My son was on a wheat free and milk diet for 3 years due to a problem he had. A well know supermarket did supply a wheat free book if you contact their head office they should send you one of all the products they store. Also chemists or health food shops are a good source for help too. I used to get a lot of his food from the chemist at the time but goods are very good at being marked these days. I remember rice cakes Yuck being a treat for him, no flavours around then.
Hope that helps a little
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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
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"ignorance is bliss" always sounds like one of those sayings designed by people to make themselves feel better about their own short comings.
Perhaps you are right, but sometimes what people precieve to know if ignorant wouldn't hurt others. so to me ignorance can been seen both ways
unlike short and tall
Like when short people say "the best things come in small packages"
I've never heard a tall person say "the best thing come in tall packages"
whoops messed up the quote bit here my response is in blue.
Perhaps you are right, but sometimes what people precieve to know if ignorant wouldn't hurt others. so to me ignorance can been seen both ways
unlike short and tall
Like when short people say "the best things come in small packages"
I've never heard a tall person say "the best thing come in tall packages"
whoops messed up the quote bit here my response is in blue.
I have always thought education must only improve our knowledge and understanding of life around us, that it can only make things better for all.
I am starting to feel more these days if only we were all ignorant and uneducated as the saying goes “ignorance is blissâ€.
I liken it to children the innocence of youth, when there isn’t a care in the world and acceptance of all.
Of course I do believe knowledge is important but also believe that where that knowledge is obtained is the over riding factor.
I am not educated in the academic sense I have gained my education on the streets so to speak.
I have never travelled. But I get my education from living in a cosmopolitan area and mix among all people from all points of the globe.
So to me education as it is know is text book stuff that breeds people to think in a certain way that all depends who is teaching you. These people can have a bias view after all one person’s take on anything and the way they portray that is in part individual.
I believe meeting people from all walks of life gives a better understanding of life, and a far more rounded view and understanding.
What are your views
I am starting to feel more these days if only we were all ignorant and uneducated as the saying goes “ignorance is blissâ€.
I liken it to children the innocence of youth, when there isn’t a care in the world and acceptance of all.
Of course I do believe knowledge is important but also believe that where that knowledge is obtained is the over riding factor.
I am not educated in the academic sense I have gained my education on the streets so to speak.
I have never travelled. But I get my education from living in a cosmopolitan area and mix among all people from all points of the globe.
So to me education as it is know is text book stuff that breeds people to think in a certain way that all depends who is teaching you. These people can have a bias view after all one person’s take on anything and the way they portray that is in part individual.
I believe meeting people from all walks of life gives a better understanding of life, and a far more rounded view and understanding.
What are your views
I don’t believe BNP has any place in our society, I feel we have come so far since the 70’s to integrate and became a cosmopolitan society for them to get any power could take us back years, to a place I wouldn’t want my child to be.
I am fed up with looking back and feeling we are going backwards instead of forwards, I blame it all on the government that for them their vision has always been a term in office and never look beyond that point.
It’s about time we had younger mp’s and lords if we have to have those too.
We need people that will possibility be around in the next 30 + years that see the future and strive towards that aim with longer thought out plans, then what we are getting now.
Take for instance as an example the craftsmen we had in this country once, drinks came in bottle made of glass that could be recycled. Shopping came in paper bags and food was wrapped in cardboard.
This isn’t a speech by any particular party but just by me that thinks it is about time we keep going forwards instead of going backwards.
After all we are all supposed to be more educated now than ever before, but I for one don’t always see this is being to good use.
I am fed up with looking back and feeling we are going backwards instead of forwards, I blame it all on the government that for them their vision has always been a term in office and never look beyond that point.
It’s about time we had younger mp’s and lords if we have to have those too.
We need people that will possibility be around in the next 30 + years that see the future and strive towards that aim with longer thought out plans, then what we are getting now.
Take for instance as an example the craftsmen we had in this country once, drinks came in bottle made of glass that could be recycled. Shopping came in paper bags and food was wrapped in cardboard.
