Blimey- who'da thunk it. Mrs Bones thread'll be reopened next...or is that too much to hope for?
And here I was ...singing "Exodus"
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Witchy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 56
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Mar, that was put so eloquently. And I can't exactly try to persuade you to stay without a touch of hypocrisy 
so I won't.
You & the suave one will be fine without this place...but the place will be a lesser one without you.
Oh, and thanks for making me break my self imposed forum diet.
Wanna borrow some hair to flick? I have plenty.
so I won't.You & the suave one will be fine without this place...but the place will be a lesser one without you.
Oh, and thanks for making me break my self imposed forum diet.
Wanna borrow some hair to flick? I have plenty.
My lengthy post agreeing with Bioke and pointing out the difference twixt vanity and pretentiousness just went AWOL.
In summary, I don't "get" vanity- but vain people wouldn't "get" me either, so each to their own. What I can't abide is pretentious, arrogant people- such dreadfully unattractive traits in a person.
In summary, I don't "get" vanity- but vain people wouldn't "get" me either, so each to their own. What I can't abide is pretentious, arrogant people- such dreadfully unattractive traits in a person.
Quote by Steve
It's all about compatibility.
If Mr x and Mrs x (or Mrs & Mrs, or Mr & Mr, Or..oh, whatever) can both take it or leave it, then if the other stuff works, it stands a good chance.
Likewise if X & X are both gagging for it 24/7 - and are on the same wavelength. Problems arise when theres a mis-match of drives, or a miss match of compatibility within those drives. I think within this, our "alternative" domain, we stand a better chance of working through those problems, and finding a way to sustain a relationship where it's just the sex that's an issue.
I have a kinky scale- not a physical thing, but a mental refrence point. I think everyone is somewhere on it.
My W is around 80% Kinky on that scale. I, however am around 85% vanilla. Recognising and accepting that has been wonderful for us.
I've tried kinky- lots. From most directions imaginable. I explored it, but it left me for the most part unfulfilled. He has a kinky streak that I have no desire to supress. We have an understanding that he's free to indulge should he wish. I have a lover who is around 98.5% vanilla. We've been a non-item for 5 years, so I am utterly at ease with him- which is necessary for me to relax and enjoy the nights we spend together.
Mr W gets off on the "cuckold" aspect- that I'm spending the night with another guy etc. He's a friend of the family and when he's here, Mr W even has a twinkle in his eye at the "indignity" of making a cuppa for his wifes lover..
We still have a thriving sex life on it's own merits- but accepting the fact that we're individuals has benefited us on many levels. We may not be 100% compatible in bed- but we've found a creative way of dealing with that.
:shock:
Great post :thumbup:
Erm....whaddya mean :shock: Great post?
Barsteward!
It's all about compatibility.
If Mr x and Mrs x (or Mrs & Mrs, or Mr & Mr, Or..oh, whatever) can both take it or leave it, then if the other stuff works, it stands a good chance.
Likewise if X & X are both gagging for it 24/7 - and are on the same wavelength. Problems arise when theres a mis-match of drives, or a miss match of compatibility within those drives. I think within this, our "alternative" domain, we stand a better chance of working through those problems, and finding a way to sustain a relationship where it's just the sex that's an issue.
I have a kinky scale- not a physical thing, but a mental refrence point. I think everyone is somewhere on it.
My W is around 80% Kinky on that scale. I, however am around 85% vanilla. Recognising and accepting that has been wonderful for us.
I've tried kinky- lots. From most directions imaginable. I explored it, but it left me for the most part unfulfilled. He has a kinky streak that I have no desire to supress. We have an understanding that he's free to indulge should he wish. I have a lover who is around 98.5% vanilla. We've been a non-item for 5 years, so I am utterly at ease with him- which is necessary for me to relax and enjoy the nights we spend together.
Mr W gets off on the "cuckold" aspect- that I'm spending the night with another guy etc. He's a friend of the family and when he's here, Mr W even has a twinkle in his eye at the "indignity" of making a cuppa for his wifes lover..
