hi peeps can any one help us we are cple looking for a light hearted introduction to bdsm please note this is our first time wifes feels the need to explore her dom side and like to slap some ones arse ,wont let her do mine so thinking of going to some club any addvice that would help thanx we are 30m 28f very sexy? hi peeps can any one help us we are cple looking for a light hearted introduction to bdsm please note this is our first time wifes feels the need to explore her dom side and like to slap some ones arse ,wont let her do mine so thinking of going to some club any addvice that would help thanx we are 30m 28f very sexy? 