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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
United Kingdom
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This wasent an excuse but true, years ago I had 4 weeks off work because of a headache, I only worked on Sundays then, and I never felt believed. It wasen't until I was finally admitted to hospital and spend the next two weeks there that I was then paid sick pay back dated.
It goes to show you could be telling the truth but still don't get believed.
It goes to show you could be telling the truth but still don't get believed.
Quote by flower411
I have used the chat rooms longer than being in the forums.
Since using the chat rooms about two years ago, I always had a feeling I like to see who I am talking to and felt others must feel that way too, but I never wanted to go on cam in the main rooms, as I observed and watched for ages the expectations of some what a woman on cam was expected to do.
A thought occurred ages ago that to have what I wanted to be able to go on cam show my face without expectations from others was to open a room myself and see what happened.
I must say my vision worked over time the room became a safe haven for me and many others that could have a place where no matter if the other woman on cam were stripped we wouldn’t have any crude unwanted visitors as we all pulled together and politely told them to find somewhere else to go.
In the year I opened rooms I can’t ever remember having to kick anyone from the room or call an op as we were having problems in the room.
I wouldn’t call myself vain as I never went on cam for men’s attention I went on cam in a way of you wouldn’t go to a party and expect the host not to be visible.
I believe many that came to my room went away with a smile on their face, it was arousing to but we hardly ever spoke about sex in there, arousal comes from opening the mind for me and having a laugh and banter.
I have had many a funny night with a lot of people from here, many people I haven’t met but feel we have as we have shared many a nights laughing and having fun.
I miss those nights, the chat rooms just don’t feel the same anymore.
Maybe I need to start opening rooms again and lets get this party started.
Flower get your hat out I might be back.
Friday nights are party nights I will sort the music all I need are the guests.
Where have they all gone?
I think a lot of em are still lurking about, wondering whatever happened to server four !!!
The Kent room has become a friendly place again too ....No idea why !!
Well now you can be in two places at once you wont have to choose.
you can split yourself in two.
I am sure you don't mind sharing yourself :P
I might use server 3, such a shame about server 4 people that want to find the room will I guess.
I might use both incase mine flops
I was peeking a look at someone’s profile the other day that really made me laugh it was so them.
So a thought occurred to me that to snip a bit and play a game here that we have to try and guess who’s snip of profile it is.
I hope they don’t mind but here goes…
Why not for goodness sakes?
Â¿É¥Ç Â¿noÊŽ op …ʇÉɥʇ ƃuıɥɔnoʇ ÉŸo sÇÉ”uÇnbÇsuoÉ” Çɥʇ ÉŸo ÉÇpı ou ÊŽlÇʇnlosqÉ ÇÊŒÉÉ¥ noÊŽ puÉ 'ʇÉɥʇ Ê‡É plɹoÊ lÉnʇɹıʌ ɹno 'plɹoÊ lÉnʇɹıʌ É uı ÇÉ¹É noÊŽ ÇsnÉÉ”Çq :ɹÇÊÇıʌɹÇʇuı
Have you seen a snip of a profile that you felt is so them?
Why not post it here for others to guess.
And if it is yours you are free to own up to it too.
This is just a bit of fun.
So a thought occurred to me that to snip a bit and play a game here that we have to try and guess who’s snip of profile it is.
I hope they don’t mind but here goes…
Why not for goodness sakes?
Â¿É¥Ç Â¿noÊŽ op …ʇÉɥʇ ƃuıɥɔnoʇ ÉŸo sÇÉ”uÇnbÇsuoÉ” Çɥʇ ÉŸo ÉÇpı ou ÊŽlÇʇnlosqÉ ÇÊŒÉÉ¥ noÊŽ puÉ 'ʇÉɥʇ Ê‡É plɹoÊ lÉnʇɹıʌ ɹno 'plɹoÊ lÉnʇɹıʌ É uı ÇÉ¹É noÊŽ ÇsnÉÉ”Çq :ɹÇÊÇıʌɹÇʇuı
Have you seen a snip of a profile that you felt is so them?
Why not post it here for others to guess.
And if it is yours you are free to own up to it too.
This is just a bit of fun.
I have used the chat rooms longer than being in the forums.
Since using the chat rooms about two years ago, I always had a feeling I like to see who I am talking to and felt others must feel that way too, but I never wanted to go on cam in the main rooms, as I observed and watched for ages the expectations of some what a woman on cam was expected to do.
A thought occurred ages ago that to have what I wanted to be able to go on cam show my face without expectations from others was to open a room myself and see what happened.
I must say my vision worked over time the room became a safe haven for me and many others that could have a place where no matter if the other woman on cam were stripped we wouldn’t have any crude unwanted visitors as we all pulled together and politely told them to find somewhere else to go.
In the year I opened rooms I can’t ever remember having to kick anyone from the room or call an op as we were having problems in the room.
I wouldn’t call myself vain as I never went on cam for men’s attention I went on cam in a way of you wouldn’t go to a party and expect the host not to be visible.
I believe many that came to my room went away with a smile on their face, it was arousing to but we hardly ever spoke about sex in there, arousal comes from opening the mind for me and having a laugh and banter.
I have had many a funny night with a lot of people from here, many people I haven’t met but feel we have as we have shared many a nights laughing and having fun.
I miss those nights, the chat rooms just don’t feel the same anymore.
Maybe I need to start opening rooms again and lets get this party started.
Flower get your hat out I might be back.
Friday nights are party nights I will sort the music all I need are the guests.
Where have they all gone?
Since using the chat rooms about two years ago, I always had a feeling I like to see who I am talking to and felt others must feel that way too, but I never wanted to go on cam in the main rooms, as I observed and watched for ages the expectations of some what a woman on cam was expected to do.
