Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
United Kingdom
Forum
I have just found out my old hang out server 4 has disappeared into oblivion. This was a quite corner on sh away from all the humdrum of the other servers a place that felt safe from the hordes of people flying through this place daily.
I personally liked server 4 I used to open a regular room over there where the regular riff raff used to come in to have a chat and pass the time of day, now it all seems so different I feel like a nomad wandering about with nowhere to settle.
Do others miss server 4 or is it just me.
I can’t help it I am getting to old to change.
I might have to do a sit in on server 3 and just pretend it is server 4.
Would it feel the same?
I personally liked server 4 I used to open a regular room over there where the regular riff raff used to come in to have a chat and pass the time of day, now it all seems so different I feel like a nomad wandering about with nowhere to settle.
Do others miss server 4 or is it just me.
I can’t help it I am getting to old to change.
I might have to do a sit in on server 3 and just pretend it is server 4.
Would it feel the same?
Quote by flower411
Men with dark hair can carry pink off well.
As your hair is salt and pepper Flower I think to make a judgement if a pink hat would look ok on you could only be made after seeing it on cam.
How about a room Flower with his Pink hat on and see what others think?
You never know it might be more popular than flower down the garden eating worms
Can`t set up a room :cry:
They`ve taken away server four. It just wouldn`t be the same :cry:
:shock: Where can we hide now then?
I havent been on the chat rooms for ages I didnt know.
By the way a suit and a pink hat would be ermmm Cor I am having a hot flush now.
I pop into chat now and then but the loss of server four has made it all seem a bit weird !!
I`m certain someone will come along and give the time and date that the chatrooms were set up and how many servers there were and all that
But, no matter when it started or what came before.....server 4 always appeared different and I can`t really bring myself to set up a room anywhere else !!
It was a little like home from home, now I feel like a nomad. :cry:
Quote by flower411
Men with dark hair can carry pink off well.
As your hair is salt and pepper Flower I think to make a judgement if a pink hat would look ok on you could only be made after seeing it on cam.
How about a room Flower with his Pink hat on and see what others think?
You never know it might be more popular than flower down the garden eating worms
Can`t set up a room :cry:
They`ve taken away server four. It just wouldn`t be the same :cry:
:shock: Where can we hide now then?
I havent been on the chat rooms for ages I didnt know.
By the way a suit and a pink hat would be ermmm Cor I am having a hot flush now.
Quote by Sexonfire
It's not necessarily looks that does it (for me) it's confidence in what you want, what your doing and confidence in yourself.
I love older women!
I do in my case believe confidence comes with age, I can not answer for everyone when I say that. But I have also found that is true with the older man too, in most cases, it is all knowing how to please and what the other enjoys without having to ask.
Whether that is confidence or just experience that comes with age I don’t know.
I love a good gig the bigger the better and have seen a few in my time from Queen, santana, springstean, Tina turner, Robbie I don't need to like the band to see them live now but I did years ago, so I passed on Zepplin, Micheal Jackson, Rolling stones, now I wished I just went instead of turning up my nose when others I know went.
Being a possibly older women at around mid 40's, I found my time on sh when looking for meets a lot of younger guys saying they prefer the older woman.
I am not being funny but I don't have the perfect body, a few stretch marks here and there and tell tale signs of having 3 children, surely younger unblemished woman would be more appealing to look at than a middle aged older woman like me.
I am very comfortable within my own body I suppose in my own way can be very sexy, but I really don't find myself sexy to look at, I was luck enough to have met guys that I felt found me sexy with the flaws and we are still friends without the sex.
So what is the attracting of the older woman?
This is something that I did wonder about in my times of meeting.
I am not being funny but I don't have the perfect body, a few stretch marks here and there and tell tale signs of having 3 children, surely younger unblemished woman would be more appealing to look at than a middle aged older woman like me.
I am very comfortable within my own body I suppose in my own way can be very sexy, but I really don't find myself sexy to look at, I was luck enough to have met guys that I felt found me sexy with the flaws and we are still friends without the sex.
So what is the attracting of the older woman?
This is something that I did wonder about in my times of meeting.
Me aged 45 to me aged 12.
Never take any notice of what people that are not important in life say to or about you, take more notice of the people that really care and love you.
People that don’t care about you will always try and drag you down, the people that do care will always try and build you up.
Funnily enough I am saying this same thing to my 12 year old daughter at the moment.
Never take any notice of what people that are not important in life say to or about you, take more notice of the people that really care and love you.
People that don’t care about you will always try and drag you down, the people that do care will always try and build you up.
Funnily enough I am saying this same thing to my 12 year old daughter at the moment.
When we were meeting I did prefer to meet and talk to men over 35, as I am in my mid 40’s I just found men over 35 in general more mature of mind, and knew what we wanted out of invited someone to share in our relationship. This doesn’t mean I didn’t talk to younger men, but I just found in general I never really felt a connection with them as I did the older man. I also have a nephew that is 30 it just never seemed right for me to go with a younger man than that.
