I would be from the cat family.
I could stalk my mating partner. Leap into action, eat, then sleep all day.
Sheer bliss
BTW Flower what do 18 year olds know?
From an older, wiser, more mature woman you are creepy :P
I just read a post in the reunion thread that made me feel sad.
“I am happily married and have been since I was 21â€
“I have had 5 childrenâ€
“I now do a job that any idiot could do simply because I couldn't afford the childcare if I had a 'real'
“I don't feel overly proud of my achievements,.â€
Sorry fluff I hope you don’t mind me quoting you here, but it reminded me of me with slight alterations
Married 22 years
3 children
Always worked odd jobs to fit in around the children
The last bit “I don't feel overly proud of my achievements†I have to ask why do we sometimes feel that staying at home raising children is seen as not achieving?
I for one will have to say I feel I have achieved what I set out to do and I believe you have too, that was to raise our children the way we have and be proud of the way we have done it, I guess life for you has been tough as in mine in finacial terms, but I don’t regret the way I choose to do it.
But it is funny as I get a feeling that you feel the way I do, we get to an age and feel some of society looks at us differently and the fact we are in our middle years have nothing to offer back to society that we have wasted all those years.
But hopefully we have given society people of the future to be proud of.
I just read a thread that starting me thinking.
Sorry guys I just have to ask is the size of your manhood important to you?
I have spoken to a few guys in the past and unless you are carring a higher than average size some I have felt were almost apologising for what they have.
Is that important to guys?
As most women will tell you it is the rhythm, how you use it and size doesn’t matter. Ok I might have to admit a couple of inches might be a bit different but 6inches plus is enough for a lot of women.
So if the women don't find it an issues, why would you need bigger, and having bigger what are you hoping to gain?
So why do guys have a fascination about size?
I personally think a lot do, or it could be they like to see woman with a bigger one so it could be, if only they are thinking.
Strange things are happening in here today, the posts in threads are all going out of order, some the op post is half way down the page, making some strange comments as an opening post, I have quoted someone thats post now is after mine, I am confused enough without these things happening.
Who can we appoint blame to?
Who stopped turning the cogs on sh.
I think its Bilko I can blame him as time he reads this I will be tucked up in bed fast asleep. :P
I believe I have gained more knowledge and understanding about myself in life through the hardest times within my life, times when life is on an even level are great as you feel contented, but then something unseen comes along that has to be tackled these are the times I find myself questioning, working out ways to overcome them to be able to move on, what I have also found within life is good always seems to come out of a bad situation often you don’t see that, but then looking back can often see how life’s journey has changed you to who you are today.
During the hard times I would feel if only life was always happy and simple, that I never had to cry or feel unset wishing things that had happened never needed to happen.
But then would we have the tools to deal with life that these situations arm us with to survive?
There are a couple of threads about cheating here, It is so confusing like anything in life on what ones expectations and limitations are within a relationship.
I have been a victim of finding out my hubby had a casual sex encounter years ago with someone he worked with at that time. I felt hurt, let down and betrayed when I first found out, but then I questioned not only my hubby but myself as to how this came about.
There were many factors at that time to have lead him that way, new family, financial stains, me changing into motherhood, ok it doesn’t make what happened right, but it gave me a greater insight to the workings of a male mind, as what my hubby said to me, is that he believes many men to have felt some time the way he felt.
At the time I thought do I forgive or leave, I choose to forgive and stay, as we had formed a life together at that stage been together 12 years had our first child and felt it was just sex, I believe 18 years on I made the right choice and realise all people are not perfect myself included and to trust anyone 100% is a little naïve.
There was a lot we gained from what happened, it opened up communication and a better understanding of each other.
There are some people that would judge and say it is a selfish act, but I also feel it is a selfish act to always appoint blame to one party, as like any relationship in life with anybody it takes two peoples to make any relation work to please each other, if on a friendship, family or married sense it makes no difference.
If I see what he done as so wrong as in having casual sex, I would also have to question why I am now enjoying it.
I know we are both involved now.
But if you take away me not knowing at the time, there is no differance I think between the two.
I think what drives anybody here is what drives us to be here, so who are we to judge?
Just guessing here. 
I mean if you just about have 6" saying 6+ is fine is like saying anything above the amount of money you have is fine, or rather sounds like it. (4+ would be better if insisting size isn't important)
hwoar: 
Thamks for letting us know!
