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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
United Kingdom

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I have to say for people that don’t know me that my spelling isn’t my best assist but I nearly made the blunder of all blunders this morning. redface
After writing my thoughts thread luckily my knight in shining armour (hubby came in) I asked him to proof read what I had written, I had already done a spell check so thought all was ok.
But to my horror and his amusement he said “do you really mean applauding or appalling.” :shock:
Here is the quote from the said thread
“ Take 777's thread lock em up for example. I think we would all agree the actions of these children were appalling.
OMG could you imagine the size of the shovel I would have needed to dig myself out of that hole. :sticky:
The other day someone in the chat rooms and high lighted the fact that I had put conversation house instead of conversion house on another thread. smackbottom lol
When am I ever going to learn?
Why doesn’t spell check tell you, that what you said doesn’t make sense?
Have you ever been saved from total embarrassment at the last minute?
Quote by keeno
I love the forum.
I have made loads of friends here (at least people I chat to). I love the contridictions of the threads. Some are pointless and banal. Some are imformative.
I try to post honestly where necessary and humourously elsewhere.
If the thread gets heated I like to walk away. I don't always manage it before I upset people but I do try, honest.
Different opinions are good.
Freedom to say what you think is good.
but
Tact is the most important thing

Tact what a great word! Meaning thoughtful, careful.
Good Morning BTW
Quote by Up_for_fun_2008

Hi upfor!
777 puts himself up there to be shot down, he is strong enough to take it, don't worry about him.
We are friends but I never agree with anything he says lol
But we are able to agree to disagree.
There are great people we can't always agree with each other, or there will be no debate.

Didnt say i'd agreed with him pmsl but i was up for a debate, life would be too boring if we all agreed with each others views - but the way the thread was hijacked and became a personal attack on his political views has put me off starting my own threads
upfor 777 waves the political flag look at the end of his posts the message he has there. He knows what he is doing, I would say being here isn't like the Chat rooms it is a different medium. we cant in here take sides we just need to me ourselves, the idividal people we are, we can disagree with people we see as friends, true friends hold no grudges.
Quote by keeno
The cafe is a bit like a long running soap opera. Sometimes its good sometimes not. It's all down to the writers.
Personally I can't be bothered about people who complain about the threads. All they have to do is post something they want to read.
Mind you, there is posting fatigue.
When you first come here its exciting. There is a real thrill of starting a thread that thrives. A buzz when you get a name check from someone 'famous'
You then become comfortable and you enjoy posting, the debates and banter.
Then it feels like the same old same old. You're bored missing the thrill of the early days.
well, that's my experience anyway cool

I think also people feel comfortable around people they feel they know and trust.
I feel like a fish out of water in here, I only feel I know 3 people, but I don't care I just blend in, some people need to feel comfortable around people we are all different.
Quote by Up_for_fun_2008
I would say lets get on with a good debate, lets not attack each other, we all have shit to deal with in our lives, (nobody is exempt from that) and all act as mature adults, that can be seen to agree to disagree.

Couldnt agree more minx (hiya btw ltnc lol). However debate doesnt seem to be something that some ppl want in The Cafe and for me thats quite sad.
Twice now i've posted replies to threads (strangely both started by 777 lol) which i had thoughts on. The one yesterday u mentioned i found quite unsettling that ppl could come along and start attacking 777 personally. And i have to admit its put me off a bit. There's another thread running today about things aint wot they used to be - with attitudes like some of theirs im really not surprised.
btw - anyone seen a post from 777 today, quite fancy a good debate today lol
Hi upfor!
777 puts himself up there to be shot down, he is strong enough to take it, don't worry about him.
We are friends but I never agree with anything he says lol
But we are able to agree to disagree.
There are great people we can't always agree with each other, or there will be no debate.
Quote by Up_for_fun_2008
if anything lately i spend more time in these forums reading and learning about other peoples experiences.
Its all very interesting and rewarding when you see a post that you can discuss or relate too.

Have to agree tyracer - but after having posted replies to two threads this last week - threads that interested me btw - and having seen some ppl turning it into an attack on the original poster i dont think i'll bother with the forum for much longer. I may add to the odd one or two but will keep my opinions to myself in future least i become the object of someones aim.
For those that harp on about the old days - good luck reliving them, i as a new(ish) poster have been put off by that sort of attitude.
Stick with it, dont take it personal, I felt like you at the beginning, raise about it stay and air your views. It does get better if you don't take it personal honestly. wink
Good luck!
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If you could be stuck in a lift with somebody, who would it be?
(think posh glass elevator on the side on of building, high up! ;) And no lift repair people! lol)
Mine would randomly be....
Shania Twain
Don't ask me why, but I find her strangely attractive! Plus when I've finished entertaining her, she can sing me a song! lol

My signature tune is this you might not have her, but at least you can have a listen!! :twisted: lol
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said it all when he said 'thank you'

rotflmao I have set myself up for that one lol
O hummm redface
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We'll all take that as a compliment then, cheers. lol