This isn’t a speech by any particular party but just by me that thinks it is about time we keep going forwards instead of going backwards.
After all we are all supposed to be more educated now than ever before, but I for one don’t always see this is being to good use.
Quote by westerross
Other aspects of a relationship are slightly less important, like if she enjoys horse riding and I like mountain biking, bad analogy perhaps, but what I mean is that these are things we can do with other people like friends etc and is not something we primarily do together such as sex!
Srne, I've only quoted you selectively to save a bit o' space and I don't wish to be picky but I find the bit in bold something a bit strange to find on a swinging site. One of the reasons most of us are here is to have sex with other people after all.
Whilst I don't necessarily disagree with the rest of your post I do think it is easy to theorise about something like this and I don't think it is something that you can theorise about.
Human relationships are so complex there could be a myriad of reasons why people will stay together whether sex is good or not. If sex is very important then the chances are a 'bad sex' relationship will not last. But sex isn't the be all and end all to everybody.
Of course, if you ask the question here you are going to get similar answers to those above but across the board it will be different.
I'm sure DG was asking for opinions from swingers and predictably sex is important but there are plenty of people who advertise here because they 'want to spice up their sex lives' - one might ask the question - 'Why?'. And does getting it from outside actually allow you to exist in a relationship where the sex has become less important between that particular couple?
I'm sorry if the above post reads that I am directing at Srne - that's not the intention - it is intended to make a debating point.
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Tune I read Srne post totally different from the way you read it, how odd.
I read it to mean that sex within a couple is important first. There are other things she could do where he doesn’t have to be part of her life (as in horse riding ect) but feels sex should be part of both of their lives together, so if they are a couple having sex as a couple swinging or otherwise is important to him.
That’s just my take on what Srne said.
Funny how we can read the same things but come up with different interpretations.
I personally couldnt think of anything worse, but then again I could meet up with the bullies there and show then they didn't succeed in ruining my Adult life.
I think if I was happy at school I would attend, but as I have no happy memories from school it isnt a place I would like to go back too.
If it was an old work one I would be excited to meet up with everyone.
I think if I was happy at school I would attend, but as I have no happy memories from school it isnt a place I would like to go back too.
If it was an old work one I would be excited to meet up with everyone.
Quote by Dirtygirly
Thanks girls. :thumbup:
But...
What if you never had that spark on a sexual level though?
What if the sex was crap from the word go?
Would you have given up on the relationship because of it?
To be truthful without sounding shallow, I think it would have just fizzled out in time. Not saying either of us would choose sex as the be all and end all, but I think it has to work to bond two people together.
This is just my opinion others might think differently.
Good question Dirty!
I personally feel in the beginning of a relationship sex is an important part that bonds two people together, the want and desire to be intimate and that close to the person I loved was important. I think if I never had that feeling our relationship wouldn’t have lasted as long as it has 30 years.
After time the importance on sex isn’t so strong as there are many factors that happen over time that bonds two people together, after so many years together the sex doesn't have that same spark perhaps why we are here, but that doesn’t mean we love each other less, maybe more in a way.
So I am thinking when did sex become less important within our relationship it is hard to pinpoint a time, but saying that when we are intimate together just the two of us it still makes me feel that is where I belong.
When we met others it was great plus it helped us to re ignite that extra spark.
I personally feel in the beginning of a relationship sex is an important part that bonds two people together, the want and desire to be intimate and that close to the person I loved was important. I think if I never had that feeling our relationship wouldn’t have lasted as long as it has 30 years.
After time the importance on sex isn’t so strong as there are many factors that happen over time that bonds two people together, after so many years together the sex doesn't have that same spark perhaps why we are here, but that doesn’t mean we love each other less, maybe more in a way.
So I am thinking when did sex become less important within our relationship it is hard to pinpoint a time, but saying that when we are intimate together just the two of us it still makes me feel that is where I belong.
When we met others it was great plus it helped us to re ignite that extra spark.
Quote by benrums0n
I try not to judge anybody.
I choose only to be interested in folk who are honest with the people they profess to love enough to spend their lives with.
