Hi jo,
I met at the bbq and have met you a few times at other locations love to be invited to party, not really an xmas person so got lots of time on hands for fun fun fun...
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andy_loki
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 60
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Warming the Bed
I agree with alot of your points i find that dogging has changed alot and the people that used to go seem to have either stopped or moved on to other things. I know a few couples that used to go and have paired up with either males or couples and have their own fun in either their homes or clubs. It does appear that some people use dogging as a way of meeting like minded souls for friendship, with a little bit of sex mixed in along the way. Its not a problem with me however NSA (sorry not new sexually transmitted disease) No Strings Attached, is not always no strings as we are all human and we bond and separate like in other areas of society.
The point i am trying loosely to get across is that as dogging has evolved then we as watchers and players must evolve. I know there have been times when i have walked away from the scene for a number of months only to come back and find that most of the people i know have moved on. I know quite a few have moved into the clubs scene, i do agree the lighting is better and not gettin soaked or have a freezing cold gust up the crack of my arse or chased with a big stick are all good points to consider. I just think its each to their own and a bit of variety is all well and good for everyone.
The point i am trying loosely to get across is that as dogging has evolved then we as watchers and players must evolve. I know there have been times when i have walked away from the scene for a number of months only to come back and find that most of the people i know have moved on. I know quite a few have moved into the clubs scene, i do agree the lighting is better and not gettin soaked or have a freezing cold gust up the crack of my arse or chased with a big stick are all good points to consider. I just think its each to their own and a bit of variety is all well and good for everyone.
Warming the Bed
I started this off in april 2005 and its still going. It does appear that dogging has been affected by the internet, in such that it has opened quite a private activity to the general public. I have friends who say that their kids talk about it in school which is something i find appaling. This has been going on for a very long time in guise or another and has evolved over the years. I do feel now that arranged meets are more the norm although the reason why alot of people got into dogging was the apprehension that someone may be looking or a couple may want you to watch etc. If pre arranged meets become the norm then its not a problem as far as i see it however it may change the people that go. I know doggers who don't want to be seen by the people that they are watching, some go to such extremes as night vision kit and wearing dark clothes and crawling around as to not be seen.
Warming the Bed
i know big g is a moderator and all that however myself and the other posters are not moaning i feel we are trying to hark back to better times. these times were only a few years back maybe three or four years gone by. i totaly disagree that because we want to buck the trend and aspire to dogging how it used to be. then we should ship out. i suppose when hitler was killing the jews it would have been easier for the people who disented to ship out however we like them are made of sterner stuff and will strive for dogging like it used to be. as one of the last posters stated the thrill of waiting is probably the best part.
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the problem these days is that with the threat of the police taking you to court etc putting name in paper etc. then everyone has got very very edgy. understandably so in my opinion however i have not seen anyone arrested myself and talking to other like minded night owls no alot of people have seen or heard anything apart from some rumours. yes it is a threat however i remember at a beach one time when a couple were playing to the crowd and a lad went home got his camcorder came back and started taping it. absolutely amazing the couple didn't mind at all. as always the couples hold the upper hand as is right and the single fellas are willing observers . with the advent of internet balnce has changed and more single fellas than ever before.
Warming the Bed
hi dave are you still running the wanking club for the north west. is there any chance you could bring your girl along and then jo mite come as well.... if u would have advertised the wanking club that way and said u had a girlfriend i think you would have been overun with offers
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I didn't realise i would get such a response. I agree and disagree with quite a few comments however the fact that people have a genuine opinion about the subject it gratifying and makes me realise that there are still alot of genuine doggers out there.
I agree that the lines have been blured however i don't mind watching a couple if they are just wanting a bit of al fresco sex and as long as they are happy with that then wheres the harm....
I do think that dogging has changed, i suppose that it hit its high prior to mr collymore and then with the newspapers advertising sites (IN THE PUBLIC INTEREST MIND YOU) it came to the attention of the police. the thing is when i used to go quite regularly which wasn't that long ago, the police where there at times and used to chase people etc. So it does seem daft that the police want to be more visible.
Talking about lines being blurred i used to like visiting naturist beaches which also seems to have dwindled. As was said earlier about the availability of porn these days, you would think that topless beaches etc would be more prevalent. Funnily enough the last time i saw a bare boob was in asda when a very lovely mature lady was reaching into one of the freezers. FORGET ABOUT DOGGING AND NUDE BEACHES LETS ALL GO TO ASDA. (SORRY ABOUT THE ADVERT FOR ASDA) IF THE MODERATOR IS WATCHING PLEASE DON'T BAR ME FOR ADVERTISING AND NO I DO NOT WORK FOR THEM EITHER...
