I'm an intelligent professional 49 year old looking for fun with couples and single fems.

I'm confident, assertive and dominant and generally take control in both my professional and business lives. I live in Gloucestershire but travel extensively around the world including New York, SE Asia and Australasia.

Whilst I know this site is about sex for me the biggest sex organ is the brain. I need to make a connection with the person I am playing with and that connection can only come (for me) from a meeting of minds before a meeting of bodies.

I am an intellectual snob and I make no apologies for this. If you can't spell, if you can't write without frequently resorting to text speak, if you're racist, homophobic (I am straight) or generally don't have a brain then I won't make a connection with you.

I am 5'8, medium build and bald, I cycle lots and am generally in good shape. I do have a big cock and am a considerate and attentive lover.

I realise this profile is challenging to say the least but to emphasise a positive: I am here for the long term... much prefer to get to know someone and have long-term fun that allows our mutual kinks to be explored completely.