I would have to say mine is: Shawshank redemption.
What is one of your favourite films?
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Theladyisaminx
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Quote by DeeCee
But also I see the mind as something that can constantly be reprogrammed a bit like a computer really.
I agree... it appears to be.
Have you read " the Human Mind" by Dr Robert Winston?
He favours that view.
Nope but have watched his series of programmes, intresting guy.
He has done a new book for a new series...
well worth a read/watch.
explains alot of behaviours in all his work.
He done the nurture nature series, that was facinating to.
What is the new one called?
Quote by DeeCee
I did wonder why you both reacted the way you did.
well, im like a dog, if you poke me with a stick... youre gonna get bitten.
Not all dogs would bite, you know
Im not just any old dog.....
Are you a mongrel or pedigree?
pedigree, with papers
Significant stud experience.......
mmm Interesting must be the inter breeding!
Sorry you fell for that!
Quote by DeeCee
OK fact might have been the wrong word to use. But hopefully you get my point.
i completely got your point... im not being argumentative with you.
I hope I didn't give you the impression that I thought you were!
I want to discuss the topic with are obviously interested in the mechanics of it... as I am....
I am interested in the mechanics of the mind, as it is here we form opinions, ideas, how we act react etc
The mind to me is a complex place I like to ask questions and see how others think how they react etc.
I enjoy watching how they react to a question how they communicate etc
To me it is fascinating to watch as we are all so different and respond and act in different ways.
I just find people fascinating they entertain me, make me think, make me angry at times, but it is how we all react is the most fascinating of all.
I often wonder why someone thinks the way they do, why they responded the way they did, how they formed an opinion etc.
But also I see the mind as something that can constantly be reprogrammed a bit like a computer really.
Damn I think my mind is going a little adrift here
I got a little side-tracked and took my eye off the ball.
my outburst from before is over! lol
I did wonder why you both reacted the way you did.
Quote by DeeCee
To form an opinion on a topic or issue I believe the following!
By reading newspapers or watching the news is just an item or report based on that one person’s interpretations of that item or topic.
To gather ones own opinion is to question and listen to others views research such issues see whats happened before, gather facts from all sorts of resources only then in my opinion can we gathered enough facts to form our own opinion.
But I do find a lot of people are unable to gather their own opinion as they believe totally what they have read, or seen by a couple of resources.
But there are a lot here that have an opinion but keep an open mind, we read what others say and think.
I like to think others can help me change my opinion as we don’t know all the facts and sometimes what people say can make me see something in a different light that I haven’t thought of before.
We all form our opinions in different ways and we are all entitled to do so.
How do you form an opinion?
Are you open to change you opinion?
good point...
so how do you take someone who says " your entilted to your opinion, but mine is right"?
I don't believe anyone can always be right.
Unless is it is a proven and tested fact.
So people that say that I just see as not being able to boarden their mind!
I think you are being charitable....
I don't think I am being charitable,
I know of one person that thinks he is right, as I have said openly before I think he is delusioned.
People do have more that one side about them, from what you see in here.
In here you see more of my serious side my innermost feelings and thoughts etc.
Where in Chat rooms my happy fun and a laugh side comes out. All what you see is me just strange how the two different me comes out in two different places.
If one opens their mind then opinions can change... but people hold steadfast for a number of different reasons... some of which defy logic!!
I would hope I have an open mind, I believe I have, I read what everyone says and I think about their responses, but in life I have also met people that are stuck in their ways so hard to budge, I can understand this as I have a Mother like me and a Father that is stuck in his ways, I just think they have a much more victorian approach to life, it is a bit like being stuck in a time warp!
You say.."I don't believe anyone can always be right.
Unless is it is a proven and tested fact"
i agree with the first part... no one can always be right
.... but i think you have to expand the final bit. Facts can be tested... but an "opinion" is only another word for "interpretation" of what they actually tend to infer.
Sorry I went off on a brach here and thought when would I believe someone is right!
My mind drifted to Isaac Newton for example he must of formed an opinion about gavity he must of questioned then proved it to be a fact.
Sorry my mind diverses at times, I don't expect others to understand me.
One fact on its own doesnt prove much... there needs to be a few together to support an , more than inference or interpretation is often possible based on any given (substantiated) fact.
Hope I have answered your points and that is makes some sense!
Quote by kentswingers777
Oh thankyou very much for the PM Deecee. I was very tempted to put your comments in this thread but I wont.
I also wont bother sending it to admin either. It just goes to show that you are obviously not used to having to answer for your comments.
But if you do have anything derogatory to say to me, why not just post it in the thread?
Am not going to comment any further,as some really cannot see a joke for a joke.
Ok.... my opinion .. and the contents of the PM is that "you are an idiot".
might i suggest the following 3 webites?
its
now... i was in the middle of discussing this rationally with Ladyisaminx....
Dee I like having a discussion with you, you do have valid points and I like my opinion to be questioned and you do that well.
But I know 777 and believe it or not we are friends on here, we as you can imagine don't agree on a lot to be honest, But I would never insult people, as we are all adults, I just choose to ignore him.
Why are we chatting on MSN then?
Even you know a lot of what I say is said tongue in cheek
All I ever do it try and make you see sense but it is like
lol I live in hope that one day you might just agree with one thing I say.
I just like a challenge.
Quote by DeeCee
Oh thankyou very much for the PM Deecee. I was very tempted to put your comments in this thread but I wont.
I also wont bother sending it to admin either. It just goes to show that you are obviously not used to having to answer for your comments.
But if you do have anything derogatory to say to me, why not just post it in the thread?
Am not going to comment any further,as some really cannot see a joke for a joke.
Ok.... my opinion .. and the contents of the PM is that "you are an idiot".
might i suggest the following 3 webites?
its
now... i was in the middle of discussing this rationally with Ladyisaminx....
Dee I like having a discussion with you, you do have valid points and I like my opinion to be questioned and you do that well.
But I know 777 and believe it or not we are friends on here, we as you can imagine don't agree on a lot to be honest, But I would never insult people, as we are all adults, I just choose to ignore him.
Quote by DeeCee
To form an opinion on a topic or issue I believe the following!
By reading newspapers or watching the news is just an item or report based on that one person’s interpretations of that item or topic.
To gather ones own opinion is to question and listen to others views research such issues see whats happened before, gather facts from all sorts of resources only then in my opinion can we gathered enough facts to form our own opinion.
But I do find a lot of people are unable to gather their own opinion as they believe totally what they have read, or seen by a couple of resources.
But there are a lot here that have an opinion but keep an open mind, we read what others say and think.
I like to think others can help me change my opinion as we don’t know all the facts and sometimes what people say can make me see something in a different light that I haven’t thought of before.
We all form our opinions in different ways and we are all entitled to do so.
How do you form an opinion?
Are you open to change you opinion?
good point...
so how do you take someone who says " your entilted to your opinion, but mine is right"?
I don't believe anyone can always be right.
Unless is it is a proven and tested fact.
So people that say that I just see as not being able to boarden their mind!