I agree that the lines have been blured however i don't mind watching a couple if they are just wanting a bit of al fresco sex and as long as they are happy with that then wheres the harm....
I do think that dogging has changed, i suppose that it hit its high prior to mr collymore and then with the newspapers advertising sites (IN THE PUBLIC INTEREST MIND YOU) it came to the attention of the police. the thing is when i used to go quite regularly which wasn't that long ago, the police where there at times and used to chase people etc. So it does seem daft that the police want to be more visible.
Talking about lines being blurred i used to like visiting naturist beaches which also seems to have dwindled. As was said earlier about the availability of porn these days, you would think that topless beaches etc would be more prevalent. Funnily enough the last time i saw a bare boob was in asda when a very lovely mature lady was reaching into one of the freezers. FORGET ABOUT DOGGING AND NUDE BEACHES LETS ALL GO TO ASDA. (SORRY ABOUT THE ADVERT FOR ASDA) IF THE MODERATOR IS WATCHING PLEASE DON'T BAR ME FOR ADVERTISING AND NO I DO NOT WORK FOR THEM EITHER...
Warming the Bed
it used to be alot of fun. these days what happens...
if you don't have mindless little kiddies in their stolen cars having (how to drive really fast lessons) then you get idiots who go to locations ith the attitude as you say that its their right to see..
i have at times been accused as most people will have been of moving in on another doggers patch as it were. i look at it that you need to give people space however if someone is that far away that when the couple single for him to come over and he can't see because his nite sites won't go that far then its fair game.
i also have a problem with clubs that charge outrageous prices for single males.
finaly and i will then get off my soapbox. i trend i have noticed over the last few years becomming more prevalent is the COUPLES FOR COUPLES ONLY groups. i don't have a problem with this however if single fellas are respectfull and not trying to get in the car with the couples then i can't see a problem with them being veiwed at a respectable distance. alot of COUPLES FOR COUPLES meet up near the fellas then find it strange that the fellas want to watch and don't like it when they do. i have also noticed a trend of couples who seek out other couples only then to get them to join the COUPLES FOR COUPLES GROUP
dont know if i'm alone on this one
sorry for being a tad angry but dogging used to be quite a social pastime. sometimes on the odd occasion god forbid couples and singles met and no shagging took place and everyone went home happy..
if you don't have mindless little kiddies in their stolen cars having (how to drive really fast lessons) then you get idiots who go to locations ith the attitude as you say that its their right to see..
i have at times been accused as most people will have been of moving in on another doggers patch as it were. i look at it that you need to give people space however if someone is that far away that when the couple single for him to come over and he can't see because his nite sites won't go that far then its fair game.
i also have a problem with clubs that charge outrageous prices for single males.
finaly and i will then get off my soapbox. i trend i have noticed over the last few years becomming more prevalent is the COUPLES FOR COUPLES ONLY groups. i don't have a problem with this however if single fellas are respectfull and not trying to get in the car with the couples then i can't see a problem with them being veiwed at a respectable distance. alot of COUPLES FOR COUPLES meet up near the fellas then find it strange that the fellas want to watch and don't like it when they do. i have also noticed a trend of couples who seek out other couples only then to get them to join the COUPLES FOR COUPLES GROUP
dont know if i'm alone on this one
sorry for being a tad angry but dogging used to be quite a social pastime. sometimes on the odd occasion god forbid couples and singles met and no shagging took place and everyone went home happy..
Warming the Bed
I remember when i was regularly dogging a few years ago that there was far more couples etc out being watched.
i remember the thrill of going to a location hoping that you may see someone. I remember catching a glimpse of something and thinking you had done really well. I remember meeting some very nice people, male and female who were alot of fun and genuinely nice people.
these days it appears that you arrange to meet someone and then go back somewhere for fun. thats not dogging, wheres the fun in that, wheres the fun in shagging on a sofa compared to the back of a car or even the floor or a picnic table...
any thoughts love to get back to the old days. not so long ago
i remember the thrill of going to a location hoping that you may see someone. I remember catching a glimpse of something and thinking you had done really well. I remember meeting some very nice people, male and female who were alot of fun and genuinely nice people.
these days it appears that you arrange to meet someone and then go back somewhere for fun. thats not dogging, wheres the fun in that, wheres the fun in shagging on a sofa compared to the back of a car or even the floor or a picnic table...
any thoughts love to get back to the old days. not so long ago
