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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
United Kingdom

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Within life I see so many people that lack patience, both here and in the vanilla world both young and old alike.
Why are people so impatient as a lot of things in life do not happen overnight (Rome was not built in a day so the saying goes).
Is patience a virtue?
I don’t think you could class it as such, it is just something people have or haven’t but I do feel more lack patience than have the ability to wait.
What I have also found with some that a lack of patience leads to intolerant with others
I have always found the best things in life are worth waiting for.
rotflmao I don't think he knows anyone can open a room have control but nobody to talk to.
Should I tell him how to? lol
Quote by WarriorMonk
Been on here every night for 2 weeks,chatted to many couples who have viewed my Profile,got on gr8 they are happy to meet> I give them my contact details then nothing.
This is a load of Bollocks

We have been here a couple of years now and only met a handful of men, most we have met after about 4 months of chatting too, some longer they never gave up after two weeks, but showed they wanted to form a friendship and were not after me just for a quick fix.
We had meets with those guys more than once over the two years we have been friends and although my husband and I no longer meet anyone anymore, these guys have remained friends with us both.
So it says a lot about some of the men here, have patience and it might pay off for the longer term friendships that can be formed.
I have been told I come across as confident in most situations but I don’t always feel confident, I have never been told I came across as arrogant perhaps that is because I very rarely feel confident.
Maybe both confidence and arrogance is something other people see in you, and not always what we see in ourselves.
Quote by Sexonfire
Seriously though, I'd agree with what Fabio and Melting Pot said ^^^^
I wouldn't agree if applying those theories to my liking of older women now but there was a time, when i was 18 / 19 and insecure, that i actually thought older women would be easier.
I now realise that this is way off the mark! lol

Easier? :shock: lol
In what way do you mean?
Firstly I need to ascertain if I am older?
At how many years older are people seen to be the older man or woman than ones self?
Where do we become older as when you are my age would you be an older man?
To many I guess you would be to others I guess you are see that way now but to others you would be seen as younger.
O dear it all so confusing.
I still feel young at heart and being classed as the Older woman somehow feels odd with me.
But I guess we all feel that way.
I should of put up a thread are women attracted to the older older man. lol
I thought that they would be easier to get into bed! lol
I was 18 and very naive so don't judge me to harshly!
I am not judging, you just make me feel old and desperate rolleyes lol
Quote by Sexonfire
Seriously though, I'd agree with what Fabio and Melting Pot said ^^^^
I wouldn't agree if applying those theories to my liking of older women now but there was a time, when i was 18 / 19 and insecure, that i actually thought older women would be easier.
I now realise that this is way off the mark! lol

Easier? :shock: lol
In what way do you mean?
Firstly I need to ascertain if I am older?
At how many years older are people seen to be the older man or woman than ones self?
Where do we become older as when you are my age would you be an older man?
To many I guess you would be to others I guess you are see that way now but to others you would be seen as younger.
O dear it all so confusing.
I still feel young at heart and being classed as the Older woman somehow feels odd with me.
But I guess we all feel that way.
I should of put up a thread are women attracted to the older older man. lol
Quote by Sgt Bilko
Minxy, if you close your eyes and spin round 5 times then server 3 feels just like server 4 did!!! lol lol lol lol wink

:shock: Hey I am not a corkscrew you know! wink
(checks to make sure I spelt that right)
If I done what you mention I would fall over or drill down to Aussy Land.
I get it you must be missing me wink
I might just open a room on 3 calling it server 4 that might confuse a few! :twisted:
Hope you are all enjoying your time down and under.