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Theladyisaminx
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Quote by Freckledbird
I have ventured into the chatrooms the other day after taking a few months away from the site. There was a couple there that I have seen around just to say hi too. But then I was shocked that they whispered me to ask if I had met a certain person, as they had met him and he had told them that we had met him. I was not shocked by them asking, I was shocked that he had said we had met, it was someone I was aware of as we had spoken over a year ago, but we had never met him.
Why would people lie?
What can be gained by telling people you had met, when you never have?
This has made me wonder how many others out there that I have spoken to, that might know a bit about me and are now telling others we have met?
It does make you wonder how honest some people really are here.
For me descretion is paramount and false claims do not sit comfortable with me

Have you rally been away from the site for a few months? Your login has been used, and someone seems to have a very similar style?
Whoever it was, did have a week off, from April 29th. to May 6th. though :giggle:
Ha ha didnt know people missed me so much to keep checking! lol
Try looking mid march to late april
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Quote by westerross
I'm very good at finely chopping basil ...... now!! rolleyes
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:shock: What has basil done to deserve that?
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Theladyisaminx
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I have ventured into the chatrooms the other day after taking a few months away from the site. There was a couple there that I have seen around just to say hi too. But then I was shocked that they whispered me to ask if I had met a certain person, as they had met him and he had told them that we had met him. I was not shocked by them asking, I was shocked that he had said we had met, it was someone I was aware of as we had spoken over a year ago, but we had never met him.
Why would people lie?
What can be gained by telling people you had met, when you never have?
This has made me wonder how many others out there that I have spoken to, that might know a bit about me and are now telling others we have met?
It does make you wonder how honest some people really are here.
For me descretion is paramount and false claims do not sit comfortable with me
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Quote by Melting_pot
I'm starting to think that the "core" of this website's users are couples and that they are ...how to put it without offending anyone?... looking down on single guys as being somewhat of intruders in their "playground"...
I know this can't be entirely true, because apparently there is plenty of request for men when it comes to gangbangs or dogging etc etc..
but still..I can't really shake that impression.
it's odd though..I've been (and still am) on 3 other websites of similar nature..and this is the first time I get this "elitist" impression.


I'm starting to think that the "core" of this website's users are couples and that they are ...how to put it without offending anyone?... looking down on single guys as being somewhat of intruders in their "playground"...

I just wanted to give you my view on these parts you have written
I have been on this website for a couple of years now I being the female part of a couple Hubby left me to chat and find guys to invite into our live to share with us what we both wanted. I was always in the chatrooms I observed for a long time just watching the way people interact with mainly men and feeling to a degree if I was a single man I would feel a little how you feel. There are a lot of people I have witnessed over the years that do see single guys as an extra in their playground.
And I do feel a lot of couples feel that for the single guy they should feel honoured that they have been invited to take part in what ever they have been invited to take part in. We personally never saw it that way, as we wanted someone to share with us so to expect them to have respect in what we were doing we needed to respect them to for all giving what we all wanted out of this lifestyle, there are plenty of couples like us too on the site, don’t tarnish all with the same brush.
They might be almost impossible to find but they are around it took us a year of coming on here in the chatrooms, ads etc to find the first guy we met, but then we met him 6 times over the last two years + and we are still friends even though we don’t meet for sex anymore.
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Quote by Dirtygirly
I've pretty much made the decision not to have any! :mrgreen:

So has my sister, she said she can have nieces and newphews when she likes then hand them back. wink
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What part of search do you mean?
For a particular person on sh?
Or people that fit your criteria?
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I was chatting to someone I met in the vanilla world recently that made a decision to only have one child, before having any.
I understand there are people around that one was all they had due to reasons outside of choice.
But would you or did you make the decision before having any that one is all you wanted?
I personally never only wanted one I come from a family of four and while we argued when younger, I would never of wanted to be an only child.
I have always felt there are a lot of advantages of having siblings, even though they can be annoying at times too.
Some of the benifits I feel having siblings has given me, is to have the ability to compromise, share, that you can argue and sort out differences.
I just feel there are more advantages to be gained for the child than just having one child.
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