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Zeddies
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 52
Bisexual Female, 65
0 miles · Tyne and Wear

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Quote by keeno
And another thing
There seems to be an obsession with sex amongest the membership. I think this ought to be cleaned up as well biggrin :D

true lol :lol:
Quote by Steve

I did read what you put so if someone hasn't logged on for 2000+ days then should they still remain on the chance that they may return.... why not if they haven't logged on for 2000+ they get a message being sent asking if they want to remain members. And why should paying members use slow servers because someone who got free membership and doesn't use sh, remains on?

I fail to see how it inconveniences you dunno
And the servers aren't slow at my end so there cant be a problem with the site due to thousands of inactive profiles.......Speak to your ISP ;-)
The inconvenience is if you search for a someone near you then hundreds of profiles come up and over half haven't visited in ages..... then people who are local and recent are mixed up with them. ISP??? why when other people experience server slow downs including chatrooms.
Quote by keeno
Not very keen on profiles been deleted. I disappeared for about 9 months and then came back so I'm glad that that KEENO was still here waiting for me. biggrin
But I would love to see a deletion of old adverts. This could be a very short period of time, say 14 days.
If an ad isn't updated after 2 weeks its deleted.

Keeno I agree with you its for people over 4/5 years, not a year or month.
I will edit my first post to clarify this.
Quote by deancannock
might be an idea.......to say send a pm out out to all members..saying that if account not used for say 48 monthes then their profile would be deleted. We would all be well aware.... could also send an out the week before actual deletion...givng them chance to log on. Would help a little to see the real list of active members I think.

Thats the kind of idea I have.
On the contrary.....
It would appear you didnt read what I said....
Quote by Steve
They only have to do 1 munch a year or even less so how long its been since they logged in has no real bearing....
Some may have taken time out to have families......Work commitments......Taking time out from swinging.......The possibilities are endless...

I did read what you put so if someone hasn't logged on for 2000+ days then should they still remain on the chance that they may return.... why not if they haven't logged on for 2000+ they get a message being sent asking if they want to remain members. And why should paying members use slow servers because someone who got free membership and doesn't use sh, remains on?
Quote by Too Hot
Excuse my cynicism but does it not also have a commercial value to say 'almost 1,000,000 members as opposed to saying 50,000 active members. rolleyes

Probably you are right but wouldn't it be better for members
Quote by Steve
So how did you get your pm without logging on?
Is there any point to you posting the same bit of information twice dunno

We how can you get your pm without logging on? seems like you didn't read what it said.
Quote by Steve
They only have to do 1 munch a year or even less so how long its been since they logged in has no real bearing....
Some may have taken time out to have families......Work commitments......Taking time out from swinging.......The possibilities are endless...
Many members have had profiles since before the takeover so therefore they have a free membership that doesnt expire...
Oh........And I am well aware of what a Munch is............I've been to one or two....

What's a Munch?
You'll find organised Swingers Munches 'stickied' at the top of the Let's Meet Up forum. Usually they are centrally organised by one or two people who are more than likely well known members of Swinging Heaven. The exact location is kept strictly secret between the organisers and those who have been invited; strictly secret before and after the event. Organisers will usually only give out the exact location information to those who are invited just a few days before the event.
How much detail do I publish in the forum?
The date, approximate location (e.g. Manchester) and maximum allowed to attend, if necessary.The exact details of the pub/club etc, should only be sent out by PM about a week before and ONLY to those invited. You must also stress to those invited NOT to pass on the details to anyone else, no matter what excuse they come up with.Don't forget people may want overnight accommodation, so it's worth getting a contact list of local hotels and B&Bs ready as early as possible so that people can book ahead.But these details must be sent by Private Message ONLY and not published in the open forum or discussed in the Chat Room.
So how did you get your pm without logging on?
Quote by Steve
Just because they haven't visited for ages doesn't mean they never will again....
If there profile was deleted then they would have to rejoin and pay....Not fair really....
Some people browse the forums without logging in and keep their membership to go to munches in their area also...

