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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
United Kingdom
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Men you just have to understand us women! 
I saw an advert once which there were two pictures one of a kitten another of a good looking man.
It read beautiful male kitten 6 months old would make a wonderful family pet
The other read Handsome husband 32yrs good sense of humour good job, doesn’t like cats and said he goes of the cat goes.
Then at the bottom of the advert read: one goes free, come and see both to make up your mind! :giggle:
I saw an advert once which there were two pictures one of a kitten another of a good looking man.
It read beautiful male kitten 6 months old would make a wonderful family pet
The other read Handsome husband 32yrs good sense of humour good job, doesn’t like cats and said he goes of the cat goes.
Then at the bottom of the advert read: one goes free, come and see both to make up your mind! :giggle:
Quote by flower411
I'm taking a break for a while.
I thought I would let the dust settle on what has been a fairly miserable time in the forum for me. All of my own making I guess.
So don't send out the search parties and shoot me if you see me in here.
Come back you will be missed!
Have you seen Flower on your travels?
Bloody hell woman !!! I was only gone for five minutes !!
I come back and look at the carnage :shock:
I`ve told ya never to open ya gob without checking with me first haven`t I ???
:shock: the wanderer has appeared lol
I came to find you, I have looked everywhere
Quote by fem_4_taboo
no apollogy needed,
maybe i felt that way as i was the only one who spoke out,albe it in a non descriptive , not intended to blow upto this level way.
didnt realise i wasnt the only one who was getting hate mail for talking out.
as ive tried to say before i didnt care that much.
ill be carefull never to mention i dont like chocolate incase people start to send cadberys around for a talk lol
lets just forget this.
least said soonest mended
xx fem
Fem I have no issue with you or anyone else, I am happy to move on and say we must of both learnt from this.
Lets use this place for what it is here for and that to me if fun and having a laugh!
I might be back as a garden knome that travels the world and reports back on his travels lol
Who knows!
Quote by fem_4_taboo
yes i was upset that a person intentionally came into the forum and made out they were new and people took the time to welcome them in, clever that forum post has now been removed and it appears to on lookers the probem was with the guess who i am thread.
i did not have a probem with the guess who i am thread.
i didnt have a huge probem with the initial thread, i vented in the steam room,over and done with.
everyone else has blown this up into what it now is.
sad to get peved with the origional? need to get a life, need to learn to chill? ffs i am not the one who keeps bringing this up.
well done
Fem I dont why you think I am just taking about you.
I have had personal pms about what I did I have tryed to retify them in person away from prying eyes. You are not the only one that seemed upset, and I didn't put this here just for you.
I have the original thread removed to save further embarassment once I found out that is caused that.
I was dealing with pms yesterday trying to sort things out, which is why I have put this up.
As I said I would to them
It is a shame some get so personal.
I was even called a bully on a bullying thread I started, that to is partly why I have come clean.
I have bent over trying to smooth things with you if you cant accept my apology then I suppose there is nothing I can do about that.
I have never have an issue with you or anyone else for that matter, if I did I would have pm'ed you in private, you aired you views for all to see, and I am intitled to do the same.
Quote by helnheaven
I saw Queen back in 86, and hubby has been a fan since 73/74 when he first saw them backing mott-the-hoople.
Freddy was a great front man so I did have reservations on how they were going to pull this off.
All I can say is in no way was Paul Rogers trying to be Freddy. Paul Rogers in great live, I have never rated him on in the studios.
There was one song Paul Rogers sung that I thought he didn’t really pull it off That was “the show must go on” but other than that the rest was good.
What a lot of people seem to forget is Queen wasn’t just Freddy, Brain May and Roger Taylor are brilliant musicians and I was gobsmacked at their performances last night outstanding. Freddy was there last night he was mentioned a lot he haven’t been forgotten. When Brian may sung “Love of my life” and dedicated it to Freddy you seemed to feel him there beside you.
So I would say a great concert!
Have you seen the new line up?
Even if you haven’t, what are you views?
Should the music carry on?
I loved Queen with Freddy and I loved Paul Rodgers no matter who he was with. I havent seen Queen since Freddy departed and I doubt I will.
I cant see how they can justify charging £50 a ticket
You should have seen the prices for the Led Zep concert. I was going to go to 500 quid,but on E Bay they were selling for over double that.
Yes agreed but 50 quid seems less than the going rate nowadays for tickets.
you must have more money than sense!:shock:
But then should I be shocked as I knew that sense is way down you list of haves!