Ben I believe in doing that too, but the one person you have to be honest with first is yourself.
My hubby confesses to love me we have been together for 30 years, but he did join a swinging site before I even found out that he had a desire, fantasy (call it what you wish) to see me playing with other men. Then he spoke to me about it all, and explained his reasons to explore before ever broaching the subject with me.
I never questioned his love for me, But I did ask why he felt he couldnt talk before the need of finding out first.
His response was he thought he was odd in what he wanted, but after finding out there were others like him, made him more able to express himself to me.
So I see that as weighing up the risks before wreaking everything.
But then I may be naive in my view.
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We always used to go into the chat rooms most nights. But of late we have found them rather dull and very samey.
Even the great Kent room has it seems been starved of people of late.
It just does not seem to have the same banter there used to be, and I really cannot put my finger on it. Maybe we are bored with them?
Minxy always used to run a good ship, and must admit I do miss her contributions.
Whatever the reason I for one like the forums, even if some do not like me.
:shock: I didn't know you cared :P
Did you notice as soon as I stopped opening up my room on server 4. Server 4 disappeared :cry:
I don't know where to go now, but I was on cam on Friday evening back in the chat rooms, you just missed me
After reading another thread got me thinking about different ways person perceive things to be.
A guy asked for ideas to help to broach the subject of swinging to his wife, ok he has been a member for so many years etc etc.
So I ask is it wrong to be a member of this site without your partners knowledge?
I feel this way, many people watch porn or have fantasises about introducing others into their sex life.
I am sure a lot of people before acting out fantasises would like to gain as much information about the implications and complications before even considering if this life style is what they want. As the thought of doing this is in general at first a fantasy of one person, that plants the seed or asks their partner what they think.
I confess when I first came here it was to try and gather a feel of what swinging life was about, as the whole concept was alien to me and one I wanted to find out more about, to get a feel of the kind of people it attracted etc.
I found out that my hubby had done some homework before hand had questioned why he felt the way he did about wanting to see his wife that he loved having sex with other men.
He read up about swinging but felt that what he read was always a bias view of the writer and was given conflicting messages, so he joined a swinging site to observe the actual people that were in the scene to get a more realistic view of what it was all about and a better understanding of himself and how he felt.
Once he felt he understood himself more was then able to converse those feeling to me.
So I ask is it so wrong for people to join this site without their partners knowing at first, I don’t think all the people here join to meet, but a lot are here to maybe question themselves and get a better understanding if this lifestyle is for them, or just to chat to people that feel the same way they feel.
A guy asked for ideas to help to broach the subject of swinging to his wife, ok he has been a member for so many years etc etc.
So I ask is it wrong to be a member of this site without your partners knowledge?
I feel this way, many people watch porn or have fantasises about introducing others into their sex life.
I am sure a lot of people before acting out fantasises would like to gain as much information about the implications and complications before even considering if this life style is what they want. As the thought of doing this is in general at first a fantasy of one person, that plants the seed or asks their partner what they think.
I confess when I first came here it was to try and gather a feel of what swinging life was about, as the whole concept was alien to me and one I wanted to find out more about, to get a feel of the kind of people it attracted etc.
I found out that my hubby had done some homework before hand had questioned why he felt the way he did about wanting to see his wife that he loved having sex with other men.
He read up about swinging but felt that what he read was always a bias view of the writer and was given conflicting messages, so he joined a swinging site to observe the actual people that were in the scene to get a more realistic view of what it was all about and a better understanding of himself and how he felt.
Once he felt he understood himself more was then able to converse those feeling to me.
So I ask is it so wrong for people to join this site without their partners knowing at first, I don’t think all the people here join to meet, but a lot are here to maybe question themselves and get a better understanding if this lifestyle is for them, or just to chat to people that feel the same way they feel.
Quote by Freckledbird
I think all contributors to the forum should be 'bigged up'. Every single one of them, make the forum what it is.
:thumbup: I totally agree with you, all here make it the place it is.
I Have looked at other forums but have to say, none I believe gives you what this one does.
