short, big ears... stick... little cloak)
lp

you know what?
If Mr Flower hadn't set the ground rules at the start of the thread...ooo why I aughta....
lp
What rules dunno

dunno

I know nothing!