Sorry I think I scored there, just getting you back for earlier! 1-1
How strange, I was only thinking that about someone else I know
:shock:
It was hubbies birthday present I only paid £38a ticket shhh don't tell him! Quote by ayoke71
What I was wondering in your statement you said “Trust me, this doesn't exactly boost confidence of the girl-at-work and that sucks.” Not a great way of wording this, but if it means you loss your erection, maybe you see it as being not the right thing to be doing so you are not totally relaxed to enjoy it. These are just my opinions other may have a different opinion.
Sorry if that came 'round the wrong way. Usually, when the girls realise it isn't going anywhere, they tend to feel like they aren't particularly good at giving blow jobs ... when it clearly isn't their fault. So what I am saying is that I don't exactly try to make them feel bad, as it is to me more important that they are having fun than I. Hmm, doesn't sound right either, nvm.
The girl has the control on where it is going I would agree with six, but you can try all night with a guy but if you see it is wrong it isnt going to work your mind has to be right.
Also i don't see I have failed if a guy doesn't cum this way. But I haven't had many problems to be honest.
Quote by Sixfootsix
I am not a guy so I can not answer for them.
I would like to say maybe you haven’t yet received a great BJ or you mind is telling you it is a girl in a sub position.
I personally think I am in a dom position when doing it, I see it as taking control over a man. Maybe I am strange here, but if you had said anal then I would agree to it being sub.
What I was wondering in your statement you said “Trust me, this doesn't exactly boost confidence of the girl-at-work and that sucks.” Not a great way of wording this, but if it means you loss your erection, maybe you see it as being not the right thing to be doing so you are not totally relaxed to enjoy it. These are just my opinions other may have a different opinion.
yeah, woman is totally in control, as long as you're aroused she's in control of whether you're going to orgasm or not, teasing can make such a difference!
I'd also say that if you're "so so" about it, you just haven't had a great one yet!
Have you? :rascal:
I am not a guy so I can not answer for them.
I would like to say maybe you haven’t yet received a great BJ or you mind is telling you it is a girl in a sub position.
I personally think I am in a dom position when doing it, I see it as taking control over a man. Maybe I am strange here, but if you had said anal then I would agree to it being sub.
What I was wondering in your statement you said “Trust me, this doesn't exactly boost confidence of the girl-at-work and that sucks.” Not a great way of wording this, but if it means you loss your erection, maybe you see it as being not the right thing to be doing so you are not totally relaxed to enjoy it. These are just my opinions other may have a different opinion.
I would like to say maybe you haven’t yet received a great BJ or you mind is telling you it is a girl in a sub position.
I personally think I am in a dom position when doing it, I see it as taking control over a man. Maybe I am strange here, but if you had said anal then I would agree to it being sub.
What I was wondering in your statement you said “Trust me, this doesn't exactly boost confidence of the girl-at-work and that sucks.” Not a great way of wording this, but if it means you loss your erection, maybe you see it as being not the right thing to be doing so you are not totally relaxed to enjoy it. These are just my opinions other may have a different opinion.
hello and welcome!Quote by keeno
I'm taking a break for a while.
I thought I would let the dust settle on what has been a fairly miserable time in the forum for me. All of my own making I guess.
So don't send out the search parties and shoot me if you see me in here.
Come back you will be missed!
Have you seen Flower on your travels?
Quote by Mrs-wadefun
i personally don't think you have done anything to apologise for it was a joke some people got it some didn' everyone has the same sense of humour. you should only apologise if you did malicioulsly and you intended to hurt people. from all your posts i certainly did not see one ounce of malice or intent. if everything we did took the feelings of other people into account we most probably would not do a lot. cos you can please all of the people some of the time and some of the people all of the time. so a big :therethere: from me you little minx
Thanks!
I must say out of all the guesses you were one of the people that shocked me the most. I didn't even know who you were! I still don't
How did you guess? :shock:
Quote by __random_orbit__
I for one was thrown into paroxisms of confused and anxious errm... something.
My world came crumbling down around my ... errr
and the ver foundatins upon which the world should have been founded were covered in uh... crumbled-world.
apple crumbled-world pie anyone?
so... all is safe and sound in the SH environs now is it?
Jolly Good.
can I borrow a brush?
lp
I should be the one eating humble pie!
Quote by winchwench
Minx, I think you may have misread the situation.
I don't think anyone was upset with that thread- I think some felt duped by the otherthread. I think it was that one that was ill thought out.
But no, I wasn't one of them- much too much real life shite to give a monkeys tbh.
I realised after what I had done and I got that thread removed once it was bought to light.
My mistake with hindsight I realise that now.
