I have to say I hold my hands up and am as guilty as charged. Sometimes I can't help myself but to come out with the odd comment and run.
I find some hijackers really funny, some are very clever and whipping in and out so quickly that you don't even know they had come and gone!
Other hijackers I feel just like to butt their noses into someone elses conversation, if seems they like to be noticed without contributing much to a paticular thread.
Others I sometimes feel are there to stoke a fire and stand by to watch the embers ignite.
Others pop in and out to keep the peace a bit like community policeman.
others do it as a form of flirting!
So come on are you are regular hijacker?
Why do we do it?
At school I was bullied I know and have felt what bullying was like, to be punched and kicked by 13 girls to me is bullying.
To me sticks and stones will break my bones but words would never hurt me.
I believe as an adult we should have the ability to see an incident about to occur and veer away from that situation.
When on hear I hear the word bullying it makes me wonder what peoples interpretation of the word is.
I see people arguing but, is this really bullying?
I hear ops have to step in to sort problems out, isn't that a bit like running to mummy?
I don't know I always have such strong feelings, that we should be able to sort our own problems out, and never make ourselves victims.
On here it is far easier to ignore someone that isn’t nice, I just think ignore them they will soon leave you alone.
What are others views on this?
I am not ignoring the fact that some people can come across insulting of argumentative.
But is this really bullying?
After all they are words on a page!
After reading another thread I noticed we are all here for different reasons, so I wondered how people use this site and for what reasons.
I thought I would conduct a poll, you don't have to write the reasons you are here but.
I thought it might be good to see how the figures stacked up
It might give people a rough idea what the average person is here for.
I was just wondering what percentage use it for what purpose?
I know with the options you might do all three, but how far have you gone is the option which I would like you to vote, as I said we don't need details and as the vote is anonymous nobody will ever know who voted what.
Hope this makes sense!
Socially the place rocks for us, as we have met some really cool people. The place has and does also afford us some or even sometimes a lot of great sex to boot. 