A thought occurred ages ago that to have what I wanted to be able to go on cam show my face without expectations from others was to open a room myself and see what happened.
I must say my vision worked over time the room became a safe haven for me and many others that could have a place where no matter if the other woman on cam were stripped we wouldn’t have any crude unwanted visitors as we all pulled together and politely told them to find somewhere else to go.
In the year I opened rooms I can’t ever remember having to kick anyone from the room or call an op as we were having problems in the room.
I wouldn’t call myself vain as I never went on cam for men’s attention I went on cam in a way of you wouldn’t go to a party and expect the host not to be visible.
I believe many that came to my room went away with a smile on their face, it was arousing to but we hardly ever spoke about sex in there, arousal comes from opening the mind for me and having a laugh and banter.
I have had many a funny night with a lot of people from here, many people I haven’t met but feel we have as we have shared many a nights laughing and having fun.
I miss those nights, the chat rooms just don’t feel the same anymore.
Maybe I need to start opening rooms again and lets get this party started.
Flower get your hat out I might be back.
Friday nights are party nights I will sort the music all I need are the guests.
Where have they all gone?
in chat and just as bad it seems in here. 
I believe there are all sorts of people on cam. I just happened to go into a room the other day with a lady on cam that was being friendly and was suffering personal abuse from a guy, she handled herself well and stayed polite. I felt I needed to help her as nobody should be insulted in the way she was. I went and spoke to an op and the matter was dealt with. Sometimes women on cam need to be able to handle themselves against verbal attack. Luckily I have never been insulted but then I keep my clothes on, on cam. For the ladies that like to play on cam have some thought, as I have never seen a guy on cam naked dealing with verbal abuse.
Quote by meat2pleaseu
women things we have to juggle more balls then men.
But while you're messing about trying to juggle some poor bloke was busy designing that lovely contraption up there which you've just dismissed without a thought :rude:
I agree to it being a man.
While he spent his time designing this, some woman would have jobs done and finished to the totally of balls there that had purpose and reason. :P
(granted he probably drew it on the back of a beer mat in the pub, but such things need time and sustanence to complete :mrgreen
I agree totally! :rascal:
Flower I am no idiot believe it or not
But I used a self service till in my local supermarket once, and managed to mess it up 5 times each time it called a supervisor. It took me 20 minutes to buy 5 items of shopping. Never again I would rather queue, those things are rubbish and just don't work the way they say they do.
But I used a self service till in my local supermarket once, and managed to mess it up 5 times each time it called a supervisor. It took me 20 minutes to buy 5 items of shopping. Never again I would rather queue, those things are rubbish and just don't work the way they say they do.
Quote by Resonance
Everyone's situation is different as to whether a nursery is right for their children.
In utopia of course, children stay at home with warm, nurturing, educational mum or dad until they go to school and quickly get top of the class. Nobel prizes beckon once they've left Oxford etc etc.
Truth is, many nurseries can offer far more to a young child than a parent can on their own. There is the socialisation aspect of learning and interacting with other children and adults, which is hugely important. There is the educational aspect, emotional aspect. A good nursery is 1000 times better for a child than a "bad" or even "average" parent at home.
The key is balance I suppose and what that balance is, depends on peoples circumstances. There is no right and wrong answer, it is entirely personal and people should never be judged for it.
To blame societies ills on absent parents is wrong. It is the absence of parenting skills that is part of the problem which is entirely different.
Totally agree with you Res!
Parenting skills is a skill that is so far more complex than most other skills, as it is not an exact science. parenting is a relationship you can only draw on your own expierances and gut instinct it isn't like a subject that you can be taught to a high level and pass an exam on to show you have qualified. It is something we only find out how good we are when our children are parents of their own I believe.
Quote by lyns
They are putting the squeeze on lone parents and if I am not mistaken they expect you to be back at work at the child's 7th birthday now.
If the child is 7 why does someone need to be at home all day?. I see no reason to not work within the school hours. I know it can be difficult to find childcare during the school holidays but it is do able.
Lyns I am a stay at home mum, my youngest are now 12 I choose not to find a proper job, much to the horror of a lot of society.
The reasons for this are I help manage a sports club all the work I do, I don't get paid but if funds were avalable I have been told should be on at least 30k I also organise events at the local school raising much needed funds to benifit all the children, and have run after school craft clubs for the children, I don't get paid for that either.
But most would say to me, what do you contribute to society?
If I got paid we would have a car that is younger than 15 years old, my children would know what it is like to go abroad but I chose not too,
Maybe I am being selfish to deny my children those things.
What staying at home also does for me is frees up weekends for us all to be with my children to see them enjoy the sports they love doing.
We are able to pick children up for sports events because their parents are busy working. I am able to see all the childrens faces when they achieve something they havent done before.
People will say I am a do gooder in a condescending manner, but I dont give a damn, as long as I am doing what I am doing and seeing the children benifit thats all I need to keep me doing what I am doing.
As for contributing anything to society I would leave others to decide.
Just next time you get paid an extra hour for being able to sent your children to a after school club, or your children join some sports clubs, just spare a thought for those that sometimes are working their socks of to make that happen.
I don't claim benifits we just about manage on our own income.
Quote by Ste_n_Kez
I happened to point out that I had made more than one "improper" remark and that I tended to letch as well
She said "Oh yeah, but you`re not creepy" !!
For me any bloke in his mid to late 40’s making "improper" remarks to an 18 year old girl is a bit creepy. Maybe that’s because I have a daughter who is only a couple of years older than 18, who knows. Well we all have our own standards of decency I suppose.
Ste
I knew of a couple on here that met an 18 year old for sex. I was at the time concerned about that.
looking hurts nobody, remarks in how it is said hurts nobody, but actions can I believe leave memories.
