Find my current life / arrangements, rather tedious. Looking for pleasant, intelligent women/couples, sliding reluctantly into middle age. 

Dirty minds are to be encouraged, all manner of sexual exploration is welcomed. Don't have the body of an Adonis any longer (sic), and not looking for the perfectly shaped woman either. A sexy personality is always a bigger turn on.

Happy to take things slowly, chatting first, and then taking it from there.