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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
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Some rooms are great and all just have a laugh and a bit of banter and very easy going. People just join in. But some are clique you have to just keep at it and find a room you feel comfortable in and look out for the room name again people do start to notice your name after a while.
I would avoid really busy rooms or the main rooms. some of the side room are an easier start.
When I started using rooms a couple of years ago now, I just found a room I felt looked friendly after sitting observing for a while, and just said I dont live here but can I gate crash
After a while I just used to open my own room then you find the same people start to come in night after night.
I have always prefer the chat rooms if you find a good one the banter is great. I always go on cam showing my face while chatting so you can see who you are talking too, other do too, so you get to know people more.
So Chat rooms have my :thumbup:
Good luck anyway and welcome to the forums!
I would avoid really busy rooms or the main rooms. some of the side room are an easier start.
When I started using rooms a couple of years ago now, I just found a room I felt looked friendly after sitting observing for a while, and just said I dont live here but can I gate crash
After a while I just used to open my own room then you find the same people start to come in night after night.
I have always prefer the chat rooms if you find a good one the banter is great. I always go on cam showing my face while chatting so you can see who you are talking too, other do too, so you get to know people more.
So Chat rooms have my :thumbup:
Good luck anyway and welcome to the forums!
Last night in the chat room a man was on cam wearing a pink hat, I wont mention names as he is pretty shy.
It really suited him I must say. :rascal:
which lead me to think about a poem that has always stuck in my mind.
When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.
I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired
And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
And run my stick along the public railings
And make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
And pick the flowers in other peoples' gardens
And learn to spit.
You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat
And eat three pounds of sausages at a go
Or only bread and pickles for a week
And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.
But now we must have clothes that keep us dry
And pay our rent and not swear in the street
And set a good example for the children.
We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.
But maybe I ought to practice a little now?
So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.
by Jenny Joseph
What colour would you like to wear when you get old?
It really suited him I must say. :rascal:
which lead me to think about a poem that has always stuck in my mind.
When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.
I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired
And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
And run my stick along the public railings
And make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
And pick the flowers in other peoples' gardens
And learn to spit.
You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat
And eat three pounds of sausages at a go
Or only bread and pickles for a week
And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.
But now we must have clothes that keep us dry
And pay our rent and not swear in the street
And set a good example for the children.
We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.
But maybe I ought to practice a little now?
So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.
by Jenny Joseph
What colour would you like to wear when you get old?
You sure is wasen't precipitation! 
you read the weather forcast last night, and told the whole room the weather, did you go outside?
you didnt as you never moved from the cam.
Never trust a weather man.
I told you to wear your pink hat, did ya wear it?
I have to say flower I am still giggling this morning, super hero.
you read the weather forcast last night, and told the whole room the weather, did you go outside?
you didnt as you never moved from the cam.
Never trust a weather man.
I told you to wear your pink hat, did ya wear it?
I have to say flower I am still giggling this morning, super hero.
Dave we used a well known body lotion once to give each other a massage, then got a bit frisky.
Hubby had the same reaction
We wondered why he had to run his bits under cool water for 30 mins to cool them down, then I realised it had ginger in it used to stimulate nerve ends.
Well it had that effect!
Hubby had the same reaction
We wondered why he had to run his bits under cool water for 30 mins to cool them down, then I realised it had ginger in it used to stimulate nerve ends.
Well it had that effect!
Quote by Karentvxx
After being let down numerous times off various websites a feedback facility is a good idea,only positive feedback allowed,but atleast you would know then if person was takes me precious time to get ready and prepare fpr a meet and it so inconsiderate of them not to let you know they cant make it,I am sure some do it for kicks,and usually if you do get the chance to confront them they make such lame not the people talk about timewasters behind their backs that are a problem,its the time wasters themselves.
If you are saying only possitive feedback allowed, how would you know if they have shown for one meet, but let 10 others down as well?
I can't see that will get rid of timewasters.
As for talking about someone in public, what happens if someone takes a dislike to you and makes up you are a timewaster. I don't think eithet way is the right way.
I believe we have to be our own judge of people, and take the rough with the smooth, we all have busy lives and it does take time to make an informed judgement by chatting to that person, by listening to others I feel isnt an informed judgement.
But it all depends how much time you are prepared to make before meeting, and we are all different in what we expect and how much time we would allow.
Quote by flower411
amazed your shocked...
Who
You was gobsmacked Minx
I was that different names were bounded about in the room for all to see.
Maybe I am being naive, but I have never seen it so openly discussed. I found it harder to believe without the said people not there to defend themselves.
I am aware that prehaps it goes on in private, between individuals you will never stop that.
O well might be why I prefer to have my own room, I would have spoken out then and said I felt that to be this is my own opinion of course.
I said something minx
You did indeedy :thumbup:
Quote by Lost
amazed your shocked...
Who
You was gobsmacked Minx
I was that different names were bounded about in the room for all to see.
Maybe I am being naive, but I have never seen it so openly discussed. I found it harder to believe without the said people not there to defend themselves.
I am aware that prehaps it goes on in private, between individuals you will never stop that.
O well might be why I prefer to have my own room, I would have spoken out then and said I felt that to be unacceptable.
