I'm nearing 40, although I don't think I look it, and sure as hell don't feel it!

I'm an upbeat guy (which is hard to maintain when online these days) with a good outlook and wicked sense of humour.

I'm reasonably hung (around the 8inch mark) fairly fit and clean shaven. I don't smoke, and drink tea (I like to be able to leave at any point and be sober during fun).

I do not care if you smoke, or drink. Although arriving at a house and discovering the wife is bladdered and cannot stand is not attractive!

I have been on the scene for many years, as a single and as part of a couple and I guess here are the most important things you need to know:

1) I will send a recent facial picture of asked to do so and will not sulk if you're not interested

2) I can accommodate and travel, but initially I prefer to travel or enjoy a social.

3) I am prepared to come over for a 'play' if it's not last minute.

4) I am able to stay hard with others in the room (I know a lot of husbands enjoy seeing their wife get fucked)

5) If I say I will be there, then I will be there (short of breakdown, crash, or illness) but will phone you/face time you to prove these things!