Only just joined, so we'll fill this bit in more fully in due course... Easy going, educated, fun, very occasional swingers. We have a bit of experience now, but only find time in our (sadly far too) busy lives to do this very rarely, so it really does still have the thrill of the first time for us, everytime. Personality - friendliness, intelligence and imagination are as important to us as looks. Happy to take things slowly - the build up can be a great thrill in itself, especially if you're new to this - or just throw caution to the wind and jump straight in, if it feels right...and equally we are as happy to just chat and/or do soft stuff as go all the way...

She's enthusiastically bi in the right circumstances, but is principally into guys. He's straight, but very relaxed and open minded - never say never, I suppose, but it seems a bit unlikely...

Both up for meeting singly or as a couple (he doesn't always take part even if he's there) - she's played alone before - he hasn't but would love to with the right couple.

She's usually submissive, and loves being dominated. He likes to take control, and is naturally authoritative and masterful, without being rough or cruel. He also enjoys seeing her having fun, and especially being made to submit...