Quote by brucie
point of original post was directed at extreme forms of unaesthetics.
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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
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After chatting to a few people in the chat rooms last night, faking orgasms was discussed
After chatting to a few people in the chat rooms last night, faking orgasms was discussed.
Before swinging I had never faked an orgasm and so far haven't need to either. But would I with a play partner, I honesty don't know, there might be a situation I find myself in, to save an embarrassing situation maybe, but I would not like to have to lie, I would rather be honest.
Someone said people could fake one and the other person wouldn’t know, I am sure I would know if someone faked one with me, surely you know the sign when someone is having one or not. In the changes of body movement face etc.
Have you ever caught someone faking or would you ever fake an orgasm?
Why would anyone want to fake one?
After chatting to a few people in the chat rooms last night, faking orgasms was discussed.
Before swinging I had never faked an orgasm and so far haven't need to either. But would I with a play partner, I honesty don't know, there might be a situation I find myself in, to save an embarrassing situation maybe, but I would not like to have to lie, I would rather be honest.
Someone said people could fake one and the other person wouldn’t know, I am sure I would know if someone faked one with me, surely you know the sign when someone is having one or not. In the changes of body movement face etc.
Have you ever caught someone faking or would you ever fake an orgasm?
Why would anyone want to fake one?
Quote by brucie
as arrogant and shallow as some of you are suggesting.
however i do find that subtlety doesnt make for a good beginning of a discussion. ofcourse once the cliches and preconceptions are out the way subtlety has its day. thats why my new topics will often start gung ho and get people's back up.
also i cant help it that i get laid with frustrating ease. so you can give the snidey comments a rest.
and against my better judgement i will put my face pic in a public not private gallery...
I have never always trusted pictures, that could be your grandson for all we know.
Just call me cynical
Incase I wasn't clear in my opening post I will add this.
I have who I see as a friend, who said he would shag me, he could be joking, but I have never felt he fancies me, so I said I couldn't shag a friend that I never felt fancied me.
He asked why not as he said you don't have to fancy someone you shag, you could just like them as a person.
It is enough to just like someone as a person to shag them?
I believe without the physical chemisty it wouldn't work
I have who I see as a friend, who said he would shag me, he could be joking, but I have never felt he fancies me, so I said I couldn't shag a friend that I never felt fancied me.
He asked why not as he said you don't have to fancy someone you shag, you could just like them as a person.
It is enough to just like someone as a person to shag them?
I believe without the physical chemisty it wouldn't work
Quote by noladreams
Would you have sex with a friend even though there was no phyiscal attraction?
Minx, I'm not being awkward (well, not on purpose anyway!
) but just wanted to clear something up:Your question above seems to be slightly different from the thread title - Would you have sex with a friend, you knew didn't fancy you? - and I was just wondering which aspect you wanted an answer on?
I have a friend who I adore - plain and simple he is my one and only totally unrequited crush of the century - would I have sex with him if the opportunity arose even if I thought he didn't fancy me? Hell yeah. :rascal: It would probably be a total head fuck afterwards, but if the opportunity to have sex with him was ever presented then yes, I would go for it.
Would I have sex with someone who I didn't fancy? Hmmmm... not sure.
Hi Nola, sorry for the confusion, but you have answered perfectly in what I was asking, and totally understand where you are coming from.
Even though I might have confused you I think you got my meaning :thumbup:
I was in the chat rooms last night chatting to others about who and why we would have sex with someone.
I said I wouldn't have sex with a friend and started to think men just think differently to woman, someone said they didnt have to fancy someone to have sex with them but, has had sex with a friend because they care about the friend, and it was something she wanted, I asked how she felt knowing you didn't fancy her. The response was she doesn't know.
I would know if someone didn't fancy me I am sure, it would be in the way they felt me, or in their eyes.
I don't think I would enjoy the sex as much and be so relaxed if I felt there was no physical attraction towards me.
Would you have sex with a friend even though there was no phyiscal attraction?
I said I wouldn't have sex with a friend and started to think men just think differently to woman, someone said they didnt have to fancy someone to have sex with them but, has had sex with a friend because they care about the friend, and it was something she wanted, I asked how she felt knowing you didn't fancy her. The response was she doesn't know.
I would know if someone didn't fancy me I am sure, it would be in the way they felt me, or in their eyes.
I don't think I would enjoy the sex as much and be so relaxed if I felt there was no physical attraction towards me.
Would you have sex with a friend even though there was no phyiscal attraction?
I copied this from another thread not my words
"I think some kids can be born evil, it could be in their Genes from day one".
I would have to disagree, I don’t think any child is born evil. The reason I say this is the mind is so complex and even a very small child’s mind can have thoughts or feeling that they are unable to control or understand. They don’t have the resources to communicate their true feelings, fears etc. If we can’t read our own child and pick up at such a young age something is wrong, and we reassure them, some of these thought in children can fester and grow.
So I believe until such times we can totally understand the mind we can not say some children are born evil.
What are others views?
"I think some kids can be born evil, it could be in their Genes from day one".
I would have to disagree, I don’t think any child is born evil. The reason I say this is the mind is so complex and even a very small child’s mind can have thoughts or feeling that they are unable to control or understand. They don’t have the resources to communicate their true feelings, fears etc. If we can’t read our own child and pick up at such a young age something is wrong, and we reassure them, some of these thought in children can fester and grow.
So I believe until such times we can totally understand the mind we can not say some children are born evil.
What are others views?
Quote by flower411
I personally don't like egotistic people that are self cantered and opinionated as what I have found is it doesn’t matter how perfect you are, they would always find fault some where. Also people that have expectations on others, as I don’t think we can ever live up to others expectations. Apart from that I get on with most people especially ones that like a good laugh and joke as they are the ones that are enjoyable to be around.
Awwwwww minx !! :cry:
I thought ya liked me !!!
O I do like delusional people they make me laugh! :P