We still have a thriving sex life on it's own merits- but accepting the fact that we're individuals has benefited us on many levels. We may not be 100% compatible in bed- but we've found a creative way of dealing with that.
If Mr x and Mrs x (or Mrs & Mrs, or Mr & Mr, Or..oh, whatever) can both take it or leave it, then if the other stuff works, it stands a good chance.
Likewise if X & X are both gagging for it 24/7 - and are on the same wavelength. Problems arise when theres a mis-match of drives, or a miss match of compatibility within those drives. I think within this, our "alternative" domain, we stand a better chance of working through those problems, and finding a way to sustain a relationship where it's just the sex that's an issue.
I have a kinky scale- not a physical thing, but a mental refrence point. I think everyone is somewhere on it.
My W is around 80% Kinky on that scale. I, however am around 85% vanilla. Recognising and accepting that has been wonderful for us.
I've tried kinky- lots. From most directions imaginable. I explored it, but it left me for the most part unfulfilled. He has a kinky streak that I have no desire to supress. We have an understanding that he's free to indulge should he wish. I have a lover who is around 98.5% vanilla. We've been a non-item for 5 years, so I am utterly at ease with him- which is necessary for me to relax and enjoy the nights we spend together.
Mr W gets off on the "cuckold" aspect- that I'm spending the night with another guy etc. He's a friend of the family and when he's here, Mr W even has a twinkle in his eye at the "indignity" of making a cuppa for his wifes lover..
We still have a thriving sex life on it's own merits- but accepting the fact that we're individuals has benefited us on many levels. We may not be 100% compatible in bed- but we've found a creative way of dealing with that.
Quote by Waterpistol
Photos are cool, friendliness is cool - anything that gives an insight into the person rather than just a blank space or a list of wants.
However, I rarely ever initiate conversations based on profiles - I tend to be a bit shy really, and the sheer volume of single guys puts me off of fighting through a queue ...
Also, like the guy above, the process of elimination is important - I'm not gonna impose myself on someone if they aren't looking for single men - it's their perogative if they want to change their rules.
Mr Pistol,
I just wrote a witty, candid post telling you how I'd had your profile bought to my attention by a pervy friend, and how as a profile it was head & shoulders above most on here.
My connection flounced and I lost it.
Anyway, your profile rocks. :thumbup:
you until you wrote the *F* word. 
Deciding on my new Tatt- and a motivational time frame.
It's something that will be hugely significant, and knowing someone who is great at drawing the subject matter means he can design it for me- and it will be doubly significant. I suppose I ought to ask him first, but that's a minor detail.
Got to decide where to put it now :bounce:
It's something that will be hugely significant, and knowing someone who is great at drawing the subject matter means he can design it for me- and it will be doubly significant. I suppose I ought to ask him first, but that's a minor detail.
Got to decide where to put it now :bounce:
Mrs B would like to publicly thank and big up all the lovely people who have posted in the cafe, and been in touch by other means.
She is now undergoing the usual post cancellation, read the cafe every twelve seconds phase, which I know from experience takes around a 3 week period to get to the "what cafe?" stage.
She is now undergoing the usual post cancellation, read the cafe every twelve seconds phase, which I know from experience takes around a 3 week period to get to the "what cafe?" stage.
I'm sure I'm not alone in wanting to big up the newly departed Mrs Bone. On the one hand, I'm glad she's gone (she knows I mean it in the nicest way) but having just looked through some classic Boney threads- I'll miss her (on here) terribly.
A lovely, warm person- a dear friend, and a fabulous forumite.
You rock, Mrs Bone. :rose:
A lovely, warm person- a dear friend, and a fabulous forumite.
You rock, Mrs Bone. :rose:
Quote by markz
Divide them into teams and tell them to follow the yellow brick road
what have you been smoking.............
Trout :borg:
You still on the .................
huh....you've been smoking witchy..........
You only dare to say stuff about me because you know I'll kill you quickly. :dry:
