Being as i am a full member, can i put my e-mail address in my messages or replies?
Just checking because i don't want to break any rules you see!
Be nice to each other..ta-ta!
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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
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Casanova
A couple of hours ago (hi to everyone i haven't spoken
to in a while)a female friend of mine who has recently joined our happy site decided to put an advert in the photo ad section.
She had 147 hits in an hour!! (wish i had that many)
She specified what she wanted and with whom and the distance the hopefuls should live in between, all the rest please please do not get in touch...did this detere them.....oh no!
I am being presumptious in thinking that this is not news to you regulars, but come on, give the gal a break..lol.
Poor lass has spent hours sifting through messages!
On a more serious note, it has kinda put her off this site and makes me look a little silly as it was me who recommended it, but i forgot to inform her this may happen!
Oh well, back to the drawing board!!
to in a while)a female friend of mine who has recently joined our happy site decided to put an advert in the photo ad section.
She had 147 hits in an hour!! (wish i had that many)
She specified what she wanted and with whom and the distance the hopefuls should live in between, all the rest please please do not get in touch...did this detere them.....oh no!
I am being presumptious in thinking that this is not news to you regulars, but come on, give the gal a break..lol.
Poor lass has spent hours sifting through messages!
On a more serious note, it has kinda put her off this site and makes me look a little silly as it was me who recommended it, but i forgot to inform her this may happen!
Oh well, back to the drawing board!!
Casanova
Quote by J3diMast3r
depends - which one is the better cook ?
btw - what's g.f.y ?
Go fuck yourself ??? Not sure but it's the only thing that seems to fit ... could be a typo in there and I could be wrong of course.
Blimey, i go away for a while and come back to all this vulgar language!!
Casanova
Quote by PoloLady
Pour yourself a glass of wine and have a nice hot bath.
You need it after all that grubby water!
Ah - but after the bath I'll need someone to massage me down to stop my muscles aching tomorrow
You're not far away are you?
I might be your neigbour for all you know :wink:
Casanova
Quote by neilinleeds
why don't they answer their mails? easy . . . .
it's not uncommon for single fems and couples to receive 100+ emails week in, week out. even if they log in every day to check their mails, to answer them all would take forever. if they only log in rarely, well can you imagine trawling through page after page in your inbox? probably they did once answer out of politeness to begin with, but i'm quite sure it starts to wear a bit thin after a while . . . . so . . . . they reply to the ones that take their fancy, and put their effort into those replies! no reply tends to be a strong hint that your mail didn't warrant that effort on their part, as they see it?
harsh maybe from where you're standing when you don't even get a one line "No thanks" back, but perfectly understandable.
also . . .
i'm not entirely sure if this still holds true, given the changes to the ads section, but it used to be that users could opt to hide their emails, so replies to ads sent through the site kept them anonymous. as soon as they reply though, their email is suddenly available to the sender, and it only takes one or two TTT&T's getting stroppy about a knock back or going all stalkerish to make those users a bit cautious about who they make their email address available to.
basically, it's tough. better to put your energies into those who do reply and stop worrying about those that don't. missed out on nothing.
neil x x x ;)
I'm with Neil on this one!
Casanova
As some of you are already aware, my partner left me in December and i have had to get a lodger in to help pay bills and mortgage etc.
I am only asking a fraction of what i could be asking for rent wise.
It has been a great relationship since he moved in a few months ago...HOWEVER...
this all turned sour last Sunday when he took something i said the wrong way.
Now we don't talk and avoid each other which i shouldn't have to do in my own home.
He is twice the size of me so asking him if he is not happy here maybe he should leave
is not an option.
Give it very considerable thought before commiting yourself.
I am only asking a fraction of what i could be asking for rent wise.
It has been a great relationship since he moved in a few months ago...HOWEVER...
this all turned sour last Sunday when he took something i said the wrong way.
Now we don't talk and avoid each other which i shouldn't have to do in my own home.
He is twice the size of me so asking him if he is not happy here maybe he should leave
is not an option.
Give it very considerable thought before commiting yourself.