Is Dave talking about you then? lol
I would like to say to someone I find them witty, funny, they always make me laugh, and in doing that I find them sexy too.
What would you tell someone if you could?
I just wanted to air my thoughts
My thoughts entirely!
I was introduced to the forums by another member. He thought it would be a place I would find interesting. I haven’t been here very long and he was right, I find this place at times fascinating, funny, witty, enjoyable, moving, temperamental, annoying frustrating, but I keep coming back because for these reasons.
I like being part of this community.
I feel everyone has the right to freedom of speech, correct me if I am wrong but isn’t that one thing that’s great about this country, that we are still able to have these kinds of debates.
I would like to see all types of threads in this forum, then it will attract all types of people. I see threads that I read and think I don’t wish to add anything, so I just move onto another. I see others where I strongly disagree so I will counter with a my side of the debate. I could never insult people, to hurl an insult to me is showing a level of immaturity that can be likened to a school playground
Take 777's thread lock em up for example. I think we would all agree the actions of these children were appalling. We can all debate how this came to be and all have our own opinion how this country has got to the place it has now. It is when we are trying to come to a resolution is where we all differ. We all have different opinions but politics shouldn’t be brought into the debate, I believe a debate should be your personal view.
I would say lets get on with a good debate, lets not attack each other, we all have shit to deal with in our lives, (nobody is exempt from that) and all act as mature adults, that can be seen to agree to disagree.
These are just my thoughts!
I do not want anyone just agreeing with me!
I want to hear your thoughts, if you don’t have thoughts about this thread, just move on and find one you do have thoughts about.
It is a lovely day outside with that nip in the air I am here alive so are you. Lets celebrate that!
Enjoy what life and SH has to offer.
I was thinking if I wasent in a sexual mood what things could suddenly arouse me.
I would say someone gently kissing my neck would awaken all my zones.
There are more but I wont give to much away at once lol
what switches your lights on?
What triggers your mind?
What puts you in the mood?
Quote by bouncy332
i'd linke to know if there is a way of over riding the gag reflex cause i would love to b able to take more of the cock into my mouth as i love it when other women that can suck mr b's cock and take it all the way into thier mouths it looks real horny to me
also would like some tips for performing oral on ladies as i feel a bit lost in that area might sound daft as i am a female but when confronted with pussy i give it my best shot but not too sure if i'm any good at it and feel daft asking was that good for you lol

Bouncy I did have a theory once that it could be down to having no tonsils this could still be a case, that people without find it easier.
Also when I first start i need to determined the speed I will start gagging if a man starts trusting in the beginning, once I am into it then slow thrusting then build up from there.
I have tried ostrich and frogs legs but i bet they are petty normal really
All on your list no thanks :shock: lol
I personally don’t think whether we are right wing left wing or whatever wing should make a difference here. It is about the incident involved that should be up for discussion.
Kent you said lock the kids up, can you not see that would not do them any good in the long term?
I don’t sit and right letters I give up my time volunetree to get involved in the community working with children in sports some sports my own children don’t even play, but with the likes of people like us there wouldn’t be a lot to offer kids in the community, I have raised funds to keep the clubs open, we can all get off our backside to be involved it is if you want to try to help. We have found even in our clubs where we insist in showing respect it isn’t the children that have the attitude we have no problems with them, it is the parents.
We can all offer a bit.
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Hiya,
Just got something we'd like an opion on - any help would be much appreciated!
We're a young couple, although we've been on the scene on and off for a couple of years. We've had the vast majority of our fun in clubs but are really struggling to find couples on here.
We've left plenty of ads on the forums etc. but with no joy! We know our pics aren't great at the moment but we were just wondering if anyone had any ideas or hints?
We are very friendly and genuine, and certainly not time wasters (we've had problems with these in he past!).
Any advice you can offer would be much appreciated - just add to this post or message us :-)
Thanks in advance,
Vicky and Steve

I would like to first say hi and welcome to the forums!
Your pictures are lovely it is nice to see faces I believe and very nice faces too!
I think your profile is fine too!
The only advice I could give is just try to get to know people on here either in the forums or find a chat room local to your area.
The other thing you could do is start attending munches or socials in your area these are put on the lets meet up forum.
What ever you decide I wish you both good luck
I would really like to know where the parents were when their children were causing such havoc.
This wasn’t a one off incident they are saying over months, I just can’t understand how children can be so unruly and the parents are unaware.
In cases like this I feel the parents have failed, it is them Kent I would like to see beside their children on the pages of the papers.
Bring the parents to court with judge and jury and let them decide if they are guilty of failing their children, I am not saying all parents are to blame but we know a lot are to many open the door shove the children out for a peaceful life.
A judge and Jury I believe would be a fair system.
Locking the children up I do not believe is the answer
rotflmao rotflmao I am amazed by some peoples talents here.
Anybody thought about putting together a SH poetry book and funny stories book? lol
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Found it. This was my shopping trip last year.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/84967.html?highlight=shopping
Dave_Notts

Dave I have read that and you have made me cry with :giggle: you have a great way with words.. love it
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Being given the all clear today by my consultant biggrin

Sassy I am so pleased!
It sounds like very good news indeed! kiss
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Dave have you tryed boiling eggs and forgetting about them for a few hours? redface

I have gone shopping once. I wrote it up on here after having a nightmare.......but can not do that search thing. It was to do with a jar of spag-bol that got into my eyes..........and bugger me it hurt like mad
Dave_Notts
Another lesson for you make yourself a nice soup, just don’t forget to put the top on the blender when you switch it on. rolleyes