HI Blonde,
Hi Steph, please cold you tell me what those funny little pictures and symbols at the bottom of yours (and other I haves seen) posts?
Baci e abbracci
V.
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Veneziano
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
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Indeed.
I’ve been thinking about why I joined this group, this forum and what I expected from it.
Of course the quick and most obvious answer is that we’re here to meet someone to have sex with. That is putting bluntly. But I’ve considered my reasons and I’m not so sure that this is the only motive.
Ultimately yes, I am as hot blooded as the next man, but there is a lot more going on with my decision or better my willingness to post here.
In my case I don’t actually think that the act in itself is the be all and end all of my decision to “swing†(or at least attempt to).
I am a single guy, and without sounding conceited, have never had many problems finding girlfriends, like I suspect most of the other guys on here; I have been in relationships long and short. I have had great sex and not so good sex. I am not in a relationship at present and neither am I looking. It’s not a place I want to be right now. Even if (again, apologies for sounding conceited) I would have opportunities to see someone and with it the intimate side of a relationship. I could decide, of course if the opportunities are still there (never take anything for granted) to begin another relationship.
And of course, if I was that way inclined or had the means I could pay for sexual favours. I think what I’m trying to get at here is that I’m not sexually “frustratedâ€.
I’m ok with not having sex for now, either as part of a couple or by any other means, this forum included.
What I’m after here I guess is the adventure, but not just my adventure, It thrills me that another person would want to explore that same adventure and be open to it’s possibilities and so it’s a self-propagating turn-on. The mystery that “something†might happen, or it might not!. It’s not the act of shagging someone in itself, although I’m not saying that’s not fun too, but the built up and the hope and sometimes (more oft than not ) the let –down. It’s that energy and situation that appeals to me. Wishing to find like-minded people that get a buzz from the (positive) tension that this creates. Hoping to meet new and interesting people. And by interesting, I don’t mean extremely beautiful, super intelligent, ultra-witty etcc…just the fact that some of you are here makes you interesting. And of course we are all interesting and beautiful in our own special way.
I’ve posted on the forum, and answered ads. So far I have not had success in responses.
But it’s early days. And how would it be if every ad or every post would find a response. The situation would become routine and the spark and adventure might eventually fade. Of course I’m disappointed I haven’t had responses, but that’s the nature of the game here. I new to this so have very little to go on, or experience in the matter. But so far it’s been fun, and I’m getting to know some of you in some ways, even by just reading your posts, and it looks alright in here. I think I’ll stay a while
Ciao for now
V.
I’ve been thinking about why I joined this group, this forum and what I expected from it.
Of course the quick and most obvious answer is that we’re here to meet someone to have sex with. That is putting bluntly. But I’ve considered my reasons and I’m not so sure that this is the only motive.
Ultimately yes, I am as hot blooded as the next man, but there is a lot more going on with my decision or better my willingness to post here.
In my case I don’t actually think that the act in itself is the be all and end all of my decision to “swing†(or at least attempt to).
I am a single guy, and without sounding conceited, have never had many problems finding girlfriends, like I suspect most of the other guys on here; I have been in relationships long and short. I have had great sex and not so good sex. I am not in a relationship at present and neither am I looking. It’s not a place I want to be right now. Even if (again, apologies for sounding conceited) I would have opportunities to see someone and with it the intimate side of a relationship. I could decide, of course if the opportunities are still there (never take anything for granted) to begin another relationship.
And of course, if I was that way inclined or had the means I could pay for sexual favours. I think what I’m trying to get at here is that I’m not sexually “frustratedâ€.
I’m ok with not having sex for now, either as part of a couple or by any other means, this forum included.
What I’m after here I guess is the adventure, but not just my adventure, It thrills me that another person would want to explore that same adventure and be open to it’s possibilities and so it’s a self-propagating turn-on. The mystery that “something†might happen, or it might not!. It’s not the act of shagging someone in itself, although I’m not saying that’s not fun too, but the built up and the hope and sometimes (more oft than not ) the let –down. It’s that energy and situation that appeals to me. Wishing to find like-minded people that get a buzz from the (positive) tension that this creates. Hoping to meet new and interesting people. And by interesting, I don’t mean extremely beautiful, super intelligent, ultra-witty etcc…just the fact that some of you are here makes you interesting. And of course we are all interesting and beautiful in our own special way.
I’ve posted on the forum, and answered ads. So far I have not had success in responses.
