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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
United Kingdom
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I personally don't like egotistic people that are self cantered and opinionated as what I have found is it doesn’t matter how perfect you are, they would always find fault some where. Also people that have expectations on others, as I don’t think we can ever live up to others expectations. Apart from that I get on with most people especially ones that like a good laugh and joke as they are the ones that are enjoyable to be around.
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well as it happens im a bit of a bleeding heart liberal myself. thats why i believe in freedom of choice. ofcourse not all choice is free, but spare a thought for poor liitle old me. do you think i really want to come in to work every day and sit in my office and be nice to people id rather shoot in the knee? the world can be a cruel place. and you are entering in to a moral minefield by depriving people of their means of earning money however unethical you feel they are. for some children its either the seqathouse or starvation. for example.
anyway, there was some suggestion up there that i was fat and ugly or some other. i would like to put it on the record that i am actually tall and handsome.
not that it helps. life can still be a bitch even with my looks and charm.
happy now?
without getting in to the detail, i think that my point about the swinging fraternity being ironically conservative still stands.
the dude abides.
Sorry I am now questioning your integrity.
Are you saying we all need to cancel our subscriptions to make room for more prostiutes to stop their children from starving?
This is a good topic for debate, it is a shame in part people have got a little heated.
I am a female from a couple that if you want to appoint a person that got us into swinger, you could say it was my hubby as he was the first to mention it, as one part of the couple generally do suggest things, could you say I am doing it against my will, you properly could without knowing the type of person I am. As a lot of people seem to think that as one party mention things, the other party don’t have a choice. We all have a choice.
I came into swinging with a questioning mind, I really didn’t know much about swinging only what was portrayed on TV, and bits I have read up on and researched, I had mixed thoughts as in Yes I wanted to meet people to have sex with but didn’t want to see myself as a prostitute without payment, a sex object for guys to just come and use. I had in my mind what I would like to find when coming here, that was people that had a simular mindset as my own, that understood yes I wanted to have sex with them, but also wanted to be respected and treated as a woman not as a sex toy.
If in my choosing and understanding of peoples intent comes across as me being conservative, then yes I must be conservative, but I would see it as a woman that looks for what she wants and won’t settle for just a shag.
As the op said he has been to prostitutes I would wonder if that is how he would look at me a free prostitute, maybe he would like to answer this point.
Also is he expecting as I have found a high proportion on this site do, a quick fix, then I am afraid there are also a lot of us, that are not here to scratch an instant itch.
So to end would I see myself on a level or as similar to a prostitute?
I would say no, as I see myself as someone that enjoys the pleasures of what sex has to offer in all forms, I can not talk for a prostitute but guess they get no pleasure out of what they do, they get payment.
I am a female from a couple that if you want to appoint a person that got us into swinger, you could say it was my hubby as he was the first to mention it, as one part of the couple generally do suggest things, could you say I am doing it against my will, you properly could without knowing the type of person I am. As a lot of people seem to think that as one party mention things, the other party don’t have a choice. We all have a choice.
I came into swinging with a questioning mind, I really didn’t know much about swinging only what was portrayed on TV, and bits I have read up on and researched, I had mixed thoughts as in Yes I wanted to meet people to have sex with but didn’t want to see myself as a prostitute without payment, a sex object for guys to just come and use. I had in my mind what I would like to find when coming here, that was people that had a simular mindset as my own, that understood yes I wanted to have sex with them, but also wanted to be respected and treated as a woman not as a sex toy.
If in my choosing and understanding of peoples intent comes across as me being conservative, then yes I must be conservative, but I would see it as a woman that looks for what she wants and won’t settle for just a shag.
As the op said he has been to prostitutes I would wonder if that is how he would look at me a free prostitute, maybe he would like to answer this point.
Also is he expecting as I have found a high proportion on this site do, a quick fix, then I am afraid there are also a lot of us, that are not here to scratch an instant itch.
So to end would I see myself on a level or as similar to a prostitute?
I would say no, as I see myself as someone that enjoys the pleasures of what sex has to offer in all forms, I can not talk for a prostitute but guess they get no pleasure out of what they do, they get payment.
When I was 16 my now husband, brother and a friend got porn films out they were 18, all the lads sat in the living watching them, and all the three girls sat in the dining room saying what perverts they were, but we all went on to marry them 
When was the first time you cooked an edible meal?
When was the first time you cooked an edible meal?
Still about causing havoc 
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