Taken this off our profile on the left
Status:Almost Married
Looking for:
Gay Single FemaleBi Single Female
Straight Single FemaleStraight Couple
Couple with Bi FemaleGay Female Couple
Last online:25 minutes ago
Member since:November 2004
Location:NE30, North Shields
(0 miles from you)

Give the last login.... so someone not logged in for 2000+ days then how can they go to munchies without logging in and finding out where the munchy is?
As far as paying I though the subscription runs out after 12month and so do extras.
This is taken from the sh...section on munch
What's a Munch?
You'll find organised Swingers Munches 'stickied' at the top of the Let's Meet Up forum. Usually they are centrally organised by one or two people who are more than likely well known members of Swinging Heaven. The exact location is kept strictly secret between the organisers and those who have been invited; strictly secret before and after the event. Organisers will usually only give out the exact location information to those who are invited just a few days before the event.
How much detail do I publish in the forum?
The date, approximate location (e.g. Manchester) and maximum allowed to attend, if necessary. The exact details of the pub/club etc, should only be sent out by PM about a week before and ONLY to those invited. You must also stress to those invited NOT to pass on the details to anyone else, no matter what excuse they come up with. Don't forget people may want overnight accommodation, so it's worth getting a contact list of local hotels and B&Bs ready as early as possible so that people can book ahead. But these details must be sent by Private Message ONLY and not published in the open forum or discussed in the Chat Room.
There seems to be loads of profile on swinging heaven that now of people that haven't visited for ages (for people over 4/5 years, not a year or month). Do you agree it is time that these profile should be removed. The reason for this suggestion is when people search then you wouldn't get a profile of some that isn't visiting or using SH and would free up server space.
Sorry edit knocked off poll.
firehott00001 added your choices one mild, one madras thanks and confirmed you.
xxxxx
Quote by northeastcoupleuk
no but you can ask ..DUG rolleyes

Sadly Dug is busy getting out of hole, was going to ask cliff but he's too far near the sea. :roll:
Quote by northeastcoupleuk
Dont forget our floor space plz zed
Joy

Sorry we did forget lol.... done xxxxx
In the back garden next to the grave yard lol....ya got ya space :arrow:
Hard work this digging, wana come give us a hand :twisted:
Quote by jaymar
Kleftika.
:lickface:

Oh god how I love you!!!... biggrin
How could I forget my love for Greek (food before any naughty people insinuate other.... wink ).
Kleftika/Kleftiko
Stifado
Greek Salad
Tzaziki...(sp) and GREEK pitta! mmmmmm
should I stop now?? surprised
Hungery now lol
A old indian saying.
Prophecy is whatever one makes it, but destiny cannot be changed.
Quote by Sassy-Seren
One of my fave sayings is 'Just when I make ends meet, some bastard moves the ends' Never a truer word spoken in jest rolleyes

Thats a good one.... lol
Quote by Ian
You mean you are supposed to have money left at the end of the month lol
I'm a parent, I now keep photo's where I used to keep money.
Ian

True only trying to find out where you all keep yours :lol:
Quote by winchwench
Kleftika.
:lickface:

That is well yummy. If you want to try it...
Kleftika
1 lb Lamb pieces, cut into 1” cubes
1 medium onion chopped 1 12 oz can plum tomatoes
1 t cinnamon
1 t fresh oregano
3 med potatoes, cut into 1” cubes
½ cup shredded mozarella
Combine lamb, onions, tomatoes and spice and place 4 individual casserole bowls or a shallow baking pan.
Top with potatoes sprinkle with mozzarella.
Bake 1 ½ hrs until meat is tender.
Quote by Phuckers
Deecee thanks for that eye opening speech but can you please explain why Ian Huntley's previous chargers were not made public during the double murder trial?

Yep
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
I often work from home and find it can be so easy to get distracted, but it is this place which distracts me. Infact, I am supposed to be working now and only nipped on for a quick nosey, but an hour and a half later, Im still here lol I normally find that using my works laptop, which is very restricted over what it can and cant access on the internet helps, but then I cheat and turn the PC on as well rolleyes
Glad it isnt just me who procrastinates :lol:

Ditto :lol:
excellent but 100% is a whole, so how do we get 110%, is that the whole of that person sure and 10% if someone else... lol
Another bank goes bust, is your money safe. Sometimes takes months to get your money back.
Your views
Quote by Mr_mrs_joy
Dont forget our floor space plz zed
Joy

Sorry we did forget lol.... done xxxxx
Quote by andrew73
have you room for one more, not too bothered about eating, just looking to meet a few people

At moment we are not taking anymore people but we will let you know asap there is a place, we did same for others here too.
Quote by Koogar
this diet Imo is great for dogs there are a few drawbacks! Time, money and access to the foods. everything is pretty much fresh and has to prepared by you, as opposed to complete dry foods that you scoop up the correct amount according to breed/ weight and similar for tinned food with biscuits. Basically feeding your dog this ensure they have a diet that isnt processed but its not cheap its time consuming and some people just cant stomach it.
look online for the uk barf club for more info.
hope this helps
koo xx

Thanks taking a look xxx
Quote by Markandjune
if it not to late can u add us to list if possible ,if itayesthen can we have 2 mild currys andifu pm us your address we will dropin a cheque

Get your glad wrags your going to the ball x