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ok well thanx everyone for replying....
so if anyone that is under 40 fancy a little fun with a 19yo then come and see bex lol
Thats me out then :-(
See you then then ...
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alaninuk
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Bi-curious Male, 59
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Sexlightened
Hang on am i being accused of being old ?? 
I would say it is the usual chams age range - 20-60. I dont think there is a correlation between being gerriatric and swinging on a thursday - but i may be wrong !
As far as i know there is no difference for a thursday to any other night of the week or weekend - but if anyone has any differing opinions lets hear them !
I would say it is the usual chams age range - 20-60. I dont think there is a correlation between being gerriatric and swinging on a thursday - but i may be wrong !
As far as i know there is no difference for a thursday to any other night of the week or weekend - but if anyone has any differing opinions lets hear them !
Quote by crndaniel
whats the age group on a thursday night?? my FB and her friend are only 20 come on truth is it full of older people on a thursday lol lol :-)
Sexlightened
Hi Dan
My Swing buddy and i are also going this thursday. It tends to be a lot quieter than a weekend i have been there with as few as 10 couples and a 20 or so single guys- This can be good - if there are people you click with there then you can get a room - but if its a numbers game there is less chance of coming across people you click with. So swings and roundabouts ! Personally i have had some great times on a thursday - but its pot luck !!
Umm is that glass half full or half empty ?
Alan
ouch sitting on this fence is giving me piles !!
My Swing buddy and i are also going this thursday. It tends to be a lot quieter than a weekend i have been there with as few as 10 couples and a 20 or so single guys- This can be good - if there are people you click with there then you can get a room - but if its a numbers game there is less chance of coming across people you click with. So swings and roundabouts ! Personally i have had some great times on a thursday - but its pot luck !!
Umm is that glass half full or half empty ?
Alan
ouch sitting on this fence is giving me piles !!
Sexlightened
I know its been a long time since there has been any input into this thread but I have only just managed to finish reading the first post! – slow or what!
I thought I would put a single ish guys perspective into the conversation. First off hats of to DG – it must be very daunting on one’s first visit – has a single girl ever been on their own completely ?? – that I imagine takes more balls that I have. But everyone must have their first time !
I have been going to chams on and off for about 18 months now. Although its miles away form me I have been working on business not too far away and my original motive was really to avoid night in my hotel room alone ! It is incredibly tedious believe me ! As a result I usually only go there midweek so it can be fairly quiet.
I am horrified that you were effectively accosted by a guy there – that is completely out of order – I would vote with northwest cpl and have him reported. But that’s water under the bridge.
It is amusing to see (and hear) the way some guys act in places like Chams. Some are definitely of the opinion they have paid their £30 and so expect a shag – it makes my skin crawl to be honest – hardly treating people with any respect. I am glad to say that most of the time they are put in their place.
The other past time I enjoy is watching the trail of blokes you get following a girl or couple on the quieter nights. – Just hum the tune from Benny Hill to yourself and it provides light entertainment.
I have enjoyed just about all my visits there – this may however be that I go without any expectations and so am never disappointed – I think its an important mindset to get in before going. As I said the prime motive is socialising – it seems so much easier to talk to people in that environment rather then a hotel bar. And I guess I am a people person so like chatting away.
As regards the actual questions
– my first time was several years ago so I cant really remember – and I am a bloke so it is of no great insight !
– Method of approach – probably rubbish – eye contact, slight smile, engage in conversation. I like to chat – and as its often with couples I think it’s the least one can do. I am however fairly rubbish at moving it towards major flirtation and potential playing. I usually wait to be invited to a room by the girl / Couple and very seldom ask ( it maybe that if you don’t ask you cant be rejected and so ego remains in tact. I have, I know, missed several opportunities by being too slow in coming forward – there is a mass of competition for us single guys – most of whom are younger, better looking and in better shape !
– Preferred receipt of approach – get in here and shag me works for me! Actually that’s a lie I would probably run as I am clearly a chicken at heart. Some very horny experiences for me have been just gentle contact. Standing watching at a window or at the edge of an open room. After some small talk I have had ladies just very slightly move so there arms/ hands come into contact with mine – there is that very slight spark of excitement – its electric – then some more obvious movement so that real contact is made and by then even I get the message !! I have had occasions where I have had my manhood grabbed almost before saying hello – this can be great if you fancy the grabber but on a few occasions I haven’t – but acting a bit dumb and making my excuses works for me. Generally conversation and an invite to play is best but on the few occasions never having talked to the person can make the experience highly erotic.
Ok just to be clear as to the single ish bit in my post. On several occasions I have visited cams with a swing buddy – we go together for company and have played together on occasions but she does like the attention of lots of guys at a time (which doesn’t work for me at all - 3 is my limit). As a result I am a single guy with a couples key fob – I haven’t yet worked out if that make sit easier to strike up conversation – and one day I will attempt to make a study of that but not for sometime as its fun we want !
