A really useful post. I have issues with this but I am not dry. I usually end up wanking over my partner

At my age, wanking is the best option. I have met quite a few women online, most of them in later years, but a few in their 50's. most of them are well into mutual masturbation, which is the best option for me. I love using my fingers and tongue to make sure they have been pleasured until they have come, sometimes it takes a few comes lol. Then it gives me chance to come over them or in their mouth.