But this is my own opinion of course.
I went on the chat rooms last night, I tend not to use them much these days.
Within minutes of being there names were being mentioned of people that had not showed up for meets, I was a little gob smacked and thought this to be unfair as the person was not there to give their view.
It left me with a feeling is this the way the site is going?
Is verifaction really going on in rooms?
I personally don't like to see this kind of thing happening.
I have always had a feeling it goes on in private but in an open room for all to see did not sit comfortable with me.
Within minutes of being there names were being mentioned of people that had not showed up for meets, I was a little gob smacked and thought this to be unfair as the person was not there to give their view.
It left me with a feeling is this the way the site is going?
Is verifaction really going on in rooms?
I personally don't like to see this kind of thing happening.
I have always had a feeling it goes on in private but in an open room for all to see did not sit comfortable with me.
Quote by flower411
Somebody who posts something mildly provocative on here and when you ignore them they pm you asking if you are ignoring them !!! :shock:
Course I was ignoring you !! Ya twat :P
Oooooo that can't be me, I never pm you I just wait until I bump into you occasionally in the chat room and ask!
BTW welcome back!
How was your holiday?
You missed some great weather here, its been sooo hot. :twisted:
Did you bump into anyone you recongised at the airport from here like last year?
Quote by neilinleeds
I can't understand why NeilnolongerinleedsbutmightbebackinleedsforallIknow hasn't posted
Shurrup you!
I have been trying out something new for me Dawnie, which is to maintain a dignified silence on the whole subject. :smile2: For the purposes of this thread I have adopted the motto 'Never apologise, never explain', so there! It had been going rather well too until you showed up.
/flounces
*asks Dawnie to reactivate him please cos he may have been a tad hasty and possibly ever-so-slightly oversensitive and over-emotional*
N x x x;)
I was just going to ask, do men flounce?
I think you might just have answered my question.
I have seen many women do it but I could not remember a man flounce.
Don't men just day sod off I am leaving?
The word Twat means to me exactly the same as the C word, as someone that’s father used the C word often it always makes me cringe as I feel is it a just a vulgar synonym and a word I would not use to describe anyone.
People can sometimes give me a feeling of being a twit but then I snigger to myself and move on.
I don’t think all people can be a complete twit all of the time, as sometimes I think the same thoughts about people I care about plus myself at times.
So I am happy to forgive some twitisms.
Once they pass the stage I think they are a complete twit I just ignore them and move on.
People can sometimes give me a feeling of being a twit but then I snigger to myself and move on.
I don’t think all people can be a complete twit all of the time, as sometimes I think the same thoughts about people I care about plus myself at times.
So I am happy to forgive some twitisms.
Once they pass the stage I think they are a complete twit I just ignore them and move on.
I have just been reading a thread that it was quoted “I saw a programme once, or read this in the news paperâ€.
When are people going to realise whatever is screened or written down in the paper is more often than not a bias view, there is often a one sided angle, and to think you can make a judgement from that about any issue to me and this is my own opinion is stupid, narrow minded, and completely absurd.
These mediums are to me a major factor why there is hatred in the country as they know that they drive people to form an opinion.
I believe opinions should be formed on what people say, how they act, or react in a situation. Judge them on a one to one basis, never in bulk. You can only make these opinions then on your own personal experiences and not what you hear from others.
I think then you can form a fair opinion and one that you can back up from your own person experiences, but then that is your opinion and never expect people to form their opinions from yours as it is still hearsay.
I know we need media to a degree, but the power they have I think has gone to far.
What are you views on media?
When are people going to realise whatever is screened or written down in the paper is more often than not a bias view, there is often a one sided angle, and to think you can make a judgement from that about any issue to me and this is my own opinion is stupid, narrow minded, and completely absurd.
These mediums are to me a major factor why there is hatred in the country as they know that they drive people to form an opinion.
I believe opinions should be formed on what people say, how they act, or react in a situation. Judge them on a one to one basis, never in bulk. You can only make these opinions then on your own personal experiences and not what you hear from others.
I think then you can form a fair opinion and one that you can back up from your own person experiences, but then that is your opinion and never expect people to form their opinions from yours as it is still hearsay.
I know we need media to a degree, but the power they have I think has gone to far.
What are you views on media?
Quote by westerross
Why avoid meeting someone just because they've said a few things with which you don't agree? If we did that we'd all be living in Stepford wouldn't we.
Some differences of opinion might stop you being long-term friends - they may not. Even then they may not preclude you having sex.
The Lady hypothesises too much methinks.
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Maybe I do
But I don't see that as a bad thing some might!
I like to think before I leap, I don't just accept, all and sundry. I asked the question as I was reading a few threads and a couple of responses I have read to a few posts shocked me.
In how they made me think about the way saying such things could be the way they would precieve others and their general comments about certain issues.
It is so far removed from where I would like society to be I could not meet them without finding out if my feelings were true.
So yes I dont except to share all the same opinions but I do have a standand within society that I wouldnt lower just for a bit of fun.
I dont think that is being shallow I think it is thinking about who you would socialise with as part of this lifestyle as many would say is liking the person and making friends.