OK can someone pass around the defibrillator as if anyone has read all this they may need it !
Alan
:-)
I thought I would put a single ish guys perspective into the conversation. First off hats of to DG – it must be very daunting on one’s first visit – has a single girl ever been on their own completely ?? – that I imagine takes more balls that I have. But everyone must have their first time !
I have been going to chams on and off for about 18 months now. Although its miles away form me I have been working on business not too far away and my original motive was really to avoid night in my hotel room alone ! It is incredibly tedious believe me ! As a result I usually only go there midweek so it can be fairly quiet.
I am horrified that you were effectively accosted by a guy there – that is completely out of order – I would vote with northwest cpl and have him reported. But that’s water under the bridge.
It is amusing to see (and hear) the way some guys act in places like Chams. Some are definitely of the opinion they have paid their £30 and so expect a shag – it makes my skin crawl to be honest – hardly treating people with any respect. I am glad to say that most of the time they are put in their place.
The other past time I enjoy is watching the trail of blokes you get following a girl or couple on the quieter nights. – Just hum the tune from Benny Hill to yourself and it provides light entertainment.
I have enjoyed just about all my visits there – this may however be that I go without any expectations and so am never disappointed – I think its an important mindset to get in before going. As I said the prime motive is socialising – it seems so much easier to talk to people in that environment rather then a hotel bar. And I guess I am a people person so like chatting away.
As regards the actual questions
– my first time was several years ago so I cant really remember – and I am a bloke so it is of no great insight !
– Method of approach – probably rubbish – eye contact, slight smile, engage in conversation. I like to chat – and as its often with couples I think it’s the least one can do. I am however fairly rubbish at moving it towards major flirtation and potential playing. I usually wait to be invited to a room by the girl / Couple and very seldom ask ( it maybe that if you don’t ask you cant be rejected and so ego remains in tact. I have, I know, missed several opportunities by being too slow in coming forward – there is a mass of competition for us single guys – most of whom are younger, better looking and in better shape !
– Preferred receipt of approach – get in here and shag me works for me! Actually that’s a lie I would probably run as I am clearly a chicken at heart. Some very horny experiences for me have been just gentle contact. Standing watching at a window or at the edge of an open room. After some small talk I have had ladies just very slightly move so there arms/ hands come into contact with mine – there is that very slight spark of excitement – its electric – then some more obvious movement so that real contact is made and by then even I get the message !! I have had occasions where I have had my manhood grabbed almost before saying hello – this can be great if you fancy the grabber but on a few occasions I haven’t – but acting a bit dumb and making my excuses works for me. Generally conversation and an invite to play is best but on the few occasions never having talked to the person can make the experience highly erotic.
Ok just to be clear as to the single ish bit in my post. On several occasions I have visited cams with a swing buddy – we go together for company and have played together on occasions but she does like the attention of lots of guys at a time (which doesn’t work for me at all - 3 is my limit). As a result I am a single guy with a couples key fob – I haven’t yet worked out if that make sit easier to strike up conversation – and one day I will attempt to make a study of that but not for sometime as its fun we want !
OK can someone pass around the defibrillator as if anyone has read all this they may need it !
Alan
:-)
Sexlightened
Quote by dippergt750
As is usual on here we have had 8 guys send us " can we meet sometime 'cause you sound really sexy" type messages.
2 Guys have asked us to travel over 200 miles, not on Friday as we advertised, but at THEIR convenience.
Not one serious reply.
Forget it, we'll go dogging instead!
What a shame - poor show guys !
Sexlightened
Quote by krazykayaker
What, 283 views and not 1 reply? :cry:
The problem mis who is going to admitt to being small in the tackle department ??
I would love to help out but:
Not a couple
Blooming miles away
not much difference in size from Mr KK's weapon. judging by the pics :-)
How about starting off with thin toys ? - they have a slightly smaller ego than us blokes so dont mind being called small and thin ! - Just a thought
Alan
Sexlightened
Ok so a debate has almost started - perhaps a new topic - 'has the recession changed your frequency for going to clubs' May be in order.
setting it up is beyond my capabilites (as so much is) so over to someone else !
Begging letter greatfully recived - but also probably beyond my abilites ! - if dipper and Ice want to be accompanied to thier local one day then i am open to persuasion !
setting it up is beyond my capabilites (as so much is) so over to someone else !
Begging letter greatfully recived - but also probably beyond my abilites ! - if dipper and Ice want to be accompanied to thier local one day then i am open to persuasion !
Sexlightened
Quote by dippergt750
Called the credit crunch chum.....have you not noticed the huge drop in attendance generally at most clubs?
Has there been a drop off in attendance - due to the credit crunch? I guess maybe. I thought it was just people avoiding me ! -phew.. Then again i cant say i have ever paid an entrance with a credit card.
Although to be fair it tends to be good value for a night of fun - cheaper than the pub for socalising i would think and if a good time is had then great value - not that there is anything to really compare prices with. Maybe we can explore this topic further !
