Ok 37 views and no advice ! - ho humm
Is this because few of the forum readers have been ?
Is it because this is a post from a guy ?
Is it because no one cares :-(
Oh well i didnt expect ms right to to say 'come with me and we will have a great time' - but some ideas would have been greatfully recived !
Never mind
Hi Joy
I think there is lots of good advice to be had on here.
I should be perfectly reasonable to meet up social first. I would suggest a lunch time – say your on lunch hour then there will be an easy end to the occasion if all is not what it seems. Lunchtime is less pressured than an evening drink – every reason to remain completely sober and then you will get to know the other person reasonably well. Clearly they could still be an axe murderer but hey !!
Having 2 older teenage daughters I have been horrified as to what can happen in pubs and clubs with various items added to drinks etc so I would always suggest avoiding those places for a first meeting.
I think the easiest first non social meeting should take place in a club – ok that may put off some people and I have no idea what the clubs are like around you. It does meant hat thre are lots of people around you who are there doing much the same and for whom there will be no embarrassment if things don’t go well. And three is always the added advantage that if there a crap shag and your unfulfilled then there will always be plenty of people around to choose to try for a better time.
I think the idea of a confident with whom you can text is a great one. I wonder if there are girls on this site who have seen it / done it all who would act in that capacity. – any volunteers ?
It is important to be relaxed otherwise the whole point will be wasted if your wondering about the person your with – they always say if you cant relax you cant enjoy and to me that defeats the object !
Anyways have fun
Alan
Cheers for another great night guys
Good to see so many people
Thanks
Alan
here is my 2p's worth
Supermarkets sell at a loss to get people in - they are not trying to get people drunk there after making money (interesting point flower about the unhealthy stuff)
Cheap booze does not lead to drunkeness - trouble spots arnt near supermarkets there near clubs -
On the continent booze is very much cheaper (strength of the Euro excepted ) - they dont have the problem.
Our problem is a cultural one - we (like the americans) seem to be children when it comes to getting drunk.
Soul girl and geordiecpl have it exactly - if we are brought up understanding drinking responsably then the eventual adult is less prone to binge drinking (as per the continent)
As i recall when younger - (not that long ago i hasten to add ! ) you used to be able to have beer or wine with a meal in a pub at 16 - does that still apply?
should this be encouraged ?
Out of change so will shut up !
I cant go - but am due to be there on the 22nd November - so close yet so far.
Bugger :-(
Many of the large hotels in london do what is called a 'dayroom' These are normally cheaper then the overnight rates and generally run from 10 - 4 ish
I think they are designed for meetings or daytime siestas. From my experience there is no problem with these and the advantage is that you can check out early evening without any raised eyebrows of buggering off before the night !
Try phoning a few in the area you want and just ask for their day room rate - that should give you an indication if they do it. The only few i have tired are places like the charing cross thistle and the strand palace - these arnt particularly cheap though !
Have fun !!
Surely the answer for most blokes who are after all by definition exceptionally shallow is....
We aint fussy !
Personally i like the one on the end of my tongue and fingers !
Clean and fresh is a given !- we aint that shallow.
To expand on the 'look' element ...
How about taste ?
There is great variety - most are umm but some are wow tastes fantastic
Alan
Just to apply some economics:
Take a quiet thursday for example :
Say 30 Guys @ 30 900
15 couples @20 300
5 ladies @ 5 25
Total take 1225
fair pricing - assuming couples are 1 person
1225/50 people £25 each
Take a busy friday :
75 guys @ 30 2,250
50 couples @ 20 1000
15 ladies @5 75
total 3,325
fair - 3,325/140 people £24 each
This is a small saving for the blokes same ish for the couples but a killer for the single girls. Would encourage single girls to accompany single guys - is that a good thing ?
So the Question arises - If clubs make pricing fair will people go ?
It would be interesting to see as we as a society become more equal sexually and ladies who like clubs are similar in number as guys then maybe prices will near equality - until then we are stuck i think.
anyway if it was much cheaper we would go more and it may be less exciting ....
just a thought
Ok I know this will Kill of the rest of the List but can you add mee tooo please
Cheers
Alan
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Shame your not going on wednesday the 9th - It could be a fun evening ...again :-)
XX
Ohh congratulations will be in order
Can you put myself and Venus down for the night time fun and games please :-)
now we need to avoid games like kerplunk and pick up sticks i guess - so question is who is bringing the twister mat ?
Alan and Venus
Ohh sounds interesting
Clothed Female Naked Male - umm different
Can't say i had though about it but ........
PS I think you meant Thursday 30th July
Alan
Hi Bouncy
If there is any more room i would love to be included on the list - already a Chams member so really being a cheapskate !! - Ta
:-)
Alan
Thanks for organising Sunday
sorry i dint thank you in person - but i am slow.....
I Had a fun time ;-) and it sounds like everyone else did too - congrats etc...
Alan
I hope you had fun today
personally i am planing on hitting Kestrals on Wednesday evening - not so dependant on weather although just at them oment its a lovely evening !!
See whoever is there Wednesday
No idea on Our place for fun then ? - shame 
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