But it’s early days. And how would it be if every ad or every post would find a response. The situation would become routine and the spark and adventure might eventually fade. Of course I’m disappointed I haven’t had responses, but that’s the nature of the game here. I new to this so have very little to go on, or experience in the matter. But so far it’s been fun, and I’m getting to know some of you in some ways, even by just reading your posts, and it looks alright in here. I think I’ll stay a while
Ciao for now
V.
Hi Bait,
I am too from Nottingham and it seems the swinging scene up here is rather sparse if none exsistant in the way of clubs bars spàs etc.. etc..
I am new to the scene so can't say I have a lot of info to give you, but IÃ ll let you know if I come across anything and maybe you too would like to exchange info with me if you discover some hot bed of information.
In the meantime, good luck on these boards, try putting your namedown for the Nottingham munch.(never been to one..not sure waht to expect).. I am "on trial" and may get invited, depending on how much I contribute on the forum etc..
Ciao for now
V
I am too from Nottingham and it seems the swinging scene up here is rather sparse if none exsistant in the way of clubs bars spàs etc.. etc..
I am new to the scene so can't say I have a lot of info to give you, but IÃ ll let you know if I come across anything and maybe you too would like to exchange info with me if you discover some hot bed of information.
In the meantime, good luck on these boards, try putting your namedown for the Nottingham munch.(never been to one..not sure waht to expect).. I am "on trial" and may get invited, depending on how much I contribute on the forum etc..
Ciao for now
V
Treasurechest: Tiramisù is but one my specialties. I acn assure you that it beats any supermarket
or many restaurants into a cocked hat !
The recipe has been handed down through my family and I was taught by my sister and we have been making and eating it before it became the desert that everybody associates with Italy.
I aslo make a "lemon" variaty that, I have friends and family queing up for.
Well still no takers, but hopefully someone soon will be hungry.
Thanks for your replys guys in the meantime
Love and Oysters
V
or many restaurants into a cocked hat !
The recipe has been handed down through my family and I was taught by my sister and we have been making and eating it before it became the desert that everybody associates with Italy.
I aslo make a "lemon" variaty that, I have friends and family queing up for.
Well still no takers, but hopefully someone soon will be hungry.
Thanks for your replys guys in the meantime
Love and Oysters
V
Food in the City
I love to cook. I think that food and eating are one of the most sensual things.
So any girls/ladies or even couples that would like me to do a dinner party or a lunch thing. I'm your man.
it's a great ice-breaker, get to know someone.
I can occasionaly accomodate so you won't even have to wash-up later..
I am a professional, (not a professional cook) healthy, fit, athletic, handsome !! intelligent , witty (that's open to opinion...one mans' wit is another man's twit) italian guy 38 yrs old in Nottingham
Home made pastas, earthy heartwarming soups, creative salads ! sensual puddings!
No red meat. !
So get your bookings in early to avoid disappointment
V
I love to cook. I think that food and eating are one of the most sensual things.
So any girls/ladies or even couples that would like me to do a dinner party or a lunch thing. I'm your man.
it's a great ice-breaker, get to know someone.
I can occasionaly accomodate so you won't even have to wash-up later..
I am a professional, (not a professional cook) healthy, fit, athletic, handsome !! intelligent , witty (that's open to opinion...one mans' wit is another man's twit) italian guy 38 yrs old in Nottingham
Home made pastas, earthy heartwarming soups, creative salads ! sensual puddings!
No red meat. !
So get your bookings in early to avoid disappointment
V
Hi everybody
I am a "newbie" to the site and to the scene.
Am trying to get my foot in the door put am finding it a little difficult to get replies from the ads I respond to. (by difficult ..I mean..none)
Anyway I am a single guy, in Nottingham good looking icon_ . not really looking just now for a relationship so missing out on the intimacy and fun that sex can offer.
Maybe some of you can take me by the hand and point me in the right direction
Hope to be able to meet some of you some time soon or if anybody can put me in touch with events or people in my area it would be most welcome
I am a "newbie" to the site and to the scene.
Am trying to get my foot in the door put am finding it a little difficult to get replies from the ads I respond to. (by difficult ..I mean..none)
Anyway I am a single guy, in Nottingham good looking icon_ . not really looking just now for a relationship so missing out on the intimacy and fun that sex can offer.
Maybe some of you can take me by the hand and point me in the right direction
Hope to be able to meet some of you some time soon or if anybody can put me in touch with events or people in my area it would be most welcome
Well just to add to my ever expanding status on here..sorry being a little ironic..I can tell all you girls that are dying to meet me that I now can accomodate during the day ..as I work from .
On a serious note..I hope to meet some of you at the Nottingham munch ..Hopefully I'll get an invite..I'll be the one in the corner to scared to say boo to a goose..!
