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She is theladyisaminx.
I am sorry that people were upset too. I wasn't deceived first time around so my view over this has been that it was a bit of storm in a tea- cup. I am sure that those who were upset will be happy with an apology. But then again, that is just my opinion.
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well... not au-fait with what happened and who was upset:
Why not say here who you are and have done with it.
Not need to continue any giggle or deciet. and it will put an end to anyone feeling they have to search around to see what all the fuss was about etc etc
lp
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I have done some daft things! I have looked make and said "Why did I do that."
If you feel that way, you meant no harm then come clean and get on with your life.
Travis
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Bullying can take on many forms, mental and physical, cyber etc., etc.,
I hate bullies with a passion. I've just started a new job and I'm what you call a 'watcher', I've already noticed one lady who is an absolute disgrace, the way she talks to people, no pleases or thank you's, sits on her arse ordering people around and belittles at the first chance, I'm well aware of her and she'll not be doing that to me, newbie or not.
I'm lucky, I can stand up for myself, it's the ones who can't that worries me. What is even more of a worry is more often than enough, a bullied person becomes a bully themselves, or shows immense pent up aggression/frustration in later life.
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I wasen't here last night!
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this will be the last i say on this matter..
ok yes it will be clear i was peed off about being decieved in the hi im new thread when the person wasnt in fact new.
it was after that the guess who i am thread arose.
that i didnt have a issue with as it was clear the person was sating they were already a member.
i went to the steam room and ventedisnt that what its for?
i have never said i felt bullied. that wasnt bullying it was mistusting.
it upsets me that it was all given the go ahead from the mods apparently ?
now the thread that caused concern has just disapeared ,,, so it looks like i have an issue with the guess who i am thread.
i had no massive issue , but the fact i dared to say i had one at all has reslted in various comments on here and in private that i should chill , get a thicker skin etc etc ... is that mild intimidation to not speak out? or i will be outta as a moaning git, uptight etc?
i will now no doubt be told to let it drop it was just a laugh.
i am letting it drop. we all have our own personal pain in private life we are dealng with,i dont care to talk about mine here.
i made one comment to vent in the steam room,
i never said it started as bullying.
just wanted to make that clear before i get told to chill any more
xx fem xxx
oh and i think children adults what ever bullying isnt about age, size, money,it can happen to anyone and is not all about the physical act.
yes we can all walk away? but why should we?
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I saw Queen back in 86, and hubby has been a fan since 73/74 when he first saw them backing mott-the-hoople.
Freddy was a great front man so I did have reservations on how they were going to pull this off.
All I can say is in no way was Paul Rogers trying to be Freddy. Paul Rogers in great live, I have never rated him on in the studios.
There was one song Paul Rogers sung that I thought he didn’t really pull it off That was “the show must go on” but other than that the rest was good.
What a lot of people seem to forget is Queen wasn’t just Freddy, Brain May and Roger Taylor are brilliant musicians and I was gobsmacked at their performances last night outstanding. Freddy was there last night he was mentioned a lot he haven’t been forgotten. When Brian may sung “Love of my life” and dedicated it to Freddy you seemed to feel him there beside you.
So I would say a great concert!
Have you seen the new line up?
Even if you haven’t, what are you views?
Should the music carry on?
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Sorry minx I do not agree. We both love Queen, but Queen WAS Freddie. Without him it's like steak but without the chips.
I also love Paul Rogers as one of my favorite bands was Bad Company but....I just would not go and pay money to see Queen without Freddie. Somehow it just does not seem right. oh btw I was also there in 86 at Wembley.
The other members of Queen whilst good at what they do,they would never have been as big without the imput of Freedie. A talent that will be missed even in a hundred years from now.
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Actually, does anyone remember the masquerade weekends
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Bullying can take on many forms, mental and physical, cyber etc., etc.,
I hate bullies with a passion. I've just started a new job and I'm what you call a 'watcher', I've already noticed one lady who is an absolute disgrace, the way she talks to people, no pleases or thank you's, sits on her arse ordering people around and belittles at the first chance, I'm well aware of her and she'll not be doing that to me, newbie or not.
I'm lucky, I can stand up for myself, it's the ones who can't that worries me. What is even more of a worry is more often than enough, a bullied person becomes a bully themselves, or shows immense pent up aggression/frustration in later life.
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My personal views are these I don’t hate anyone, hatred is full of anger, it can destroy a persons real character, it can make us bitter, cause resentment the bullies then would still be winning.
I can forgive and forget.
Move on and enjoy my life.
That way I have won the battle in my mind.
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A thought occurred to me this morning!
The reason I am asking, is because I have posted threads where things have gone a little out of control, I feel responsible that I started the thread, although the arguments haven’t been on the back of the original topic.
It leaves me wondering if I should have started the thread in the first place, as arguments were not my intent.
When you post a thread are we in anyway responsible in making sure it doesn’t run into problems with people arguing?
I know mods are here, checking that the forums are running smoothly and a great job they do to.
But I also wondered if a thread is seen to be causing a stir is it the original posters responsibility to try and calm the situation or report it or ask for it to be locked if a Mod isn’t around?
What are your views?
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Bullying can take on many forms, mental and physical, cyber etc., etc.,
I hate bullies with a passion. I've just started a new job and I'm what you call a 'watcher', I've already noticed one lady who is an absolute disgrace, the way she talks to people, no pleases or thank you's, sits on her arse ordering people around and belittles at the first chance, I'm well aware of her and she'll not be doing that to me, newbie or not.
I'm lucky, I can stand up for myself, it's the ones who can't that worries me. What is even more of a worry is more often than enough, a bullied person becomes a bully themselves, or shows immense pent up aggression/frustration in later life.