Alan
Sexlightened
hi all
Just wonedring if there were any frequenters (is that a word?) of the Wednesday Kestral Hydro Parties.
I am planning to go on the 18th on my way down to the west country. i have a committment first which means that i wont be able to get there until around - 10 ish. I note its open until 12 but is it worth turning up that late - is it at all well attended ? - I have been a few times in the day and have had some great times. Just wondering if it is worth getting out of the committment to arrive earlier or is it like may places - it doesnt warm up until anyway ?
Thanks in advance for any advice
Alan xx
Just wonedring if there were any frequenters (is that a word?) of the Wednesday Kestral Hydro Parties.
I am planning to go on the 18th on my way down to the west country. i have a committment first which means that i wont be able to get there until around - 10 ish. I note its open until 12 but is it worth turning up that late - is it at all well attended ? - I have been a few times in the day and have had some great times. Just wondering if it is worth getting out of the committment to arrive earlier or is it like may places - it doesnt warm up until anyway ?
Thanks in advance for any advice
Alan xx
Sexlightened
My regular swing buddy is otherwised enagaged this week so i was was wondering if there were any ladies wanting to accompany me to chameleons on either tuesday or wedensday this week.
I am an average 42 year old guy and will be travelling up from around gloucester to Chams in Birmingham on both evenings from around 7 until the bitter end unless we both get boared or earlier return required. So anyone near the M5 for that part who wants to be accompanied then please let me know. I hope to be back with my regular buddy next time so it may not be particulalry repeatable but who knows.
I am sure i can put you in touch with her and others if refernces required !
Alan
PS If this doesnt work out and there are any couples on the way that want a lift there and back please also get in touch - we can beat that credit crunch - have fun and be green !
I am an average 42 year old guy and will be travelling up from around gloucester to Chams in Birmingham on both evenings from around 7 until the bitter end unless we both get boared or earlier return required. So anyone near the M5 for that part who wants to be accompanied then please let me know. I hope to be back with my regular buddy next time so it may not be particulalry repeatable but who knows.
I am sure i can put you in touch with her and others if refernces required !
Alan
PS If this doesnt work out and there are any couples on the way that want a lift there and back please also get in touch - we can beat that credit crunch - have fun and be green !
Sexlightened
My lord and lady ...
I guess what you are after is a 'day room'
Many London hotels offer this as do those near airports. If you know where you want to play have a look around for hotels and just ring up and ask for their day room rate. - slightly easier then saying you want a room for a daytime shag ...
If you want any more assistance then please let me know
Alan
I guess what you are after is a 'day room'
Many London hotels offer this as do those near airports. If you know where you want to play have a look around for hotels and just ring up and ask for their day room rate. - slightly easier then saying you want a room for a daytime shag ...
If you want any more assistance then please let me know
Alan
Sexlightened
Ohh they have a wednesday party night - now why didnt i spot that earlier - wouldn't have agreed to go up to Cams that evening - ho humm.
Well as i said earlier i may well pop in for the afternoon on my way down to the Midlands but will be leaving by 4 PM - not sure if that counts !
Oh yes and looking at the entry prices - anyone wanting to make a couple up by accompanying me - or i guess ssssmithy - i would love to hear form you ( well it is a recession !! )
Maybe see peeps there
Alan
Well as i said earlier i may well pop in for the afternoon on my way down to the Midlands but will be leaving by 4 PM - not sure if that counts !
Oh yes and looking at the entry prices - anyone wanting to make a couple up by accompanying me - or i guess ssssmithy - i would love to hear form you ( well it is a recession !! )
Maybe see peeps there
Alan
Sexlightened
Ohh thaths handy - was just condidering popping in there on my way down to the west country again on wednesday !
Now that could be the clincher !!
You there lunchtime ish then ? This time however i must leave by 4 - last time i got a bit waylaid and got caught in horrendouse traffic !!
:-)
Now that could be the clincher !!
You there lunchtime ish then ? This time however i must leave by 4 - last time i got a bit waylaid and got caught in horrendouse traffic !!
:-)
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Im goin weds lol
Sexlightened
Isn't that just typical - I am not going until next wednesday 27th - so near and yet so far. 
It would however be very useful to know what it is like on wednesday afternoons - are there many people there - i will be going with a friend as a couple - not that i imagine that makes any difference ! We are toying with the idea of starting early but may just leave it to the evening if it is very quiet generally
So anyfeedback would be greatfully recived ! - and if you want to repeat the visit one week later then whey hey !!
Alan
It would however be very useful to know what it is like on wednesday afternoons - are there many people there - i will be going with a friend as a couple - not that i imagine that makes any difference ! We are toying with the idea of starting early but may just leave it to the evening if it is very quiet generally
So anyfeedback would be greatfully recived ! - and if you want to repeat the visit one week later then whey hey !!
Alan