A lot did say to me you don’t know what you are missing, but I guess what you don’t have you never miss.
A lot did say to me you don’t know what you are missing, but I guess what you don’t have you never miss.
Men with dark hair can carry pink off well.
As your hair is salt and pepper Flower I think to make a judgement if a pink hat would look ok on you could only be made after seeing it on cam.
How about a room Flower with his Pink hat on and see what others think?
You never know it might be more popular than flower down the garden eating worms
As your hair is salt and pepper Flower I think to make a judgement if a pink hat would look ok on you could only be made after seeing it on cam.
How about a room Flower with his Pink hat on and see what others think?
You never know it might be more popular than flower down the garden eating worms
Quote by Freckledbird
The Governments thinking is obviously this..... old cars pollute more than new cars.
So they using the " green " logo, to save the world. :shock:
Thanks for the lesson FB...but feel there are much more important things to worry about, than correcting me on the borrow or lend thanks anyway.
I wish I had a teacher like you whene i were at schole. My grammer wud be so much beter.
It would. And of course, it's your opinion, 'for which you are entitled to have' *shudders*
This isn't anything important to worry about though, is it? People will either take the government up on this incentive, or they won't. They still have that choice. Hardly rocket science.
Shudder as much as you like my dear.
It may not be rocket sceince ( i before e except after c )
but.....my original thought on this is, how can somebody who has a ten year old car going to be able to afford a brand new one?Will there be any financial help for people out there? Blimey.....you have to be whiter than white to get a loan now.
I bet most people would love to be able to trade in their 12 year old mini for a nice shiny new one. It is a cheap gimmick which may work for a few, but certainly not the majority of car owners, who have an old car.
'i before e except after c, when the sound is e'
You forgot to mention Receive.
Quote by noladreams
I would like to answer the op’s question sorry to detract from the forces.
I believe a true hero to be Mr or Mrs Joe blogs that gets up in the morning and unknown to them a sequence of events in that day is going to make them think on their feet and take time out for another person or living creature in need.
People that get paid to do a job can be a hero, but it is the people that do things without monetary gain to me are the true hero’s.
Ah right....then that WOULD be the armed forces then, as they certainly do not do what they do for the money.
They get paid for doing a job that they have chosen to do, as you know my nephew has enrolled in the army it does not mean I am not proud that he has, but I would not see him as a hero. He will be posted out next year to Afghanistan if he cames back and said he saved lives then I would class him as a hero, if he shot to defend himself and others I would have to accept that, I only spoke to him the other day he knows my views. He knows I am proud but I can not stand the thought that one day he might have to kill someone. I will stand by what I said in my first post.
To me someone is a hero if they put themselves into a difficult position to help another without being trainedbut on their own instinct.
What about doctors and nurses who save lives? Or firemen at the site of accidents?
Surely being trained to do a job shouldn't bar someone from being considered a hero?
An example: I once sent two of my staff on first aid courses. They went (albeit a bit reluctantly!) The following weekend they were out for the night. Early hours of the morning they came across a guy having an epileptic fit in the middle of the street. They knew it was an epileptic fit as they recognised the symptoms and dealt with it. Other folk were stood round laughing and watching - they thought he was just drunk. The ambulance crew said their actions had helped save his life.
Are they any less heroes because of a few days first aid training?
I was responding to Kenty post as I mentioned paid to do a job and trained, I would definitely say the story you have told the people involved are heroes as they were not at work and getting paid to take care of that person. Their instinct told them to help, I would say there are true definitions of my view of what a hero is. Also people that go beyond the call of duty like an off duty doctor, fireman etc etc. that stops to help anyone I believe are hero’s too.
I can’t see if you are at work and are getting paid to do a job that you can be a hero while you are doing the job you are getting paid and trained to do.
I have upmost respect for people in caring careers that work in any form with others to benefit others, but I do not see them as heroes
Quote by kentswingers777
I would like to answer the op’s question sorry to detract from the forces.
I believe a true hero to be Mr or Mrs Joe blogs that gets up in the morning and unknown to them a sequence of events in that day is going to make them think on their feet and take time out for another person or living creature in need.
People that get paid to do a job can be a hero, but it is the people that do things without monetary gain to me are the true hero’s.
Ah right....then that WOULD be the armed forces then, as they certainly do not do what they do for the money.
They get paid for doing a job that they have chosen to do, as you know my nephew has enrolled in the army it does not mean I am not proud that he has, but I would not see him as a hero. He will be posted out next year to Afghanistan if he cames back and said he saved lives then I would class him as a hero, if he shot to defend himself and others I would have to accept that, I only spoke to him the other day he knows my views. He knows I am proud but I can not stand the thought that one day he might have to kill someone. I will stand by what I said in my first post.
To me someone is a hero if they put themselves into a difficult position to help another without being trained but on their own instinct.