V
On a serious note..I hope to meet some of you at the Nottingham munch ..Hopefully I'll get an invite..I'll be the one in the corner to scared to say boo to a goose..!
V
HI,
I'm from Nottingham too. Am a single Italian Newbie Guy. Not in a relationship so finding it difficult to meet anybody as I think the single males have a hard time getting their foot in the door. But good luck to you guys and welcome. I have found everybody on here really friendly and they don't shoot you down if you have something to say
Ciao for now.
V
I'm from Nottingham too. Am a single Italian Newbie Guy. Not in a relationship so finding it difficult to meet anybody as I think the single males have a hard time getting their foot in the door. But good luck to you guys and welcome. I have found everybody on here really friendly and they don't shoot you down if you have something to say
Ciao for now.
V
I am a complete newbie to the scene,
And of course I'm not quite sure of the "rules and regulations" I would imagine that that it's not so easy to get to meet someone let alone end up in bed with them after such a short residence and little input from me on this site I suspect that an element of trust has to be built up to get away from GO and get started around the board.
Anyway i guess I have to keep trying so here is something about me.
I am an attractive fit athletic italian Guy 35 yrs going on 25 not in a relationship so I cannot offer you my girlfriend or wife as fodder. Not exactly looking to be in a relantionship just now...
But miss having fun and being intimate with someone..
So I am appealing to any girls or ladies ..to get in touch
and to the experinced male swingers...tell me... how it's done.!!
Ciao for now and hope to hear from you soon
Vt
And of course I'm not quite sure of the "rules and regulations" I would imagine that that it's not so easy to get to meet someone let alone end up in bed with them after such a short residence and little input from me on this site I suspect that an element of trust has to be built up to get away from GO and get started around the board.
Anyway i guess I have to keep trying so here is something about me.
I am an attractive fit athletic italian Guy 35 yrs going on 25 not in a relationship so I cannot offer you my girlfriend or wife as fodder. Not exactly looking to be in a relantionship just now...
But miss having fun and being intimate with someone..
So I am appealing to any girls or ladies ..to get in touch
and to the experinced male swingers...tell me... how it's done.!!
Ciao for now and hope to hear from you soon
Vt
Hi everybody
I am a "newbie" to the site and to the scene.
Am trying to get my foot in the door put am finding it a little difficult to get replies from the ads I respond to. (by difficult ..I mean..none)
Anyway I am a single guy, good looking
. not really looking just now for a relationship so missing out on the intimacy and fun that sex can offer.
Maybe some of you can take me by the hand and point me in the right direction
Hope to be able to meet some of you some time soon
V
I am a "newbie" to the site and to the scene.
Am trying to get my foot in the door put am finding it a little difficult to get replies from the ads I respond to. (by difficult ..I mean..none)
Anyway I am a single guy, good looking
. not really looking just now for a relationship so missing out on the intimacy and fun that sex can offer. Maybe some of you can take me by the hand and point me in the right direction
Hope to be able to meet some of you some time soon
V
He's not being rude at all . Just stating a fact. In light of the little response from my post he could well have a point. But I would like to believe that there females out there that will eventually respond.
In quanto a te Sexitalian...Come preciso nella mia post , sono un novellino e perciò non conosco bene come girarmi in questo mondo.
Non sono poi di Londra (chissà perchè tutti gli italiani credono che l'Inghilterra sia composta solo di Londra, come se la città coprisse tutto il territorio brittanico).
Ti auguro una buona permanenza e fammi sapere delle tue avventure ed eventuali scoperte.
E sei mai ti trovassi in difficoltà non esitare a farti sentire..magari ti posso anche aiutare.
Buon Viaggio
In quanto a te Sexitalian...Come preciso nella mia post , sono un novellino e perciò non conosco bene come girarmi in questo mondo.
Non sono poi di Londra (chissà perchè tutti gli italiani credono che l'Inghilterra sia composta solo di Londra, come se la città coprisse tutto il territorio brittanico).
Ti auguro una buona permanenza e fammi sapere delle tue avventure ed eventuali scoperte.
E sei mai ti trovassi in difficoltà non esitare a farti sentire..magari ti posso anche aiutare.
Buon Viaggio
As I'm not getting replies //can experienced members tell me how best to go about getting involved. I am a complete newbie to the scene.
I would appreciate any pointers that would help me get more participation and involved.
Does the fact that I am single work as a deterent?
Would a piccy help?
Many thanks and hope to hear from you all soon
I would appreciate any pointers that would help me get more participation and involved.
Does the fact that I am single work as a deterent?
Would a piccy help?
Many thanks and hope to hear from you all soon
